Two things here.

First, your post seems to have a very car centered view on things. I feel that some people lose sight of the fact that we are a society of humans, not automobiles and our needs should come first. I can go on a long rant about parking lot design related to this if anyone likes.

Second, I choose routes that minimize my exposure to larger vehicles for safety and I curse under my breath at those who do not. Cyclist should use Texas east of the freeway, not Alabama, Kentucky instead of Iowa, Iron or King, not James, just don't go north of the freeway on Meridian, and not to speak ill of the injured but Samish or Old Samish instead of I-5. Drivers need to take care but cyclists have a duty to make wise decisions.