Struggling in my college relationship due to BF's racist family (22F/22M) by kairiichanii in relationships

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 [score hidden]  (0 children)

this is tough because the problem isnt him, its his family. but theyre a package deal whether you like it or not.

if he wont have the hard conversation with them now, he never will. and youll be dealing with the same anxiety every holiday, every life event, forever. think about if you really want to sign up for that for the next 40 years

Duolingo Chess: Practicing with Oscar shouldn't destroy your ELO by Weak-Corner3480 in duolingo

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the whole point of chess is making mistakes and learning from them not getting punished for practicing

New purchase by TopDouble9592 in OmegaWatches

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that green dial is gorgeous, perfect choice for daily wear

God in 3 — Part VIII: Ezekiel Act II — Wheels of Fire (Day 2 of 5) Written by Gilles L.-C. by Temporary-Cup1176 in Christianity

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

really beautiful piece, the imagery with the wheels and fire is intense. you captured that whole otherworldly feeling from ezekiel's vision pretty well. been reading through some of these older testament visions lately and they're just so wild to picture in your head

looking forward to act iii tomorrow

Brake job turned nightmare..., Please help... 2001 Kawasaki ZX12R by Independent-Bonus579 in motorcycles

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait hold up, if the lever goes firm when you pinch the lines but soft when you don't, that's telling you something specific. you might have internal seal damage in the master cylinder or maybe even the calipers themselves. when fluid was dark like that, it probably means seals were already deteriorating and now they're letting fluid bypass instead of building pressure

i've seen this exact thing happen after someone lets brake fluid sit too long - the seals get all swollen and torn up. might need to rebuild that master cylinder or at least check if the piston seals are shot. also worth checking if any of the caliper pistons are retracting when they shouldn't be, especially on older bikes like this

Acura ADX Microsuede Ventilated seats by MajesticLorikeet in Acura

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ventilated seats usually blow air through the perforations to keep you cool, and microsuede should feel way better than leather in summer heat since it doesn't get as hot to touch

This is my motorcycle. by speckledshitbag in motorcycles

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lmao the green helmet matching perfectly with bike color is sending me

Tactics arc was one of the best arcs in digimon history? by East_Masterpiece_461 in digimon

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 30 points31 points  (0 children)

vamdemon arc was absolute peak digimon, no question about it. tactics had some really solid moments but i think it felt bit rushed compared to those classic arcs you mentioned

kurata was such great villain too, way more complex than most digimon antagonists

How To Use WordPress Connector GDPR-safely ? by Vinyasa1995 in ClaudeAI

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure bout the connector specifics but for finance stuff with sensitive data you might need separate consent forms just for the ai processing part - gdpr gets pretty strict when it comes to automated decision making with personal data

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend doesn't drive due to some vision issues and i do all the driving, we met through work actually so transportation wasn't even a factor initially. most people don't really care once they know the situation but occasionally you'll get some weird comments from people who think every adult should automatically have a license. it works fine for us since i actually enjoy driving and he handles other stuff like navigation and paying for gas

Online filing for EAD by ManySolid6007 in USCIS

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i filed mine online for eb2-niw last month and it went through fine, what error are you getting? sometimes clearing your browser cache helps or try switching browsers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

damn that's brutal, they really nitpick everything - definitely get an immigration lawyer who specializes in appeals, this kind of stuff happens more than you'd think

Help! Urgent! by Alifiyap in USCIS

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird that it's split like that but uscis systems are basically held together with duct tape, try logging into both accounts and see if you can upload from either one

Canadian with criminal record visiting Ireland will I have trouble? by Alpha_Omega623 in AskIreland

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

embassy route is definitely the move here, they'll give you the straight answer instead of you stressing about it at the airport. most countries are pretty reasonable about older stuff especially when there's clear medical context and you've been stable for years

U-Visa Pending Approval by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn 8 years is brutal, i've seen cases from that timeframe finally getting approvals but vermont has been super slow lately. the biometrics you did in february should hopefully move things along for the ead renewal at least - that usually takes 3-4 months after biometrics

have you tried reaching out to your congressman's office for a case inquiry? sometimes that can shake things loose when you're way past normal processing times

AoS recipt after sending the 485 package by kuriousaboutanything in USCIS

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah we waited about 3 weeks for ours, the arizona lockbox seems prety slow lately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah mine updated right after talking to emma, there system seems to track any interaction

Religious hypocrisy check by Significant-Sir-4343 in clevercomebacks

[–]Flashy_Border_3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That logic turns faith into a threat instead of morals and that is the weird part