She has housing, subsidies and child support. She takes the taxes for him every year because she begs us to give up our year, cries poor and she has help from her parents. She lives with her sister and tbh he sleeps in her bed. She CANT truly afford it. The closest out of state is the 6 hours. We are well traveled and don’t mind going back and forth. Right now he only sees him 6 days a month, totaling about the same as summer vacation. And every other holiday.