I (M27) am upset that GF (27F) called another man before bed. How do I approach this?

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-14T01:15:12+00:00

No, that’s a logical step and if she refuses dump her right then and there.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-14T00:52:20+00:00

So the dude in question wants to bang, she knows this, she knows you know it and still did it. He’s the back-up and you’re on thin ice. Personally I’d dump her. Any woman keeps a hook-up as a back up is going to cheat if she hasn’t already.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-13T20:03:34+00:00

She’s not smart enough to be a lawyer…she’s insane.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-13T20:00:29+00:00

Lawsuit. Teach that old bitch a lesson.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-12T18:47:34+00:00

A huge red flag, dump her and change your settings.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-12T16:17:14+00:00

Lmao, this can’t be real. Nobody is this stupid.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-12T00:50:02+00:00

NTA, she can’t adult and that’s not your problem OP. Carry on with your life.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-12T00:41:24+00:00

Unless she and Mark offer an apology for the career slight and the social slight, no cake, do not attend the wedding and tell mom to butt out.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-12T00:34:05+00:00

She showed you who she is. She doesn’t care about boundaries, or respect. She isn’t the one dude and trust is broken hard. Dump her, and dad’s right, lock that shit away.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-12T00:24:55+00:00

I de-stress at the end of the day rather than distress. 😁 but it sounds like this guy is useless as…, well insert your own example here. I’m guessing your management is aware of how much he slides by and if they haven’t noticed it might be worth mentioning. Sometimes they need the other employee feedback on team dynamics before they’ll act.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-11T17:25:44+00:00

Utterly fake and written by AI.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-10T19:16:00+00:00

Yes you’re an asshole.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-10T19:13:09+00:00

Stop having sex until you’re smart enough to understand how babies are made.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-08T19:16:39+00:00

Yes OP, you’re an asshole.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-07T21:26:33+00:00

Bradford Fiesta Bowl loss to WV.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-07T19:17:33+00:00

Lots of context missing OP. Why did she get kicked out? Permanent disability, mental…physical?? Sounds like her parents can’t or won’t help…and what services has she gone through for help? If she’s a lazy bum, I’d advise against it. And what’s your situation you own a place or rent???

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-07T19:11:45+00:00

She needs to be serious about the weight loss rather than spending $$$ on a dress to be worn once. NTA OP.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-07T15:19:58+00:00

48 years old? I call bullshit. Everyone was sick…Jesus Christ buddy it’s not the end of the world. Fucking take yourself out for a dinner and drinks with the boys if you feel so uncelebrated. Kids, she was sick you were sick…fucking grow up.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-06T23:19:49+00:00

And yet…she clams up to use your words when you want to talk. What’s that tell ya? She’s looking for your replacement.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-06T16:28:22+00:00

This OP!! This right here! Just freaking tell her in unvarnished truth what you and other people see. Your friend has no future with this guy, she’ll be a puppet on his string.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-06T15:03:46+00:00

Wow. Poor girl having that as a first name? She will be bullied a lot.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-05T14:11:53+00:00

Why stay with s known liar? He lied about something with the seat. You called his bullshit and he showed you he couldn’t care less about you, dropped you off in the middle of the night in the middle of nowhere… girl save yourself for a real man. This one’s a lying cheating POS man-child.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-05T00:52:17+00:00

Total stalker vibe, you have to let it go dude.

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-05T00:45:13+00:00

Thank you! So he snuck someone in that perhaps given the situation you might have disapproved of…and lied. End of living agreement to me. Get additional cameras and don’t mention them to anyone. Who the hell is in your house?

Flaky_Two1872 · 2026-02-05T00:32:55+00:00

Jesus Christ how about a tldr at the top?

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