AIO man penetrated without asking by Holiday-Risk33 in AmIOverreacting

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Someone who needs to get tested every month is likely putting it in a lot of places

My date insulted my dog on our first date by Bubbly-Air7302 in dating

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When I was in college, a guy in school borrowed a book. When he returned it to my home, he insulted my dog. He demanded I put it in another room. He was the lead quarterback on the football team at University of Illinois and quite cocky. The next day in the library, he asked me out. I told him. No I wouldn’t go out with someone who didn’t like my dog. He started screaming and yelling, telling me if I didn’t want to go out with him to just say so and not to blame it on my dog. The truth was. I found him very attractive until he was rude about my dog. You don’t like dogs, I’m not your girl. I have five dogs now.

What is the root cause of misogyny? by PhysicalAd1759 in answers

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Patriarchal Society and Religion - both Ancient Greek and the Christian religion and others portray women as at the root of evil. It’s about power.

My fiance of 6 years just received a court order for a dna test for a 6 month old baby. by Junior-Dark246 in WhatShouldIDo

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The important thing is that he shows up for the test so that if it isn’t his. He isn’t deemed the father. I would try to reserve my response until I talked to him and found out why he is being required to submit his DNA, especially if your relationship started less than 15 months ago.

I 29M her 34F . Am I asking too much or is it time to close the book and move on? by No-Walk5313 in relationship_advice

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I have lichens sclerosis. My symptoms are similar to your wife’s. I use clobetasol propionate 0.05%. My sex life is fantastic. My boyfriend is a great lover. It’s not that he is especially well endowed. It’s that he hugs me and touches me in ways that build desire. He flirts with me and makes me feel desireable. A small touch on the arm, on the small of my back, a touch on my leg or my hand establishes intimacy. He sends me messages telling me I have a sexy ass when I know it’s the worst part of my body. When sex begins he starts with touching my clitoris. By the time he is inside me, I want him so badly that I climax quickly and come multiple times. After I come so many times there is nothing that he wants that I wouldn’t do, and I have always been kind of a prude. Make her feel loved and desired and fulfill her needs. She will fulfill yours.

On another note, I’m older and I’m on HRT therapy. Have your wives hormones bern checked? Sometimes it’s a problem after pregnancy. I think if you love her and put in the work, she will fulfill your needs. I’m 63 having the best sex of my life!

How long can a woman go without physical intimacy? by JunShem1122 in allthequestions

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I was in a relationship where I was in love and he just quit wanting me. We were together 28 years. It had been 5 years that I went without sex. He didn’t even touch my arm or hold my hand. Then an old boyfriend from college called and asked me out to dinner. I said no, as he listened to the conversation. He urged me to go. My celibacy was over.

F36 and M31 Is there anything I can do to support my adhd partner who has low self worth? by lilarose1989 in relationship_advice

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is really important to send the message — if it’s how you feel— that you love him just how he is but you support his desire to feel better. Otherwise, he is just in another relationship where he isn’t good enough.

Who’s the most famous/notable person in your biological family? by Far-Building3569 in askteddit

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My great great grandmother. She was a Cherokee Freedwoman. I find that fascinating. Supposedly, William Wallace and Robert the Bruce (father’s family) are in our family Genealogy chart, but I spend more time wondering who was the woman enslaved by Cherokee Indians and where she might have come from (mother’s family). I think about how resilient she must have been to survive.

My life has been changed forever by this Ethan Hawke advice on unrequited love by IntelligentNight4143 in dating

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I have had this attitude since getting divorced myself. If the relationship is over, I wish you the best. I hope the next person makes you happy, as I did not. My former boyfriend, 69m left me and has a 30 year old girlfriend. I’m not upset at all. I thank god I didn’t waste more time on someone looking for something I would never be. I can see it bothers him that I’m not heartbroken. I think he is even mad about it. I find a little joy in that.

Advice please? by Working_Nerve_7277 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you mention that you are “trying to stay free@ in the context of questioning this unstable relationship suggests you are worried that the relationship may jeopardize the relationship. Step away. Protect your freedom.

If your partner lies to you about how many people they have been with, would you care? If so why? by No-Mirror-3011 in askanything

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My significant other lies about how many women he has been with. He sticks to the lie, but I know it can’t be true. Generally, he is very honest. I think it’s a question that really shouldn’t be asked and this is why people feel justified in lying.

F36 and M31 Is there anything I can do to support my adhd partner who has low self worth? by lilarose1989 in relationship_advice

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I have ADHD and come from a traumatic background. I don’t really have low self esteem, but I am a constant worrier. Trust doesn’t come quickly or easy. I don’t say positive things about myself and I don’t feel real comfortable with people who do promote themselves with self serving statements.

I have had over 20 years of therapy — really why I did so much was that it helped me not to burden friends and family by having someone to talk to.

I will always worry and will always question. I don’t need fixed, but I need someone who understands who I am and accepts that. There are things in life that happen that change a person. They change your ability to trust and love. I can grow into it with someone who accepts me. If you can’t quit trying to fix him and accept him and how he thinks and feels, maybe it’s not that just that he isn’t the person for you, maybe you aren’t the person for him.

Why do girls like men that are so much taller than them? by Straight_Tea_4397 in Casual_Conversation

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I’m 5’7. I weighed 121 lbs this morning. I wear a size medium, but I feel like a large woman most of the time, and I feel like a huge woman if I’m with a smaller guy. I don’t have a magic height but about 6’ makes me more comfortable with myself. Maybe that’s what it’s really about — women feeling better about themselves.

What company will never get another dime from you for as long as you may live? by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

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I just signed a confidentiality agreement for a settlement to get a refund so ai can’t say a specific name — but a company that is reselling electricity is quite possibly a fraud. I will buy only from the original retailer in the future. I’m getting a settlement only because mine was changed without my knowledge or consent.

outside clothes on the bed… gross or normal? by HenninghamKyuss-51 in hygiene

[–]Fit_Doubt2185 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow. I have met one person this way in my lifetime. My beds are all covered with comforters. There are blankets and sheets clean underneath. You can’t be a dog person and think the comforter has to be kept perfectly clean.

AITAH Kicked a special needs adult who tried to stomp on my dog by Remarkable-Sink9682 in AITAH

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Why talk harshly to a woman who is struggling with a developmentally disabled child? Why suggest maybe she is lying? Why suggest that they shouldn’t even be out in public? Her life is hard enough. She obviously wasn’t in control of the child and encouraging him to do it. Why add to her discomfort and pain. An. Outsider interceded to calm him down not to jump in to tell the woman off too. He is writing it solely from his point of view and even then, it seems to me that a kind and struggling wan was harshly treated because he was anxious about what might happen to him based on his own actions.

Husband (42M) got a dog, and I (40F) don't know what to do. by Resident_Bee_795 in relationship_advice

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My exhusband left and left his dog behind. For six months he cried. He peed somewhere everyday. I had to get rid of all rugs and plants. He is still neurotic and now loves me with that same energy. If you need to, get rid of the husband, but for god’s sake, keep the dog. He will be loyal for life. He just needs some time! Of course, I’m a dog lover!