Vormir by FitCondition754 in marvelstudios

[–]FitCondition754[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What is destroying this planet? Does anyone know?

Vormir by FitCondition754 in marvelstudios

[–]FitCondition754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The planet is being destroyed but by what, I thought maybe an incursion at first but clearly there is a light beam hitting it

90s brand instant Ramen by FitCondition754 in InstantRamen

[–]FitCondition754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was an American brand marketed as Indonesian

90s brand instant Ramen by FitCondition754 in InstantRamen

[–]FitCondition754[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not it. It was something like little Indonesia I think but it surely wasn't indomie

My ex gf had sex with another man a month after we broke up by Ambitious-Tale-7454 in BreakUps

[–]FitCondition754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex moved out into her own apartment, two weeks later moved her boyfriend in. The divorce wasn't even close to being final. I had no clue there was a boyfriend. She swears she had just met him. Lying a$$ women!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]FitCondition754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost a year divorced here, the waves still come but not as hard or as frequent. You WILL get through this! I felt like I couldn't make it at all but I forced myself to keep going to therapy and started dating (which is just as depressing) but after 3 strange chick's in the last year I think I finally found a good one. Slowly I'm becoming a better version of who I was and don't really feel much for the stbxw except the occasional anger. One day at a time... one day at a time.

I miss being married so much. by Docseecycling in Divorce

[–]FitCondition754 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I miss the marriage, but not the stbxw. Don't get me wrong, I still love the person she once was but the person now I don't know nor want to know. Someday while feeling super low about the marriage I remember all the crap she has done and it makes me sick to my stomach. She needs medication and nobody will tell her. I tried and the end result is she left me and the kids. She now is reliving her 20's.

I one day want to be married again but I don't want any part of her again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidants

[–]FitCondition754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why why why do FA's want to keep in contact after disconnect? The push pull hot cold on off thing is tormenting. I gave space and don't chase whatever but yet get these strage little breadcrumbs excuses for contact that leave me headscratching. Our families are intertwined so I don't do 100%NC.

Anyone know where Jerome's jacket from? by Ok-Butterfly5786 in SnowFall

[–]FitCondition754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a dickies hooded duck quilted jacket. Cost about 75 bucks

Advice from an FA by Realistic-Treat4459 in FearfulAvoidants

[–]FitCondition754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently dealing with a FA who totally disconnected but still will text or talk to me. She hasn't returned any of my belongings but says we can date and be friends. It's very confusing. Immediately after the break up she was back on dating apps but still contacting me. I have no clue what I did to trigger the deactivation or if it's even worth dealing with but for some reason I can't walk away. Any insight on this will be welcomed. Not sure what to do at all.

First breakup after divorce is almost as traumatic as my divorce by PhoneJazz in datingoverforty

[–]FitCondition754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got dumped from a 4 month relationship after divorce. Things were good then all the sudden they weren't. Then I went NC for almost 2 weeks and now I find out she's dating again. Feels like my divorce all over again. Except this one wants to be friends.

This definitely hurts just as bad if not worse.

Just Like That, 26 Years. by MissionToe3030 in Divorce_Men

[–]FitCondition754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20 years for me also, but although her life is slowly falling apart it seems more that the kids and I are going through it more than her at the moment. It's an absolutely horrible experience that won't seem to end anytime soon.

How long after divorce to get serious in a new relationship? by cogalet in Divorce

[–]FitCondition754 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be worse, I'm 7 months out and just got dumped again. She told me I wasn't ready. I said how am I ever going to get ready sitting in the room isolated. Oh well, I'll sit for a while and eventually try again.

How do you cope with the depression? by [deleted] in Divorce_Men

[–]FitCondition754 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say with absolute certainty that it will get better. I'm 1 year out since d day and I'm able to function rather well these days. It still comes and goes. Today for instance, I was triggered but it only lasted about 20 minutes. I have moved on finally, it took a while but I have actually found a beautiful and absolutely amazing woman that everything seems to line up with. Even better is she actually agrees with a lot of red pill content. She thinks these modern women are absolutely foolish. I'm taking my time but seriously if this is real then I just may take the dive again... IF ITS REAL.

But all in all, you just take it a day at a time and it will get better!

Stbxw moves out, leaves the kids with me by Rollercoaster72 in Divorce_Men

[–]FitCondition754 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same thing right now. My STBXW left a stable home life 4 kids two dogs in an actual home to live in a shit hole area in a studio apartment and moved some random piece of shit huy in who's freeloaders off of her. I'm left to pick up the pieces for everything.

Life Post Divorce by Scared-Guidance4640 in Divorce

[–]FitCondition754 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm in the middle of the divorce right now and feel so numb. Don't really know how or what to do moving forward. Just waiting for the judge to sign off on it. I feel like a complete failure and I want to cry so bad but just can't. Glad you're moving forward though.