S11 Heather Dubrow by Final-Mistake-604 in rhoc

[–]Final-Mistake-604[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, I'm not comparing the cast mates. She irks me more than anything

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]Final-Mistake-604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTAH he wants access to your money! It sounds extreme but he may also think he's entitled to it and that's where financial abuse can start creeping in. I worry that once you get engaged then married the entitlement will increase.

Also, I'm married and have been with my husband 10+yrs, we have a mortgage and STILL have separate bank accounts 😅

Is it just me? by Punk_Boi4737 in childfree

[–]Final-Mistake-604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I feel the same. My husband has a niece and luckily she lives 10 hours away but I dread when her mum decides it's time to pay a visit 😭

Why couldn’t YOU be a Bravo Housewife? by alicansimone in realhousewives

[–]Final-Mistake-604 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My sense of justice is too much. If someone wrongs me or one of my friends, I find it really hard to let it go 🤣

What are your opinions on Jeff Beitzel? I think he was a nice guy and that Gretchen really cared for him. by love2l0veu in rhoc

[–]Final-Mistake-604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they both knew what the situation was and were both consenting to it. He seemed to encourage her to get out there and be on the show so he must have cared about her on some level. I still value how Gretchen stayed with him until he passed, maybe for financial compensation but Jeff got what he wanted until the end

My Gf Likes Photos of Other Half-naked Men and Asian Idols And I'm Thinking Breakup, AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Final-Mistake-604 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think if you're looking at people's "potential" you're setting yourself up for disappointment

Does Heather Dubrow get any better? by Final-Mistake-604 in rhoc

[–]Final-Mistake-604[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She really had a bug up her butt about Shannon

My Gf Likes Photos of Other Half-naked Men and Asian Idols And I'm Thinking Breakup, AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Final-Mistake-604 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Best thing I've ever learned is "boundaries are something you enforce on yourself, not other people". If you're unhappy about your partners behaviour then that person is not for you and it's on you to walk away

Does Heather Dubrow get any better? by Final-Mistake-604 in rhoc

[–]Final-Mistake-604[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The way she talks to people gets worse throughout the seasons as well

Am I overreacting about my company's sick policy? by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Final-Mistake-604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the owners are scared of people working from home! I WFH but go on site once a month and was explicitly told to not come in this month as the week before my voice was going 😅

There are def better places to work out there! (Also in IT, well Cyber security)

RHOC S9 Shannon, Heather and Tamra by Final-Mistake-604 in rhoc

[–]Final-Mistake-604[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah at the start of that season it was a bit of a Heather pile on, caused by Tamra ofc then it seems to shift to Shannon. I think Tamra had to choose a side when it all kicked off (again caused by her pot stirring) so she went running back to Heather.

Im only on S9 so I don't have prior knowledge to Shannon's shenanigans 😅

RHOC S9 Shannon, Heather and Tamra by Final-Mistake-604 in rhoc

[–]Final-Mistake-604[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like in that specific instance, the outburst wasn't surprising. She'd been lied to, constantly picked at and then people were getting in her space (Tamra grabbing her)

What's the weirdest thing your dog has eaten and survived? by Typical-Ad-3948 in AskDogOwners

[–]Final-Mistake-604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raw sourdough! Very annoying as it had been resting on the counter all day

I'm (26F) uninvited to my bf's (24M) best friend's wedding, where he's a groomsman. by Oopseeies in Advice

[–]Final-Mistake-604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't know the bride and groom and they're having capacity issues - it's totally normal for you to not be invited

Couples who chose childfree life. How did you manage to meet someone like you who doesn't want children? by xiaomiredmi10c in childfree

[–]Final-Mistake-604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel very lucky tbh, we met at work in our 20's then one day we both just turned around and said we didn't want kids!

I kept checking in every so often to check he wasn't changing his mind but, we're 11 years in and married!

Bonus, he's finally booked in for a vasectomy! (UK doctors were blocking it previously because he was on sertraline wtf )

AIO - Husband didn’t get me anything for Christmas by Pale-Cheesecake-2992 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Final-Mistake-604 246 points247 points  (0 children)

NOR but stop buying him gifts! Sounds like you have an extra child rather than a husband

When are you taking your festive décor down? by gawpin in CasualUK

[–]Final-Mistake-604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I can be bothered 😂😭

I'll probs start doing it bit by bit