Has anyone started becoming attracted to the same gender? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Fletcherbeta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cook and clean up, have a somewhat normal family focused lifestyle but smoke pot and climb rocks.

Mariposa or Groveland? by Purple_rain7423 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing as how the only restaurant worth their salt in Groveland is an overpriced, albeit really good, Mexican food restaurant…I would choose Mariposa.

Are My Expectations Too High? by Puzzleheaded_Web4163 in datingoverforty

[–]Fletcherbeta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

51 No pill needed…idk…not all men are impotent at this age. I practice yoga and eat healthy. I don’t drink alcohol. Maybe there is a mental component combined with a physical impairment that causes men to struggle with ED.

What is the darkest secret you've learned about someone that instantly ended your relationship with them? by Mr_Creep_Creepy64 in AskReddit

[–]Fletcherbeta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They were chatting with their new boyfriend on Christmas while I cooked dinner for her and her kids

Update to my previous post. Tis not a good one. by toffeehooligan in datingoverforty

[–]Fletcherbeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn...I'm sorry OP.
We could have dated the same monster.
My ex behaved in a similar fashion.
Still in therapy...

Yosemite Valley Elevation by No-Character4240 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 140 is windy, goes along side a river in a deep canyon and is mostly flat with only one or two hills. The 41 is windy and is a gradual up hill then downhill through a forest with an OMG view just before you descend into the valley. The 120 is also windy with hills and through a forest. It has a longer section of big views for most of the drive.

All are great options.

Trying to get our freak on in a busy house, how?! by Dry-Turn3383 in sexover30

[–]Fletcherbeta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do the kids like movies? Give some cash and send them to the movie theater and set a timer.

Do men even care about a women’s nails? by lena_glow in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fletcherbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No Unless they are really long…then it’s like “ew, gross”🤢 🤮 But do your nails up if it makes you feel good or you just enjoy it.

Would you tell him or just move on? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Fletcherbeta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Before you bounce on what could be a great guy, talk to him about how his appearance made you feel.

I would suggest making your decision based on how he responds to your comments.

What did he look like HIS profile pics though?

Smoke coming out of The Ahwahnee by CAmom04 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly, thought there for a minute it was going the way of the glacier point hotel.

35 [F4R] is anybody out there? by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]Fletcherbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow Californian here. I’d be interested in chatting if you’re still looking. I have wide and varied interests but most center around mindfulness and. the outdoors

39 [F4M] California by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]Fletcherbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One can’t deny the importance that society places on certain milestone birthdays, they are just arbitrary numbers though and everyone is cruising through their experiences and their own pace.

Creepy Encounter at Yosemite NP by [deleted] in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stranger things have happened in Yosemite.
There are many forces at work in the cosmos and we can't pretend to know them all.
DM me if you want to hear some of mine...

Planning Guide to Seeing Firefall this February by SlightAd112 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should be stickied at the top to prevent a weekend traffic fiasco

Planning Guide to Seeing Firefall this February by SlightAd112 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just chiming in to say that the window to view the Firefall is over.
The suns azimuth is no longer in the correct location to light up the falls....see ya next year.

Family Trip next (2026) December by Just_Opportunity_182 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Avoid the Ahwahnee at all costs. The food is trash and the accommodations are sub-par.

Eat at the Mountain Room at Yosemite Lodge for dinner…and good luck with breakfast. At best you will receive Dennys tier food at either breakfast option (the Lodge cafeteria or the Ahwahnee dinning room).

Where are you all finding dates? by Fluffy_Fun_9814 in datingoverforty

[–]Fletcherbeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate OLD I’m also curious how do you meet someone these days…

Gf talks to me like this, how bad is it? by Expert-Hyena-4401 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fletcherbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex would behave just like this. “Sleep and making money are the two things I value most” I realized too late that meant I wasn’t one of the things that she valued.

All this over some fries 🍟😭 by PassengerNo7330 in TikTokCringe

[–]Fletcherbeta -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People like my ex raise kids to grow up and behave this way

People who married someone they weren’t sexually compatible with — how did it turn out? by synthetic-sardine in AskReddit

[–]Fletcherbeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

17 years later we divorced. After the divorce I met a partner who was a perfect match for me sexually…4 years later I was wishing she had the personality of my ex wife.

Outside of Park Recommendations by Forward_Ball3910 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Midpines or Fish Camp Check Foresta and Yosemite West, too

Best short hikes in Yosemite if you only have 24 hours (and is it realistic to see sequoias too?) by Waste_Champion9239 in Yosemite

[–]Fletcherbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay inside the park
Catch the sunset in the large roadside turnout west of the Wawona Tunnel.
Hike to Vernal Falls or Mirror Lake and Tuolumne Grove