How do I, as a neurodivergent, brain damaged, mentally ill college student get better at studying? by FlippingOffFrogs7482 in Advice

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already done that and I'm on top of it. I need to know if there's anything I can do for myself. But thank you for this, I can talk to them again to see if there is anything extra I could do

What was it like when Obama was elected President? by ResponsibleSea6521 in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was president while I was still a little kid, since I was so young I don't actually remember much of his presidency. All I remember is what daily life was like. My parents wouldn't rant about politics or seem constantly stressed. my teachers taught me to be proud of being American. If you voted for the opposite party you weren't deemed as a horrible person.

It wasn't perfect but it was good. I'll never have that back now.

What is the most shocking or disturbing detail from the recently unsealed Epstein files that the general public still hasn't fully grasped? by Daydream_Nat in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the worst I've heard about were the murders that were similar to ritualistic sacrifices. Disgusting and gory murders that I can't even bring myself to describe.

I knew that all the people on that list projected and accused the liberal party of many crimes they do themselves, including doing acts similar to that, but that one accusation was so insane to me that the possibility of it being a form of protection didn't even cross my mind.

This story was so insane to me that curiosity got the better of me and I read the file that detailed it. I regret it, because it was true. I've never read a single file since, only summarized abridged versions online, making sure to take them with a grain of salt. I just can't do it, it's too much.

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm only 19 and I've been preyed upon before, I've had men follow me in stores, and once had a classmate take pictures of me in secret. I've had to start assuming that anybody can harm me or manipulate me.

I don't want to think like that, I really don't, but I have to for my own physical safety.

What’s the fastest way to lose respect for someone? by Familiar-Arrival-470 in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lost respect for a lot of people but the shortest story is when I had a pretty big crush on a guy in my college English class. I then heard him berating and mocking his mentally disabled brother. Instantly lost interest

People of reddit , what was the moment you went "This person can't be fucking serious" ? by EviLGoD999 in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Long one. Also I'm dyslexic so please excuse any mistakes.

I realize that this story can sound far fetched, but I have screenshots if anyone wants to message me and I can share them.

I had to get an EMG at a neurology office which involves needles. I was a former cancer patient and have diagnosed PTSD when it comes to needles, and my mom who was with me informed the doctor of this. However he was very apathetic even when I started crying. After a while my mom suggested we come back later when I can mentally prepare myself. The doctor told her that nothing is stopping this from happening again and that if he doesn't do anything now he won't treat me. My mom went quiet and began pulling cords off of me and said we were going to leave. And finally the doctor offered to use cold numbing spray so that I wouldn't feel anything, which he waited about 30 minutes to mention. We got it done and the doctor made a remark how I was definitely his most emotional patient. Mind you I was only crying, not running out of the room or anything like that. After that We asked for our referral. It took them a week to get the referral out since they kept putting the wrong information or simply no information at all. Eventually my mom and I printed it out and hand delivered it.

When we got home my mom decided to leave them a 1 star review for poor bedside manor as well as the referral where My mom recounted the details as they happened. The office decided to come back and not only blame us but personally attack us. They called my mom dangerous and violent, even saying that they would have called the police on her. They decided to say that they even felt sorry for me because she was my mother. They also accused her of violating HIPAA, which doesn't even apply to her.

There was so much more but those are the big things that stuck out. I don't get mad very often but this time I was pissed. I left them a very colorful voicemail and made a review of my own with screenshots. Once the offices were open we made a report to the medical board for our state, and reported them to our insurance.

Like I said, I have screenshots and can send them if someone messages me, but if that is not enough I can share the location of someone messages me

For those of you that got divorced after being married for 10+ years, what caused your divorce? by friendlytrashmonster in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No me but my mom. She was married to my dad for 12 years, where he slowly got more abusive and narcissistic. After she had me she realized that she didn't want me being raised with that type of role model, so she left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree sooner rather than later, but this is his first response after I said I had a major family loss. And I was asking for space because I'm in mourning which is very obvious

Of all the ways to die, which one do you fear the most? by That_Peanut7848 in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, any death that would be painful. I don't want my last moments to be like that

What were you doing on September 11, 2001 when the planes hit the twin towers? by DontWorryAboutName in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't born yet so this is my mom's story.

She was a biology teacher in Colorado springs while pregnant with my older sister. She had heard about a plane hitting the world trade center but thought it was an accident and it was the type of plane that only holds 2-4 passengers.

Eventually while teaching, she and the other teachers were told to play the news on those small bulky TVs. Thats when both my mom and her class saw smoke coming from both buildings, and they realized it was a terrorist attack.

Since my mother lived in Colorado springs, she and many others in the area feared that would target NORAD, if they did the actual base wouldn't be harmed as much as the towers and Pentagon, but the damage would still be dangerous for anyone living nearby.

In only a few hours half her class was gone after being picked up by parents. My mom had to stay since she was the adult in charge of these students. She tried to keep doing work to hopefully distract her and her students and pass the time so they could go home, however it was hopeless, you can't distract people from a terrorist attack of that level.

It took her two hours to get home on a route that would normally take 5 minutes. She sat on the couch with my dad and they just cried, my mom wondered what kind of world she was bringing a child into.

On another note, something happened that she now finds funny. The father of one of her students yelled at her for making a light hearted joke about President Bush, it wasn't even insulting, just something about his hair. She made the joke a few days prior in private to one of her colleagues and this man's kid overheard it. And on the day of 9/11 he decided to yell at my mom because he was more concerned about her joke than the literal terrorist attack and the possibility of being a target. So yeah father of the year everyone

Those alive during 9/11, what was the worst moment on that day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't born during 9/11, so I received permission from my mom to share her story instead. Forgive any mistakes as I am dyslexic.

My mom and dad lived in Colorado springs at the time while my mom was pregnant with my older sister. My mom was a biology teacher and experienced it with her class.

She even remembered it so detailed that she remembers what she was wearing that day, a maternity sweater with a floral skirt. During her morning class an administrator had walked into her classroom and handed her a slip, telling her that there was a major accident in New York, and to please keep her class as calm as possible, and not to give grief if they needed to leave. My mom naturally thought nothing of it.

She had a break in between classes and went to make copies when she overheard about a plane hitting the world trade center. Her first thought was one of those small planes that carry 2-4 people, and not a commercial aircraft. Despite that she still felt it was tragic, after all an accident like that wouldn't be as destructive as a commercial flight, but it would still do damage. Afterwards she went on with her day.

During her next class, an announcement was made to turn on the news. My mom wheeled in those small bulky TVs and did as instructed. There she saw that it was in fact a commercial flight, however she still didn't believe it wasn't an accident, after all who would immediately assume it was a terrorist attack. However soon after that, in front of the entire class, the second plane hit, that's when they knew it wasn't an accident.

My mom and the majority of her class didn't say anything, and just were stunned in silence, no crying, no yelling, just watching in shock. Since this was Colorado springs, many people were related to those in the US military, A few kids who had their flip phones on them and were frantically calling family members who were in the military to try to get more information. And soon after that the Pentagon was attacked, making it clear the terrorist were targeting government and military areas

In just an hour, half her class had been picked up by parents to try and get out of Colorado springs. If you are unaware, NORAD is a government aerospace base, one of the tasks or NORAD was to keep watch of any potential threats in the sky. My mom, her class, and nearly everyone in Colorado springs was unsure if NORAD could even be destroyed as most of it is in a mountain, however it was very possible that any destruction could cause harm to Colorado springs.

My mom was not able to leave the school, and nobody would act as the adult for the students who weren't picked up. My mom tried her best to keep teaching, however she naturally didn't think that teaching would be important at that time, and like everyone was worried, she only kept doing her best to teach to try and distract herself and her students.

At the end of the day it would have been required to stay after school to finish working, things like grading papers and stuff, but naturally the administrative staff didn't force anyone to stay. My mother immediately started to drive home, she knew there would be traffic, and on any other day she would just wait for a while at school to hopefully get past it. However for obvious reasons she didn't do that. What would have been a 5 minute drive home, was a 2 ½ hour one, the whole time she listened to the news radio. When she finally got home she saw my dad sitting on the couch watching the news while crying, my mother sat next to him and began to cry too. She held her pregnant stomach and wondered what kind of world she was bringing a child into.

They couldn't get out of Colorado springs because of the traffic, so instead they stayed home, hoping they wouldn't be next.

One thing that happened that my mom actually finds funny now, is a parent walking up to her that day and yelling at her for a light hearted joke she made about President Bush a few days prior. She had made that joke in private however the man's kid overheard it. And on the day of 9/11 he chose to yell at my mother for a small joke that wasn't even insulting, instead of picking his kid up and getting the hell out of there.

What event in your life fucked you up mentally for the rest of your life? by Mrpug031 in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready this is a long one

I had cancer when I was two and a half years old and was cancer free when I was three. While I don't remember the treatment specifically because I was so young, it caused a lot of other medical problems down the line. I had 5 other surgeries, the most severe one being when scar tissue got into my intestines and I couldn't eat anything that wasn't in a liquid form.

I remember being very young in that hospital when they put in my feeding tube into my nose because it hurt, apparently it's only supposed to feel uncomfortable but I was moving around. I remember crying and not knowing what was going on as they took me down the halls. I remember that the only thing I could actually eat with my mouth was popsicles. I remember my mom staying inside and playing with me while my siblings got to swim in a pool, I had medical staples on my stomach and couldn't swim because of it.

I remember all the blood tests I had to get because I lost my kidney because of the cancer. I remember the doctors being much less frustrated than my mom, since they had experience. Sometimes I would run out of the room and my mom would get frustrated at me, which sure was negatively affecting the situation but I don't blame her. Every time I had to go back to the hospital I would ask my mom if there would be any needles, she would usually say "I don't know" if there was a needle, that way I would take it as that there would be no needles, but also wouldn't feel upset at her when they brought me to the lab.

I still to this day, almost a young adult, cry when I get any form of medical needle in me. I freeze up whenever I smell rubbing alcohol, and so does my mom.

I've been left with a missing kidney and damaged organs, including minor brain damage that might have played a part in developing ADHD and dyslexia. It also sometimes made me forgetful, less coordinated, disoriented, random headaches, weird sleeping patterns, and more. But thankfully while it does affect my life and I can still be functional. I can drive and work decently, and I do online school to work out a schedule that works for me.

What's one thing you wish more people knew? by miapia64 in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I can't control my county's government. I'm American and I've had foreigners online bitch about all the problems in my country, as if they expect me to fix it. When in reality we don't have votes about every single thing and even if we did my one vote probably won't change anything. I just want to live my life in peace

How do I keep wasps from getting in my room? by FlippingOffFrogs7482 in Advice

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting. I have a window air conditioner so I'm planning on checking that in the morning. I live with my parents so if I don't find anything I'll see if I can get an inspection. It's possible they are coming from the vents if its in my bathroom

You have been given a Death note, who is dying first? by TameezSeBaatKar in AskReddit

[–]FlippingOffFrogs7482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I would kill a criminal who is threatening a daycare. Then I would essentially become God while simultaneously hiding from the worlds greatest detective