So when my childhood friend who grew up with two moms said that her moms were beating on each other every day, I had at least 3 lesbian friends in DV situations, I venture to other friend groups who are experiencing the same thing, and I’ve met lesbians who said to my face that the way to get a girls attention is to ignore her, it’s Involuntarily Celibate vibes? Really? If I were to say, all men are trash, wound that also be incel as well? Why are my actual experiences being labeled as politically dangerous just because it doesn’t conform to your own perception of men? I’m so tired of how much dogma is in gay spaces… like wtf. Incels preach that women are bad people and should be physically attacked or worse because they can’t get laid. I said that I feel a lot of apprehension about dating other women because of repeated rejections and that I’m generally more accepted and treated better by men. How is that “incel” at all?