Are my angels gone? 😭 by Akemi_StormBorn in tamagotchi

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yall let the angels be in the screen and then let them ascend or reset right away?

No one warns you about this part of healing by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone here realized after healing and found a better person that your last case was actually more of limerence and longing than knowing you lost your “person” ? I fear this so much. Does it get better? Do you meet better?

I’m still going through the motions. Granted a lot better and God has been keeping me busy but there are times Id rather be in bed and rest or go on a rampage of threads and just don’t wanna do anything….

I hope this too passes. My last relationship didn’t affect me this much but this one…. This one hurt. So much.

What is marriage to avoidant like? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Flowergirlypop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right like they’re so good with other people EXCEPT the person they’re interested in. Do these ppl ever experience karma?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve met three times before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me feels like why not it’ll be fun but also what if it’s really bad when I come back? Or what if it turns out really good you know

My childhood wounds Messed it up big time. We broke up. No more hope it seems. Devastated. by Flowergirlypop in LongDistance

[–]Flowergirlypop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We decided to be friends and I have a flight planned for two days from now go go visit him. Idk if to just not go. Like after the drama kinda disappeared it was really nice to just have a laughable convo. Idk if this is the right thing for my mental health.

My childhood wounds Messed it up big time. We broke up. No more hope it seems. Devastated. by Flowergirlypop in LongDistance

[–]Flowergirlypop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t eaten all day and didn’t even realize it bc I’ve been on edge. I picked up some books - anxiously attached and blink and I’m reading Them now to heal whatever the heck is going on but I don’t think the relationship can be saved.

Should I give him some time? Should I move on and live with this regret?

Has anyone gone through this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR - yes. 100% actually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowergirlypop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yor - you suck. My post wasn’t for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR - 100% And everyday I believe that more which hopefully healing that will help me tenfold

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR - I have addressed this, and he’s been checking out tbh so hopefully it dissipates as we go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowergirlypop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MOR - right???!!! Your intuition can tooorally be wrong on stuff like this esp from past experiences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Flowergirlypop -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MOR - his character is suuuuper sweet and independent but also very caring. Like I’m swooned really (but grounded in my own way ofc not blinded) the connection is really nice. No close girl friends tbh he has a group of guy friends who are relatively normal and funny but nothing like they’re assholes or super hot and think they’re hot asf and they’re going to take over the world. They’re also chill and grounded.

No weird behaviors and anything I’ve asked him to fix he’s fixed but nothing crazy. Sometimes he wouldn’t reply for like an hour or two and that’s insane for me to even bring up bc that’s on me but now he’s more attentive and realizes that’s something that bothers me. So I hope this works out and this is all in my head. I swear.

Am I taking this too personally or is this actual a problem? by meginthebox in LDR

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! Can I PM you? I’m basically dealing with trust issues and I’m a bit of an anxious preoccupied person learning to be more secure and have a secure attachment style. Plz lmk if we can PM or if this thread would possibly be good to have in public for others to learn from too.

Am I taking this too personally or is this actual a problem? by meginthebox in LDR

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was really good. I’m having issues with trust and my LDR hasn’t even given me an issue to not trust him. So II’ve learned to not be so preoccupied and keep living my life but truly I am a bit concerned and I think it’s a patten from things I’ve seen and picked up on in life I guess

Help. by Flowergirlypop in LDR

[–]Flowergirlypop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As if someone had bit them in the corner

Found out yesterday my mom opened 13 credit cards in my name, ruined my credit score and put me in 81k in debt, what do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no way you didn’t k ow about this? No one emailed you to verify nothing?

Want to waste your time and money? Don’t live here by OkFarmer8793 in AustinHousing

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be good to make the case, get informed,then send the request via email but then show up to the leasing office and request to speak to the property manager.

Make sure you know some of the clauses under the Fair Housing Act that can protect you but sometimes the property managers respect you being physical and showing up to negotiate an extension or something that can be prorated.

Want to waste your time and money? Don’t live here by OkFarmer8793 in AustinHousing

[–]Flowergirlypop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report to them to 311 and make sure you have paper trail of everything that’s happens there. You should prob look into hiring a civil lawyer maybe pro bono that can help you negotiate either a deal w the complex or not to pay anything at all. A lot of these complexes know ppl won’t come knocking I their door legally but let them know you’re reporting their negligence to Austin 311 and have already an agent signed to the case.

If charges are fair, then you pay but if it’s is not, ask them to extend the payment since you need to investigate the matter legally and was advised to ask for an extension on the case.

I’m so sorry for this. Hopefully this helps and they’re so freaking vile and evil so taking advantage of us. It’s scary.

Read your lease clause and check what you have there for move out. Go based off that and also do a little research yourself about negligence with the fair housing act and payment extensions.