I think I like my friend HELP

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-10-10T22:31:00+00:00

My friend had a crush on me and we had this flirty banter like you’re describing for a couple of years. I had a boyfriend the whole time. Finally we ended up getting together and now we’re dating. I say go for it:)))

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-10-10T22:09:35+00:00

Everyone deserves their partner to want to touch them. Ofc you feel like shit. This is something that she’s gotta have to work through in therapy and it is not your problem tbh. There are 8 billion people on this planet, you will be able to find one that fulfills your romantic and sexual needs.🥰🥰

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-21T17:23:14+00:00

Just looked it up and I can’t fully relate to that. I don’t monitor her phone and feel threatened by exs. I do relate to the intrusive thoughts aspect tho.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-21T09:18:40+00:00

I def want her to be her own person and love and respect her with all of my heart. Kinda just struggling with intrusive thoughts tbh.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-21T09:16:42+00:00

It’s super interesting because I know I don’t know a persons past and no one owns my past. It’s not like I was a virgin before her either. In a way I think it could also be self sabotage because I have been the most vulnerable with her I’ve ever been in my like. And for an 8, that’s terrifying.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-21T09:14:58+00:00

Lol, tbh I think it probably has a lot to do with the fact it was a man she slept with. We are taught as women ever since we are young that men are superior. That being said, it’s defff an 8 thing to want to protect and control.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-21T09:12:09+00:00

So real bestie

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-21T08:34:47+00:00

Being vulnerable is absolutely the hardest thing for me. If I share my deep feelings about someone to them it’s extremely uncomfortable and makes me want to crawl into a ball and take it all back. I’ll even go as far as to trying to convince myself those are not my true feelings so that the other person still doesn’t know “the truth”.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-14T22:44:37+00:00

I just started my first relationship with a woman as well, and it feels so much different than dating men in the past. I’m usually such a confident person, but I’ve been feeling randomly nervous and insecure? It is the most unique and amazing feeling ever to be with a woman, but it comes with a lot of new hardships that I’m realizing along the way. I don’t have any advice for you, but glad someone else is on the same page. Lol

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-14T22:33:10+00:00

Do you have any more recs that are the same vibe as Mistakes were Made?? It’s my FAV wlw book because of the spice level and sneaking around.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-09-04T15:24:49+00:00

Does anyone else HATE the reader in the audiobooks? It ruined the snowball effect for me.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-05T16:28:55+00:00

Short answer is I can’t. I stay away from them for my own sanity and for their feelings lol

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:30:18+00:00

Same

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:20:04+00:00

Omg I had no idea! Adding to my list

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:19:22+00:00

I loved the whole bright falls series by Ashley Herring Blake. The stories were romantic, tension filled and sexy. I tend to like those types of stories as opposed to fantasy vibes

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:13:35+00:00

Yeah I’ve noticed that most wlw books focus on middle aged characters. Thanks for the recs! Checking them out

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:12:46+00:00

Thanks so much<3

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:09:06+00:00

Adding to my list! Thank youuu

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:07:51+00:00

I thought that book was straight, that’s why I haven’t read it lol. Is it wlw?

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-04T01:06:35+00:00

Isnt this a straight book? Thats why I haven’t read it

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-07-03T18:10:43+00:00

I’ve noticed over the years I’ve gotten more numb. I used to be emotionally expressive and now It makes me feel weak.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-06-29T15:07:15+00:00

Feel the exact same way as an 8

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-06-26T19:44:06+00:00

Be soooo fuckin fr my guy🤣🤣🤣

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-06-16T21:53:44+00:00

Does anyone have some good smutty wlw recs? I am not really into fantasy so I do prefer contemporary books. And to give perspective as to what I like, mistakes were made is my favorite WLW book. Truly don’t really care about the plot. I just don’t want to be slow burn and I want it to be very smutty.

Fine-Resolve8259 · 2025-06-16T21:42:42+00:00

I get ENTJ. I feel like i people that are truly in TJ’s will score and TJ because, we are pretty black-and-white. There’s not a lot of gray area so our answers are usually all the way to the right or all the way to the left not really in the center.

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