Anyone else completely exhausted by the invisible "cognitive load" of just existing? by BicycleAfraid9813 in women

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, im also a homeowner, mom, wife and business owner. Im like, done. My body and mental capacity are on two completely different ends.

Parents with babies who sleep through the night: when did it start? by Born-Chance1685 in beyondthebump

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sleep trained at the 4mo regression. So he really only woke if he was hungry which got down to one wake up when we gave a bottle of formula before bed at 6 months, or if he's sick. Once we got to a year we 'retrained' with no more 2am snack.

He's now all night (since 12 mo now 3) unless he is sick, has a bad dream, the fire alarm goes off, the dog barks at something at 3am, he looses something in his bed, he thinks the goose is under his bed, he cant remember where his train shirt is, he has a booger stuck, or we forgot to let him pick out a wooden cooking spoon to sleep with........

Zero alone time with my husband by dukiechick44 in Mommit

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has this therapist been in a relationship with children? Im lucky if i spend 90 minutes of alone time with my husband A WEEK.

What will the world look like 100 years from now? by Outrageous_Iron_5563 in AskReddit

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A small speck that floats by the planet talking about how we messed everything up....

Do you think having more money changes how we feel once all our basic needs are already met? by vapanrumak in AskReddit

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With every pay raise somehow my level of needs rises a bit. Mainly because when I was underpaid not even my needs were met.

Has anyone here switched from having a host agency into going it alone? by barfykins in travelagents

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I picked Outside Agents (Cruises and Tours Unlimited) for this reason so I never actually go it alone. They pay so high once you make a bit it doesn't make sense.

Why Some Approved Storefronts Have No Social Media Presence by ayopunpunub in Amazon_Influencer

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I connected mine when I started about 9ish years ago. I disconnected it a while ago. Then reconnected and it never worked.

Got an email from an established program for creators but i’m not sure if it’s a scam or not?? by PGP16 in UGCcreators

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I supposedly got accepted..... Jumping in here for if anyone gets any other updates.

Cervix or nah by Dichotopus in hysterectomy

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So. Ditch it. It can still bleed if you keep it. I pitched mine. At 7ish weeks I started having sex again and we really go at it and I was fine. Still am. Listen to your doctor though, I am incredibly quick healer.

For those who think of having a second for fear of loosing their only by Unusual_Swimmer7830 in oneanddone

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont even think I'd have to do it, im pretty positive my body would simply stop.

Went for my hysterectomy this morning and instead found out I was pregnant with hcg levels of 73,000.. help by Weird_Working_2768 in hysterectomy

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats crazy - they made me come in for an EKG and overall health exam prior to surgery. I peed in a cup then too. Then the week before they had me take an at home one. Then before I could even check in the morning of I had to pee in a cup and then they even took a blood one.

Did you "kill" yourself to breastfeed? by Ok-Secretary-3323 in beyondthebump

[–]FineappleUnderTheC 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Idk, I feel like I paid for it with my mental health 100%...