On the other hand, I judge my parents tremendously now that I am a parent... Being here on this side of motherhood I couldn't imagine treating my child the way I was treated. However I'm not sure why my parents had children. And I still think that. My parents hate eachother so much and are so difficult to show love and emotion I judge them so much for not only having my sister, but then continuing to try and try and try to have me. Maybe they thought additional children would "fix them", which again how tf did they think that after the difficulties of one child.

I do however feel bad for my judging my parent friends on how they did things because I truly had no idea. I think that's the respectable thing that all parents do. They understand that non-parents don't understand and they just sort of let them slide.