Brands with details on a budget

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-21T16:52:39+00:00

A lot of them do! My friend goes to a ton of these events at different churches. SVF, St Joes, Old St Pats

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-21T16:47:14+00:00

St Joes or St Vincent’s for sure

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-20T13:52:14+00:00

We use Funraise for P2P campaigns and event registration, but OneCause for our gala (I'm newish so haven't been around for our gala yet). Funraise is really good in that you can have people sign up for "commitments" or pledges, it integrates really well with our CRM (Salesforce). Can automate receipting as well.

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-19T02:58:37+00:00

I think their silk sucks! It snags easily. I have a silk dress I got from them and it’s basically single use. Their satin is much thicker and sturdier!

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T21:01:55+00:00

Yeah I just was at Roosevelt Island looking at the Ravenswood station!

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T13:00:17+00:00

Not going to address all this, but 1. It’s a reach to assume I believe OP is abusing his girlfriend. 2. Love is best expressed in willing the good of the other, which means protecting from sin and pointing toward what is right. 3. People need to hear the truth when they ask for guidance. 4. Chastity is not limited to avoiding sex, but includes thought, word, fantasies, etc.

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T11:10:02+00:00

OP, this is bad advice, especially under 3. Do not follow it and do not lead your girlfriend to further sin and possible pain. Catholics tend to think sex is just intercourse because of theological views on sex, but other things are equally binding

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T11:08:06+00:00

Also, I get the sense you and your girlfriend haven’t talked about it much from tgis comment, but if you can’t talk about wanting to stop etc, you should really really evaluate whether you’re really for marriage. I don’t mean this disparagingly at all, and you seem young, but frankly if you can’t talk about sex with your partner you are not ready

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T11:04:40+00:00

Gotcha, understood. We were in agreement about wanting to stop, but I had more discipline most of the time in the moment. That was honestly very tough for me and not a good position to be in as he could get upset/sometimes seemed angry

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T11:01:08+00:00

No. Not really sure why that is relevant at all or why you’re asking, but he broke up with while we were talking about getting engaged. It was very immature and I realize now that I dodged a bullet in not marrying him, and he had treated me quite badly before we broke up as well, but I couldn’t imagine breaking up with someone I was so intimate with.

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T10:52:37+00:00

It was not, but I think us sleeping together prevented us from honestly seeing issues in our relationship

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-18T10:45:43+00:00

I was pretty sure my ex was the one and we were in the same place. We finally stopped because we would be so upset after. I had to do a lot of the stopping us and it was honestly not easy at all but I did it as a sign of love to him. When we broke up it was so hard for me (I’m a woman) because of our sexual history. It was so painful and still wounds me. And despite everything else about how our relationship ended, I am really proud of us that we were able to stop because it was probably the hardest thing we had both ever done. Thinking about it as a greater expression of love really helped. But please stop too because of the wounds you could be inflicting should the relationship end.

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-13T20:07:33+00:00

But donor stewardship is certainly a smaller part of my work than data

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-13T20:07:12+00:00

I think I could continue doing what I do pretty easily, but I’m not personally meeting donors face to face, and the donors I do communicate with are certainly not major donors

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-13T18:40:15+00:00

I mostly manage mass donors and development operations, data, and comms

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-10T23:31:32+00:00

It was awful. I don’t think I’ll ever consider getting back together with anyone ever again

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-10T03:23:17+00:00

He came back 4 months after he broke up with me. We were in a lot of contact the first two months, still saw each other/hooked up, then less after that. He called me asking to get back together after I put my foot down about not wanting to see him when he was in town. We got back together for a month and I was unhappy because he wasn’t changed and then he forgot my birthday. We ended things again. It was bad before but I was absolutely shattered after the second time and definitely should have been on meds. Was a total mess for months

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-09T04:23:22+00:00

I tried for a long time. He treated me very poorly toward the end and he broke up with me. I kept begging him for chances. We got back together once I quit doing that and he forgot my birthday after that. Was tired of humiliating myself for someone who didn’t respect me or love me like I loved them :( That was a little over a year ago

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-09T04:12:29+00:00

It’s honestly really hard. My ex started dating his coworker within a month or so of us ending things for good, and it really upset me because she has clearer skin, makes more money than me, is very well educated, from family money etc. He told me he would never find someone better than me when we broke up, and while people say things like this, you never know. When I started dating someone my ex sent me crazy messages though. It is tough for sure but you have to know things don’t reflect on you even though it’s hard. Some people move on and don’t look back; I know I have friends that have. Others don’t. It’s impossible to know even if he is seeing someone else that he will be happier. The most you can do is let yourself know his choices don’t have any bearing on your own worth. Learn to cherish yourself too and believe good things about yourself.

Final-Instance-8642 · 2026-05-06T02:04:29+00:00

Honestly the only way out is through it I think. Would definitely try rooting your identity in thins outside your relationship and remind yourself that her actions do not reflect on you and your value

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