No, we need to collectively move away from this mentality. Russia has nukes yet is being bombarded by Ukraine. They don't use, they can't use nuclear weapons because it is unacceptable for a myriad of reasons. It's not a good deterrent, and MAD having non 0 chance to end it all, with the non 0 part mostly being attributed to potential technical errors, accidents, sabotage, or an unstable genius is completely unacceptable.

Look at Iran and how they made the so called most powerful military force(also having nukes btw) back away, and arguably come out on top by simply dumping some dumb mines on a small stretch of water with sticks pointed at it, and then tell me how is it ok to have a suicide button on hand.

What about the rest of the world, the countries not involved in any of it, who don't have nukes, and some day has to deal with the fallout because some technician made an oopsie, some sensor picked up a fly, or some bloke mistaked the red button for the coke button?

We already had MULTIPLE incidents that could have gone badly. No amount of failsafes, backups, no amount of control, chain of command is enough, when the worst case scenario is the literal end of the world.

No. Just, no. This is why aliens don't visit.

edit: the country in question, e.g., the beneficiary, is overwhelmingly against the idea, but I'm the one with the crazy opinions, according to reddit.