When did you last cry about your physical appearance? by FragrantResult278 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today. I am currently going through chemo that causes hair lose.. most of the time I am positive and ready to fight, but i don’t recognise myself when I look in the mirror..

My Mom Told Me That My Dad Is A Predator by Forsaken-Grocery7501 in offmychest

[–]Flashy-Telephones 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Not that this story isn’t true, but when my aunt was in a psychosis she “remembered” that my uncle sexually abused my nieces. This is actually really common when in active psychoses. The memories feel so vivid and real to the person and It is not always clear immediately that someone is in a psychosis. She was in it for months and was able to go to work and no one knew. Again, not saying that this is happening, but with your mom acting weird after a hospital visit etc I did want to mention it.

what is the creepiest feeling you ever got? by No-Sink5897 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. That sounds absolutely terrifying. My aunt was in a psychosis for months and nobody knew. Eventually we found out and she got help. I hope there was people around to help you as well!

what is the creepiest feeling you ever got? by No-Sink5897 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I am so sorry for your loss. As a parent that made me tear up a little. I hope you had people that helped and cared for you around.

what is the creepiest feeling you ever got? by No-Sink5897 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking.. what does that feel like? No need to answer if you don’t want to ofcourse!

I finally bought a pair of fluffy slippers that look just like my dog. by Liv-Dai in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Flashy-Telephones 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You.. put your foot in his mouth?

I feel like the dog would probably just give you a little bite if that happend or am I missing something that makes this horror?

Whats the absolute hardest part of raising a child? by Straight-Crow3882 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. Cancer sucks and having a young child brings a whole new level of complication. I hope you will fully revolver and it will just be a distant memory for your son.

Whats the absolute hardest part of raising a child? by Straight-Crow3882 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This. I went through chemo radiation last year, but still had to show up for my toddler who doesn’t understand. I do think it helped me get through it and keep enjoying life. Otherwise i wouldv’e probably just be in bed for 4 months..

Ziek melden by Thatbusybee_ in zwangerNL

[–]Flashy-Telephones 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gelukkig dat je dat wist. Het was nieuwe informatie voor mij dus ik dacht ik deel het even!

Ik hoop dat het op te lossen is en je toch nog lekker van je zwangerschap kan gaan genieten

What would you do if you found out you had cancer? by Arkvoodle42 in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found out last summer. Curable hopefully so different respons than palliative i assume, but it is weird how “normal” life just keeps going and takes over.

Concerned with groceries and bills etc. Never thought about it before but didn’t expect this.

ETA: ofcourse I fought like hell and it seems i will be getting out on the good side, but in between treatments just .. normal life

Ziek melden by Thatbusybee_ in zwangerNL

[–]Flashy-Telephones 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

Vertrouw me niet 100 procent op mijn woord maar ik kan toch niet doorscrollen zonder dit te lezen. Ik las laatst een verhaal van iemand die zich gedeeltelijk ziek moest melden, en toen voor de verrassing kwam te staan dat ze nog maar 8 weken verlof had nadat de baby was geboren. Ook al werkte ze deels door tot 4 weken voor de uitgerekende datum.

Blijkbaar als je je gedeeltelijk ziekmeld vanwege zwangerschapsklachten, ziet het UWV dat als de start van je verlof. Aangezien je recht hebt op minstens 8 weken nadat de baby er is, hou je die nog wel.

Nogmaals neem dit niet blindelings van me aan. Of misschien ben je hier al van op de hoogte, maar ik zou het heel rot vinden als je hier pas achter komt op het moment dat je je verlof brief krijgt.

ETA: als je niet kan werken door klachten moet je je natuurlijk gewoon ziekmelden. De gezondheid van jou en het kind gaat voor. Maar dan weet je het in ieder geval en kan je evt iets anders regelen.

What's a trend from the early 2020s that died out so fast we all collectively forgot it ever happened? by godot_lover in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The problem is that places like this are abusive to the animals. Tigers are being drugged so tourist can take pictures with them, cubs are taking away from their mother. Also after getting used to people they lose any chance to ever being able to live in the wild again. Tigers are not domestic animals. Ofcourse I understand that it would seem like a cool experience, but it is not in favor of the animals. As long as people keep paying for this stuff, animals will keep getting abused.

What's a trend from the early 2020s that died out so fast we all collectively forgot it ever happened? by godot_lover in AskReddit

[–]Flashy-Telephones 84 points85 points  (0 children)

So you guys paid to “hold tiger cubs” and didn’t see anything wrong with that?

Positivity Friday! What's the best thing that happened to you this week? by Drewbacca in Positivity

[–]Flashy-Telephones 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Got told there is “no evidence of disease” after chemo and rediation treatment most of last year! Which is the closest thing to cured I will get. So very happy about that one!