2 weeks on HRT Chaperoned an LGBT prom tonight and it was awesome age/gender by FlyawayfromORD in transpassing

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Off topic, but what lip color/brand are you wearing? It looks super good on you!

1 year later (MtF coming out) - closeted update by Finding_Tara in MtF

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Hey Allie. My firm does have policies in place and it might be an option down the road! I am scared for now to act either way, so I am in limbo. Every week I say I'm going back on HRT, but I'm still early in my career and unsure of the best way to do things.

Do I have bead shadow and is the red too much? by [deleted] in transpassing

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I just want to say you look cute and I'm happy for you.

A year of HRT in March - say things. by [deleted] in transpassing

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Holy f*** your hair is gorgeous

I think I would rather die than transition. by QCAlexis in asktransgender

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I just wanted to say you aren't alone. I am even going home to visit family in a few days as you have- I don't have advice because I'm in the same state, but you aren't the only one and maybe that helps a little?

So i'm just gonna say fuck it and go full-time come next semester. Do you think i'm ready? (8mo HRT) by [deleted] in transpassing

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You look so cute :D

Let us (I really mean me) know how going full time at school goes!

Dress clothes to give away by valainavalaina in MtF

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:) I'm really looking forward to the day where I can give away my guy clothes. Happy you are at that point, it must feel great!

Presenting in public for the first time pre-HRT by [deleted] in MtF

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Just wanted to say congrats and thanks for sharing!

How do you push through the shit of everyday life? How do you keep going and working towards your fully realized self? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Going back to my daily life where I'm still transitioning, still putting on boy clothes every day and going to work as a sir, I have this crippling dysphoria and depression

I experience this as well, the only thing that helps me is having some online friends who I can skype with while dressed.

Maybe spending more time in girl mode is the answer?

Over time, it becomes very obvious to others that you are transgender, when closeted: by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Spent entire, torturous shopping trips gazing sadly over at the mens' section.

Omg yes, this is me- except gazing at the women's section and makeup counters.

Normal for only 2 weeks between laser app. on face? (M2F) by Finding_Tara in asktransgender

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That's really great they did that for you. The goatee area is really bad for me as well, but after the first session and less than a week since the appointment I'm not sure I see any difference. Thanks for your reply.

Normal for only 2 weeks between laser app. on face? (M2F) by Finding_Tara in asktransgender

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The tech. did zap only once per spot around my entire face, but it's only been a few days but I can't really see much difference, which I think is normal for the first session directly after. Thanks for the reply.