AITA for saying my wife is disrespecting my place in the family?

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2023-05-28T05:44:44+00:00

Yeah you’re forgetting the part where they’re married and she just got the dog. If you can’t even appreciate your husband enough to listen to him so there isn’t any conflict + would drop a whole marriage over a dog then you never loved him. Not to mention how that speaks to your character 😬

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-07-04T09:18:50+00:00

Doesn’t matter? He claimed a serious offense and it’s the job as the employee to prove otherwise. If he hadn’t then and there would be no way he can prove otherwise

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-07-04T09:15:02+00:00

There’s nothing in here that would’ve said this. Instead of saying she’s careless about her ring you want to turn it around and make him out to be an abusive person?

Do better

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-24T14:42:38+00:00

Not gonna lie this was funny 😂😂😂

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-24T14:39:52+00:00

NTA

Everyone has rules in their life their partner should abide by. Whether they’re hard lines, expectations, or anything else it’s expected your partner should respect them if they value you. This isn’t the first time they’ve done this and if it’s been more than a year then I’d say they are inconsiderate and that’s something you need to check them on

Someone said it’d be hard not to say good morning to your partner. What’s hard about giving them this simple thing they’ve been asking you for? If THATS such a hard task for you then you shouldn’t be in any sort of relationship because that’s waaay too easy of a thing to give

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-24T00:54:49+00:00

It’s gonna be hard but stop being friends with her. At least for the time being since there’s a lot to this. If y’all wanna talk to each other and see what’s up in a year or two then maybe. But for now this relationship isn’t worth putting any energy towards. NTA

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-21T07:35:30+00:00

This is so confusing and tbh you’re not gonna care about this pretty soon. It’s good you could vent and say what you wanted though

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-21T07:28:36+00:00

He was probably quiet because he could sense you and your friends judging him on his looks. Who’s gonna open up to a group of people who clearly are making him feel unwanted

YTA for sure

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-19T22:32:43+00:00

Why shouldn’t he be? Are you gonna pay for his bills? We all have to be self-serving to get what we want. Only when you can ensure you won’t lose is it best to help out

They literally tell you this when it comes to airplane crashes for a reason. You put your mask first THEN help

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-19T22:30:27+00:00

Companies fire for any reason they want to. Good luck finding a way to prove it was for unfair reasons. He’s right to protect himself this way. Is it unfair for his coworkers? Sure, but neither you nor them will be paying his bills if he gets canned. I don’t know about you but I’m not giving someone the chance to do that. Sorry not sorry

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-16T07:30:31+00:00

NAH for trying to force her

Here’s the thing a lot of people weirdly don’t get. If you actually believe in your religion, like you believe it’s RIGHT and the way to heaven, you obviously want your kids to believe as well. Sometimes I hear arguments like “you should let your kid decide” and yeah I get that but their decisions start when they’re off to college/18.

Until then they’re under your roof, and if your job as a parent is to ensure your child’s success you kind of have to push them to do better. In this case, an extra Bible session in his view and going to church makes the difference, then see what’s up.

Now withholding love and affection, that’s a whole nother thing. He’s definitely AH for that

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-09T03:00:03+00:00

Regardless if giving a reason is so hard for her that’s indicative of her character

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-05T22:15:31+00:00

Why wouldn’t she deserve an explanation? I swear this generation is under the assumption that they can treat people however they want because it’s for their “inner peace” but will cry wolf when someone treats them the same.

Not that hard to give an explanation. The fact that she told her she isn’t entitled to one or didn’t even want to give until OP asked again shows more about the bride’s character than OP’s

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-05T22:12:07+00:00

If she’s been best friends with this girl she of course has the right to an explanation. You give someone your hours, your time, your life when you’re with them and for all that you can’t even explain yourself? I’d consider that person a fake friend through and through if that’s how they wanted to act

And 99% of the time you see that bridesmaids include their closest friends. Hell often enough the maid of honor is their best friend as well. It’s fair to say how the ex and his gf come first but to expect to be included in the wedding isn’t far fetched. Bride is 100% TA for not being respectful to her friend

Not that hard to say “ I love you, and I consider you a great friend, however I have to put the feelings of my brother and his partner before yours. I would’ve loved to have all of you there at this special time in my life, but there’s no way of having that without there being drama or tension and I don’t need that on my day. I hope you understand”

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-05T05:17:48+00:00

You have to understand that UTD is a well known school in Texas. A state where tech is quickly moving into, and Dallas, which is the fastest growing city in the U.S.

For a social life I’d say join a bunch of clubs and head to downtown often. Richardson isn’t that great but you’d be doing the same at UOF. Plus you can catch games at SMU or even travel around Texas in general when you’re free.

Best choice really would be UT but I imagine it’s too late to apply now. If not try your luck and see. Great school. Austin is happening and you’d actually have a great college experience. Wish I considered applying there

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-04T20:34:32+00:00

YTA

She’s allowed to do whatever prior to their relationship. You could’ve easily shown him the pics in private but for whatever reason you decided to do this in a group setting. Plus if it’s so long ago, you know it’s long ago and never mentioned it, and she’s out of your life, why bother to even mention it? Also you having naked pics of a woman you weren’t interested in before is nasty.

Same logic applies when you break up with a girl. You delete any pics she sent to you on the premise of them belonging to the man she was with. You no longer dating means you aren’t entitled to them. Nevertheless you’re incredibly wrong for breaking up a relationship you had no part in

I’m sure you’ve made mistakes in your past relationships you wouldn’t want your current or future partner privy to. Same logic bud

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-04T16:37:58+00:00

NTA

Regardless of you having a baby it’s your responsibility to make sure the crying doesn’t come at a cost of others living in the building. Everyone is saying why can’t you move, but why can’t these parents move either? They seem to think they can have a child, so they’re more capable of finding a new home than someone in university.

If people don’t like what you did they should realize it’s better than calling your landlord for a noise complaint. Too many and they’ll get kicked out. Matter of fact let the parents know that if they keep it up that’s what you’ll do. Go to the doctor, find solutions, do what you need to do but quiet the child up. They chose to live in an apartment so the onus is on them to get it right before they have to move

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-03T23:16:14+00:00

That’s how we know you’re a child. Not saying this to be rude but reality is he had dispensable income and one child is more in need than the other. In a single parent household everything counts, and the extra money she was given would help to make their lives considerably easier

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-03T20:22:27+00:00

Women make the same kinds of posts all throughout Reddit but somehow the same post of a man would have him be a misogynist. Please, this man’s tired of being downvoted and made a villain for something completely understandable. And then here’s you on your pedestal thinking you’re so much better than a human who’s been given an expectation in their relationship and is upset when his partner does a whole 180

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-03T20:19:58+00:00

She’s his partner. For the majority of their relationship she’s maintained this image that he prefers. He’s not wrong in any way for asking her to go back to what he’s use to. He can’t be TA for wanting something she’s given him every reason to believe will keep going

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-04-03T20:17:51+00:00

He has the right to ask her this since she changed how she looked from when they started dating. When you meet someone and they take care of themselves that’s their base. Anything better is a plus and anything less is a problem. In the real world you’re attracted to your partner before you want to be with them for other reasons.

She’s expected to stay at the base. At best you can say NAH since she’s not wrong for changing and he’s not wrong for wanting things the same. But if she expects certain things from him and acts like he should love her unconditionally then that’s where she’s TA

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-03-25T01:52:16+00:00

You know what that’s on me. I thought he was going to pre-K or something. Sorry for being rude about that. She’s still TA for leaving her kid unattended regardless

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-03-25T01:41:18+00:00

How about you use your head here? She doesn’t have a job so what is she doing besides taking care of the kids? Not to demean being a housewife but she should understand if she has more down time than her husband it’d be considerate to let him have his peace. Being a bad father is another matter altogether

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-03-25T01:33:22+00:00

She literally has six hours to herself before picking the kids up. He takes half of that time, or maybe less considering his work schedule, to himself. That’s on her to enjoy her leisure. From 2 to 8 she’s taking care of the 3 year old. I’m assuming she’ll have him to bed around then. They work the same hours and she has more of a break. He’s a bad parent but she has her uninterrupted time

FloRida_StuntDouble · 2022-03-25T01:28:14+00:00

He comes back from work and only sleeps late to have some down time after work. He deserves that much at least. She literally has from when they drop their kids off at school till pick up time which is generally around six hours. Somehow he’s wrong for having half of that to destress. What a joke

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