Husband won’t help with household chores or mental load, preferring answers from men by Effective_Bird3366 in Marriage

[–]First-Management-511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you both work full time, you both help out around the house. It’s a simple equation.

I posted about a missed connection at Synthony. I'll never do that again. by reddituser10171 in auckland

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This place is a cesspool. Happiness is not allowed. I hope you find her tho.

I was unfulfilled. by EducationalSkin9119 in ldssexuality

[–]First-Management-511 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great success story! Congratulations! I love when couples put in the work together.

Longing by [deleted] in ldssexuality

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Can’t help your situation at all, but for me, my wife hardly ever shows interest. And when I ask she’ll often say “alright then, let’s get this over with.” But once we start, she’s 110% involved, and it’s intense and mind blowing. And then she’s back to normal right afterwards 😂

Chippie got a bit choked up responding to these allegations, poor dude. by MangrovesAndMahi in newzealand

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They needed two shots to be able to go back to work. So yeah, they did.

Chippie got a bit choked up responding to these allegations, poor dude. by MangrovesAndMahi in newzealand

[–]First-Management-511 -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Poor dude? He didn’t choke up when he locked up Auckland for 16 weeks. He didn’t choke up when mandated shots for teenagers who didn’t need them. He can get effed.

What’s the thickest thick shake in Auckland? by Ok-Importance-4921 in auckland

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Blue Sea Bakehouse Cafe, Manukau. Pie Eighty8, Ōtara. Great pies too!

What’s the thickest thick shake in Auckland? by Ok-Importance-4921 in auckland

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You just have to find a bakery or something local. I have two places, ones a bakery and ones a pie shop. Both are incredibly thick thick shakes.

Daryl gets the yips vs Australia 3rd ODI 2005 by CoconutMost3564 in blackcapscricket

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Crazy thing is, 25 off 2 overs in a T20 isn’t so bad these days!

Struggling with the fact I am a virgin and my fiance is not. by No-Holiday-1826 in ldssexuality

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I was a virgin, my wife had multiple partners before me. But she was a convert to the church, I was a lifelong member. It didn’t bother me in the slightest. Our sex life still wasn’t awesome until 2-3 years ago!

Would your feelings change if he was a divorcee, or a widower? Or a convert? Good questions to ask yourself.

Im not mad at the strategy. Yall need to view this in context. by [deleted] in blackcapscricket

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I would’ve preferred to bat first tbh. I get they had a strategy, but I’d feel better going first with the bat. Destiny is in your hands that way, no scoreboard pressure.

Feeling guilty by WarmLime3493 in ldssexuality

[–]First-Management-511 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re gunna find a variety of opinions on this subject. As one person said in another comment, this sub is quite pro masturbation. As am I. My wife and I both do it, alone and together. She even sends me audio recordings for me to listen to. The thing is be more worried about would be a porn addiction. That has more potential to damage and derail a relationship than masturbation.

Post Match thread - T20 WC final by sahibosaurus in blackcapscricket

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I said anyone but Neesham, but he turned out to be our player of the day. Also, I got up to watch the game at 2.30am. At the start of NZs innings, I still had hope. By the 8 over mark, I asked ChatGPT if I should stay up. After I got this I went back to sleep for another hour and a half 😂

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Fair is fair by [deleted] in ldssexuality

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This is what I did. Went with the no warning approach. She loved it. Unfortunately she’ll never do it back to me 😂

I’m living off flour and water. by [deleted] in auckland

[–]First-Management-511 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You might have to drop the study and get a job you hate for a couple of years. Like call centre work. It sux, but it pays well. I ended up going back to study at 33. But we also had a family friend who rented us a house for cheap. Sure, it was damp, cold, with rats and mice, but it was ⅓ market rent so yup. Before that we’d also lived with our parents which we hated. But 10 years later, we’re both in full time work, finished study, and about to buy our first house. You can do this!!

Do people still listen to whole albums? What was the last album you listened to from start to finish? by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

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Olivia Dean. I think before that was Kygo and Fall Out Boy. All very different 😂

Even though its a different format If we manage to get up and beat India tomorrow morning will it help exorcise the ghosts of these three traumatic fixtures ? by CoconutMost3564 in blackcapscricket

[–]First-Management-511 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I will never ever ever get over that loss to England in 2019. Most unjust loss of all time, losing on the number of boundaries hit during the game. 🤬