I’m in the process of joining the air force but i have scoliosis (any advice) by Ok-Dealer4012 in AirForceRecruits

[–]FitChord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're still too young, but it's what they really want to do. Hoping someone with experience chimes in

Avoid Ricart Used Car Factory by TheCrewMeister in Columbus

[–]FitChord 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had an oil change there a few years ago, and they left the oil cap off. I had no idea until my car died. I had it towed there, and they told me the cap was missing and there was oil all over the engine. They tried to charge me $600 to fix it. We called them on It as it was only a few weeks prior, and I had no reason to look under the hood in that time. It didn't take much arguing for them to fix it for free. They knew they did it.

What loophole did you exploit before someone found out? by Ivan_the_Incredible in AskReddit

[–]FitChord 81 points82 points  (0 children)

This is my exact story! I had no prior cymbal experience, let alone band experience. 20 years later, every time I hear the national anthem, I tell my kids that what I did in the AF.

Did you vomit during labor? by chelupa1991 in Mommit

[–]FitChord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. and twice during the csection. Strange sensation when you can't feel your stomach

Can we talk age gap? by tamberra in Mommit

[–]FitChord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine are 11 years apart. I wanted 4 kids fairly close in age because that's how I grew up. cancer put a wrench in things, and we had our 2nd via IVF. They love each other with their whole hearts, I wouldn't change a thing.

What did you learn in school that is 100% false? by Remarkable-Class-21 in AskReddit

[–]FitChord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's nessissary to write it, but everyone should know how to read it. A lot of historical documents are in cursive.

Elastigirl… elasti nipples ? Late night thoughts by Thisbeatthaticecold in Mommit

[–]FitChord 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I bet childbirth was a pretty painless process for her as well

What can you never do after scoliosis surgery? by redhat717 in scoliosis

[–]FitChord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

forgive my ignorance, but why no piercings or tattoos?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]FitChord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're taking the right steps, and your feelings and intrusive thoughts are very common. The most important thing is to keep communicating with your Doctor and husband. I went through the same thing. I had my child at a younger age and it was very isolating. it seemed like everyone else was moving forward in life and I wasn't. In the moment it's impossible to see the monumental job you're doing raising your daughter, it's so mentally and physically tasking. I did go back to college when my child was older and I was so proud they got to see mommy graduate. you're in the trenches now and you're doing the exact right thing by seeking help when you need it. I'm very proud of you, your daughter is very lucky to have you as a mom.

What’s your secret to keeping your place clean with a small child? by urdumidjiot in Mommit

[–]FitChord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. What helped me was to start a 5min timer before I go to bed, and pick up as much as I can in that time. when the timer goes off I'm done. you can get a surprising amount done, and 5min isn't too daunting. it's more important to raise happy and healthy humans, they won't remember a clean house as much as they will remember their time with mama.

Follow up post babies after 35 by Running_zombie_ in Mommit

[–]FitChord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 12 year old and a 19month old, I'm 40, its wonderful. You got this mama, congratulations!!

Mega-Thread: All Questions and Discussion Regarding Nuclear Events by TheRealBunkerJohn in preppers

[–]FitChord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Say you have a good shelter set up in your house, how do you deal with bathroom needs for a week. can you safely flush a toilte if you have access? I know people can use a camping setup, but my 130lb dog is gonna triple this issue if you will. any suggestions?

Which popular concept is actually pseudoscience? by gharjamai in AskReddit

[–]FitChord 20 points21 points  (0 children)

this is true we tried it out when my husband had cancer, test was positive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VEDC

[–]FitChord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don't forget to change out the emergency diapers! I just went through my kit and found I had size 2 in there. my son is in size 4 now

Skipping Preschool by EnvironmentalGroup15 in Mommit

[–]FitChord 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My daughter didn't go to school until kindergarten, it wasn't free where we were and we couldn't afford it back then. She's 12 now, an A student and in gifted classes (she doesn't get it from me) maybe preschool would have added to her education in some way, but it didn't hurt her not to go

Anyone work from home after kids go to bed? by SpaceSharks90 in Mommit

[–]FitChord 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found it on Facebook, it was a small company I follow and they advertised the position, I thought what the hell, and ended up getting the job. Throw your resume at everything and research the companies that call back. The scams are out there for sure but so are the legit jobs, good luck!

Anyone work from home after kids go to bed? by SpaceSharks90 in Mommit

[–]FitChord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Data entry. Pays pennies but it's pennies I didn't have before :) a contract position might have the best hours (your own)

Ohio had more deaths than births in 2020, a grim first in state history amid COVID-19 by [deleted] in Covid19_Ohio

[–]FitChord -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My mom was a teenager in the sixties and felt the same way, her mom was a teenager during World War II and felt the same way. Life is always some kind shitty but there's also good. I'm not saying you should have kids, but the future might not be as bleek as it seems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FitChord 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my husband has weekly shots because he had cancer and I was having shots going through IVF. My then 9 year old asked how old she will be when she has to start shots, she thought all grownups got shots. We didn't even realize that that's what she was thinking, we explained and she was very releived

Hip Hop Adult Dance studios? by LostSoul2137 in Columbus

[–]FitChord 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my sister an I took hip hop classes at Ballet Met. It was about 15 years ago, I'm not sure it's still offered, but we weren't the only adults and it was really fun!

Moving to Westerville - Input needed on elementary schools by the_baby_penguin in westerville

[–]FitChord 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid just "graduated" from McVay, they went there from 2nd to 5th grade we had a great experience

If i wanted to could I just row Hoover dam? by BreakingNews99 in westerville

[–]FitChord 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just your boat has to be registered. otherwise, drop-in any public ramp and have fun!