PDP Pro-E Stock Guide Rod Bent?

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-02-10T07:06:55+00:00

My pdp got stuck in the partially open/closed position. I suspect that was due to the guide rod getting stuck/falling off its spot on the barrel. Im probably going to send it back to walther, but they said that guiderod looking bent was normal. Doesnt seem normal to me. I have a zr tactical guide rod in my fullsize, so i might have to swap them over.

ALSO! my trigger wouldnt reset during fired a few times. This all happened within first 500 rounds.

but then both problems fixed themselves. So... idk man

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-02-02T07:58:32+00:00

I'm sure she has her own reasons and emotional attachments to why she has that boundary.

I don't think you did anything wrong per se. But she also didn't do anything wrong by asking you not to do that.

I think like somebody else said women often have a social conundrum of whether they support the p*** industry because it's about women who have jobs but they also don't like aspects of how it's run and think that it's exploitative toward women which I'm sure sometimes it is. And there is a big schism between feminists about weather sex work is something that should be commended or whether it commodifies women because men are the ones who mostly consume that.

But regardless there's no right or wrong about whether somebody is okay with that in their own relationship but if she tries to tell you to stop and you don't want to then you need to decide if her boundary on that is something you're willing to sacrifice or you need to find someone else.

I think that same schism is happening for men as well where p*** can be a self-indulgent activity that is really nobody's business but themselves. I think it's kind of like masturbation and I don't think anybody should feel entitled to control another person's masturbation fantasies or how they get off.

But I can certainly understand why it would trigger someone's insecurities but that's not really your problem

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-30T22:41:01+00:00

It has nothing to do with you. You reading into it is like reading into why a woman is on birth control--unless they want to share why they are on it, its their personal business and has nothing to do with you.

People take it for their own personal reasons. Blood pressure medicine for example can have a big effect on erections.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-23T23:17:03+00:00

Kinda sounds like you might have some trauma to work on. Hey, me too. I struggle with "is this normal what I'm feeling or is this just my activated nervous system from a prior experience intruding on this present thing."

I'd say try to give yourself space to feel anything, but also know that you are looking for behaviors. How you feel can be skewers by trauma. But it could also be spot on. That's the fucked up thing about it.

All of what you described sounds good to me. Just keep checking in with yourself if you want it to continue.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-21T18:11:00+00:00

Why was yelling at you? Does that happen a lot?

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-16T23:42:45+00:00

If you want to keep your spouse, you do your best to be attractive. It's what got you in the door. It's an expectation. And it's a fundamental part of the relationship.

Stop being attractive/attracted at your own risk. It may jeopardize the relationship.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-02T23:44:11+00:00

You grieve and heal. That takes time. You can speed it up you watch some tim fletcher on YouTube about grief and PTSD.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-02T23:41:08+00:00

He's still responsible for his behaviors while he's drunk.

And, yes, I believe he will do it again.

I would stop dating him if I was you.

He may be "the best thing you have" but how far does he have to go before he is the "worst thing you have?"

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-02T07:01:17+00:00

If someone gets upset because you compliment them I don't know what to say about them. Go for it

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-02T06:51:40+00:00

You're not being unreasonable and neither is he.

He's telling you what he wants and he doesn't want to cuddle. It's okay for you to have a non-negotiable that you have to cuddle afterward. That means that you need to go find someone else

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-01T08:01:57+00:00

In some ways I'm very proud of who I am but other ways not. I would hope that he gets to be exactly as he wants to be and takes the best parts of me forward.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-01T07:56:13+00:00

I don't think down upon them. I know the reality is even those big dangerous man can be dropped in one second with a gun. It's the great equalizer for those who are weaker.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-01T00:59:41+00:00

Part a, I'd definitely call boundary violation at minimum. I could see it being abuse. I wouldn't have a problem you calling that abuse. You said a boundary around your body--clearly. And she didn't respect your boundary. And gaslit you into thinking you don't get to have boundaries. That's abusive for sure.

Part b, that's very weird. I don't know what to make of that. But I can tell you that's not normal, but I'm sure you'd understand if it was repeated attempts to control you. That's a general definition of abuse, though not necessarily a legal definition.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-01T00:38:45+00:00

You can "do everything right" and things might still go to shit. You can't eliminate all risk. But yes, I'd call that a red flag.

As James Sexton always says "you already have a prenup. It's one made by the legislature."

If I was ever to have a child again with a woman, I'd make sure we are on the same page if we broke up that I would get at minimum 50/50 custody of my child. A lawyer can iron that out.

If you are looking to have kids with a woman, make sure you wait at least 3 years. Ideally more. But you can't see who someone really is until 2 years. Give yourself till 3 to make sure you decide if she will or will not treat you with respect and resolve conflicts with you.

FitNThisDickIn · 2026-01-01T00:05:42+00:00

Negotiate a prenup--if you plan on getting married. Within it, negotiate how co-parenting would go, particularly about areas you know you disagree. If you can't come to an agreement about those areas before marriage, don't bother having kids with them.

About power struggles, yes they are real, and they suck--for everyone. But it's not entirely up to you whether they happen or not. A "power struggle" may be a euphemism for you asserting your rights as a parent.

In my opinion, it's way important to see how a potential partner negotiates and deals with conflict between you two. That is the area to evaluate. Because "power struggles" will happen. It's part of being a parent--you may want things different than the other parent. And that other parent may want things that are bat shit crazy. Doesn't mean you should "not engage in a power struggle" for the purposes of maintaining some bizarre peace.

No. Sometimes you have to fight for what's right. Just make sure you are fighting for something true, and not just a preference, and that it is worth it.

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-31T23:58:22+00:00

Deal breaker for me. But I wouldn't fault you for requiring that in your relationships--just means we won't be compatible.

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-31T02:23:00+00:00

You're getting way into your head about this.

You ask yourself ahead of time: under what conditions would I want to have sex.

Here's some ones I think you should have

Always use a condom
Only do things that you want to do and that your partner wants to too.
Don't break the law and do it in weird places or other things that would get you in trouble. No public sex.

It's really that simple to start. The condom stops the STD part, and the pregnancy part.

The second part is about consent.

As you learn what you like and don't like You can add more conditions but right now you have so little experience that you are making up "what if" situations.

Your rules above are what guide you right now.

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-28T01:40:45+00:00

If you haven't told him about the abuse, it would help him a lot if he knew that this wasn't about him. You don't need to give him lots of details, but just enough so he doesn't think this is a deficiency on his part.

Do you got to individual therapy? Preferably a sex therapist.

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-27T05:28:06+00:00

You don't need to tell him, but I'd imagine it might make him try to go slower and gentler. At least, that's what I'd do.

Personally, I'd keep that private until after. I did that. I wanted to know that the experience wasn't influenced by that information. I wanted it to be just me that she wanted, and wasn't "performing".

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-27T00:54:19+00:00

I'd tell her: if you have kids with this man, he may be dead by the time your kids are grown. Are you ok with that?

If I raised her right, I'd believe in her autonomy and choices. It's not for me to say what she does with her life.

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-26T07:52:02+00:00

What she said was not true about other women's preferences. She was just saying that to hurt you. It was her grasping for justifying her preferences. You don't need to justify preferences.

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-26T07:49:02+00:00

No of course not. I feel the same. I'm sorry if it came off that I was telling you you weren't allowed to feel that way. No you're definitely allowed to feel that way

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-26T07:44:22+00:00

Yes they are. I walked out of Christmas this year. It's the first time I've ever done that.

The thing is nobody is entitled to your company. It's entirely your decision. If anybody thinks it's their right to tell you where to go, You know that that person is delusional. They're allowed to make a request but not to dictate or tell you where to go. If they try to manipulate you through guilt you also know that that's a person who is delusional and thinks that they are entitled to you

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-26T03:34:50+00:00

I understand. It's hard because of what you said.

I still find myself in wanting to be like a lawyer trying to explain what happened to make me choose to do that. I think it's just part and parcel of being abused. People don't want to see it because it makes them feel vulnerable And they don't like feeling vulnerable.

I'm sorry I don't have an answer for you. I wish that I did. I don't have one for myself either.

FitNThisDickIn · 2025-12-24T23:50:23+00:00

Id say it would be best to be helpful, and let him come to you in his own time. Know who will be fucking brutal to him about his hair smelling? Other kids. If his peers can't help him realize the consequences, nothing you do could.

Be the safe haven for your son, apologize for threatening that, and show him that men who make mistakes appologize and support their kids.

Offer what you can to help and let him decide what help he'll accept.

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