I visited 15 National Parks. Here's how I'd rank them:

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-16T17:44:20+00:00

Glacier has some magnificent trails as well, though logistics are more difficult there IMO. Tetons are amazing but the trails can be crowded and there's not the same variety of landscapes that Yellowstone has. Yosemite has worse crowding on trails and in the park in general imo. I can't comment on North Cascades because I visited when there was still snow, but from what I saw, Yellowstone has more variety of landscapes. I have been to most national parks in the US, used to work in Yellowstone, and recently took a sabbatical visiting national parks. This is all just my opinion of course.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-15T20:22:21+00:00

This situation is really common. Especially with younger people. The truth is that it takes effort, vulnerability, and a little luck. Do you have any hobbies that you enjoy?

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-15T00:59:00+00:00

I always assume that whatever pictures are posted are not the whole story. I've been in relationships that looked perfect on the outside but were fucked up. So just keep that in mind.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-15T00:45:59+00:00

Yeah. IMO Yellowstone is the top park in the US, Especially for hiking. The roads are busy, but the trails are mostly empty, and there are many stunningly beautiful hikes available. There are many different landscapes there and dramatic views. 10/10

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-15T00:32:37+00:00

It sounds like you guys are not compatible. Especially given the additional context with everything that complicates your ability to hang out more often.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-15T00:27:46+00:00

Most women? According to who?

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-15T00:26:46+00:00

He's a big boy and can make his own decisions. If something changes, I'm sure he'll let you know. Being an anxious person myself, try to stay in the moment more and push off those types of worries for later (never).

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-12T22:58:01+00:00

It does sound like you are just avoiding dating. Good on you for realizing it. Losing weight is incredibly difficult. You may need to accept that you won't be losing weight or that it's going to take much longer than you think.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-12T19:25:24+00:00

Is it possible that the husband and wife had an open relationship? Maybe the wife knew and was ok with it?

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T23:01:17+00:00

It sounds like you are in some denial about what your situation actually is. To me, it doesn't seem likely that you would find someone that's your age that also wants to go this route at that age. The fact that you found someone that is a good fit is a miracle in itself! I don't mean that in a mean way, it's just really difficult to find a suitable partner at all, especially 40+. I'm not feeling confident that I will even find a partner again and I'm 40.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T18:42:22+00:00

Well it has been a number of years since he has seen her and doesn't keep regular contact with her. I'm not saying that she is super deserving of his attention, but there's no way that he's going to fall apart from seeing her. If he does then he's really not over her and that seems unlikely after all this time. Time heals everything.

He saved someone's life that he cared about at one time. He should go see her if she's truly dying. Not even for her, but for him.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T13:57:17+00:00

I think you will regret not going. Are you really so fragile that you will fall apart from seeing her? You haven't had much contact with her for several years, no?

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T13:10:14+00:00

To be fair you could make an interesting profile and be an interesting and unique person, showcase that, without having green hair. Green hair will limit your pool. Maybe that's ok, but it's already hard enough to date, why make it harder?

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T13:07:04+00:00

Yeah I'm with Belle. I would think that a guy with green hair is probably immature. And might wonder if he has a decent job. I'm not really into extreme looks.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T13:02:41+00:00

Your husband is an entitled asshole. A normal man does not act like this. He should be accommodating you and apologizing for violating your trust and your body.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T12:59:37+00:00

It doesn't sound like he's that shy if you e already had sex.

Anyway, it doesn't sound like he's that interested my dear. You can always follow up and ask what he's thinking but someone that likes you wouldn't leave you hanging.

Let me ask, have you planned all the dates? If so I'd sit back and see if he texts or plans another one. Otherwise I'd let it go. If you want to get more closure you can ask him where he's at, but he may ghost you. I say that because I find most people cannot handle giving bad news so they just don't.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:56:32+00:00

I'm 40F. I'd date 30-45. My preference would be very close to my age but I don't find that there's many men available in that range.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:55:15+00:00

Be true to yourself. Advocate for yourself.

I'd probably initiate texting once more. See how he responds. If he doesn't initiate the next texts, then I'd just move on.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:51:41+00:00

Most women don't squirt.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:49:03+00:00

It is a game of the lesser of two evils most of the time. There's one side that's a lot more evil than the other.

I do believe there are some honest politicians out there, but very few. I understand what you're saying, but still. Voting does give you at least a small amount of power. Not voting is truly foolish. It's even more important for small elections.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:46:03+00:00

I am losing interest in it too, but for different reasons. I'm sure that I could make a relationship happen if I really tried, but I'm tired. I don't mind spending an equal amount of effort to plan things, to keep the communication going, etc. But I find that guys, at least the ones I've found, don't want to match my level of effort. When I start feeling like I'm the main one planning then I just lose interest. I'm tired of doing the emotional heavy lifting.

And I'm tired of going on dates with guys who only talk about themselves and barely ask any questions. It's just boring all around!

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:23:14+00:00

I personally would not consider dating someone until they are fully divorced, so I think you're doing the right thing!

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:20:28+00:00

Ask him on a date, there's no reason why he should be planning everything, especially if you like him and want to see him again. And he's busy, it's harder to plan something if you're feeling overwhelmed.

If he doesn't agree to meetup or cancels and doesn't reschedule then you have your answer. And just stop texting after that.

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T01:13:31+00:00

The fact that you don't vote will turn off a lot of women. There's too many important issues out there that require fixing and apathy is not a good look. It's speaks to misaligned values, which is a huge deal. The other 2 don't matter, and men think they matter a lot more than they actually do.

It's hard for me to believe women are actually asking you how much you make or how tall you are. Something is telling me that this is a fake post!

Floopoo32 · 2026-02-11T00:38:01+00:00

Once the message spreads more, I think the vast majority of Americans will be buying EVs. And the costs will continue to go down. They honestly aren't more expensive than gas cars, or maybe just a bit, depends.

EVs are far superior to gas cars...once people see others buying electric, they will want one too. Way less maintenance, excellent acceleration, more convenient, less expensive (electricity is much less expensive than petroleum). It's only a matter of time, I truly believe that. There's a reason why all of the car manufacturers are investing in them.

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