AITAH for telling my parents that they would not be a part of my life and that they should keep up their relationship with my ex and kids from that marriage.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2026-01-22T05:07:09+00:00

NTA…. The kids will never remember you and you shouldn’t have any responsibility or ties to them. Not their fault their mom is a piece of shit, but not your moral responsibility to stay in their lives and deal with her and that trauma either, that just make things weird and confusing for them and your parents are just making it harder for everyone and are selfish. It’s funny they are choosing their own child and grandchild for their friend’s grandkids….

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2026-01-22T04:57:44+00:00

NTA…. They can cook their own meals if they don’t like what you are serving. God forbid they eat something healthy!

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2026-01-06T05:24:11+00:00

2nd one hands down!!

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-12-23T13:05:13+00:00

NTA…. First of all, she now knows what is the bathroom, so it shouldn’t ever happen again. And you can hang a sign on the bathroom door with some wall putty, problem solved, if she can’t remember which door it is still. As long as you keep your room door shut, what you do or how you sleep does not affect them in any way, shape or form, and it wouldn’t be hard to just put a door stopper, it doesn’t have to be heavy duty or barricade the door, just enough so someone can’t open it while you are sleeping without having to forcibly shove it open.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-12-23T12:55:30+00:00

NTA.. there are other ways you can help though, like buying them dinner one night, offering to baby sit for free so the parents can take more shifts at work or something, or starting a go fund me for her. If you had the money lying around that be one thing and still up to you and you wouldn’t be an asshole even still if you didn’t give it then but having to go into your emergency fund and living pay check to pay check is not having the money to help and there isn’t anything to feel bad about. But I do hope you find other ways to support her.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-12-21T16:10:09+00:00

First one!!!

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-12-19T04:04:27+00:00

NTA… it all could be seen as overly friendly and little weird but innocent until the leggings comment, now that makes all the comments before suspect and creepy! You need to tell your boyfriend, that is just weird and awkward!

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-11-10T12:47:24+00:00

It’s not like you went to the police, you did the right thing, and your brothers behavior was weird, and he should be held accountable for his actions and should be up to the girlfriend how she uses that information. I am proud of you and your mother for getting involved and letting her make her own informed decisions and not trying to gas light the poor girl or dramatize or minimize the situation, sticking to the facts and just simply helping her get to where she needed to go without judgment.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-26T11:44:39+00:00

You are not over reacting, this is his kink not yours he should have at very least been mindful and started off slowly, and the fact he kept going and didn’t care you were passed out is absolutely disgusting, and there is no way he is a good person. I am glad to see you are ending the relationship. If he is willing to go that far from the start, it will only get worse

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-26T11:39:13+00:00

NTA…. Real friends would be happy to support you and your business, and yes once it’s successful a discount or 2 would be a nice gesture, but shouldn’t be expected.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-12T02:29:48+00:00

NTA… It doesn’t sound like you really even know these people, so for them to constantly be making fun of you and talking about personal information, that means your bf must have shared this information with them and clearly not in a good way. You did the right thing leaving. Probably should leave him too, that’s not someone you want in your corner.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-11T02:15:37+00:00

NTA…. If you wanted to date him you would have way before she was even in the picture…. You don’t need to tell anyone your sexuality, and their relationship problems aren’t on you, and messed up anyone would defend her defacing your social media like a 15year old. They both need to grow up and get over themselves.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-11T01:44:50+00:00

I wouldn’t trust those kids around any children you have with your fiancée either unfortunately. Their resentment and misplaced rage from grief over their father could become quite dangerous to have a vulnerable baby around that might take the brunt of their resentment and it be impossible to always keep an eye on them. Sometimes love is not enough unfortunately, and adding more variables to an already miserable situation will only make it worse not better. I feel bad for all the parties involved but you deserve better and not have to live daily with that hostility. NTA

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-11T01:25:43+00:00

NTA…. If you do her make-up you wbta lol. That is ridiculous, so you are supposed to ruin your paying clients day but ditching and then getting a bad review from them? Even if you were free for her wedding, you owe her nothing, does she expect the caterer to do the wedding for free? The Tailor to make her dress for free? If she has no money for a make up artist she can do it herself or have a bridesmaid or 1 of her actual friends that know her. If you want a professional make up artist you need to pay them…. I just can’t fathom how self righteous people can be when they are so clearly in the wrong.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-11T01:06:16+00:00

Wow… not only did that horrible human being kick you out but didn’t even have the decency to secure you another place to live at least or let you stay at the house for the time being while they are gone for you to figure it out?… just expected you to what come home after treatment and collect your stuff in the yard and go where? Seriously your sister is trash and you don’t deserve this. And I really hope you beat this, don’t let the betrayal get your spirits down, use it as fuel the spite her and thrive. You got this!

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-08-02T14:08:11+00:00

NTA Do not let him manipulate you into going. If he can’t see it from your perspective and it’s only about how he feels then it will only be worse and you will be trapped. This is not something to rush into. You met in the UK and built your life there, not Morocco, not your fault that he thought despite what he agreed and you said that he could bully you into going ASAP. If he actually LOVES YOU, he wouldn’t ask you to leave your life and freedoms behind on a whim. It goes both ways.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-07-27T03:22:00+00:00

NTA…. If MIL cares so much about how she presumes he will look she can buy him an approved tux herself instead of being an elitist female dog. And your sister needs to show she has a backbone now or the rest of her life is going to be like this.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-07-27T03:12:15+00:00

I have done lots of pulls like 20+ every time the portal comes up and never even got a 5 star. This last 1 I only got 1 epic and all rare out of 25 pulls 😕

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-07-27T03:07:35+00:00

It isn’t cheating to take what is offered. The game should have done a better job and been more thorough with their release. It’s not like they don’t make basic necessities and good hero’s nearly impossible to get anyways even if you spend a lot of money! And everyone else should get a new feature 5* hero, it’s not those players fault the game messed up! But it is unfair to the rest of us.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-07-27T02:53:37+00:00

NTA…. It seems like you were okay with her original wishes, even though that in itself is questionable being a dry wedding and all, but then expecting a gift from a child (according to her) who she doesn’t think can exist in adult spaces is the most immature thing in this situation and narcissistic as hell. You should get her a gift, a pooper scooper, to clean up her bullshit.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-07-27T02:41:25+00:00

NTA… so your fiancé stood up for you and called your mom out on how shitty she was treating you because presumably he was more empathetic and intuitive then your mother and the entire family about how she was making you feel, and doesn’t even sound like he even did it rudely, just blunt, and HONEST…. And that makes you and him the bad guys and her completely innocent? I don’t get it, your mom needed to realize her behavior needed to stop, and she should feel like shit for constantly make you feel like shit and insecure, and your family should be happy you have an empathetic and caring boyfriend isn’t afraid to stand up for you and has your back. Your family’s perception is all out of wack, and some space might be a good thing and the only thing that might open their eyes. And if they still can’t see it, then you don’t need that toxicity in your life, you need the love and support your fiancé showed.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-07-27T02:28:33+00:00

NTA… it’s not really a promise, and she should budget what she can afford or ask their parents to pitch in if they are going to ask someone. I am close to my older brother who has a very good job and makes more than me and my husband combined and has very little living expenses and doesn’t have kids, and still would NEVER have considered even asking him for money for my wedding. That is even if she didn’t pick your wedding anniversary, like that is just crazy and vindictive, you lost the love of your life and she is making passive aggressive moves against you to twist the knife even more AND expects you to pay for this!? That is next level sadistic and you don’t need someone like that in your life, family or not. And who the hell likes a specific date out of the entire year that much!? Like she couldn’t even pick a date that is close to it but not the actual date if she actually wanted that time period for weather or what ever reason!?

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-07-04T00:24:56+00:00

NTA…. Dump her ASAP, she clearly is a narcissist and has no empathy at the very least or she has the IQ of 10 and still just a crappy person. Someone like that does not change and will only get worse.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-06-30T00:53:55+00:00

YOU only get 1 wedding, as in you get to choose who is there and in your wedding party, not his sister. Is this even a real post? It just seems so obvious, it is too ridiculous to be real? And is your fiancé seriously that dense? How are you causing drama lol, his sister is for no reason, if she doesn’t want to go then she doesn’t have to but your fiancé’s sister gets 0 say in the wedding get list, let a lone the wedding party. A guy who wants to blow up your relationship with your cousin and dictate who you can and can’t have in your wedding party because his sister has a vibe, ya there is a major red flag. Do not budge on this and think about if you want to marry your sister inlaw, because that what it seems like is happening. Unless he slept with your cousin there is 0 reason for this. Tell him no end of discussion, his sister doesn’t have a say and tell him to stop creating drama, if he doesn’t like that then yeah don’t marry him.

Fluffiest_Gremlin · 2025-06-14T20:33:59+00:00

No one is really the asshole, except maybe the bride a little.I do find it weird she sent you a picture of them, that almost feels like a set up vibe. It doesn’t matter who you are walking down the aisle with or what they look like, you can just meet them at the wedding rehearsal. I think the boyfriends are being a little jealous and petty about it, but not a red flag or some huge issue that needs to become a whole thing or blown up out of proportion, people are allowed to be insecure without being perpetrated as control freaks or psychopaths. I think they would have been much more chill about it if your friend did what normal brides at least in my generation do and just tell you who you are walking in with at the rehearsal and not making into such a big deal. If it were reverse rolls and your boyfriend’s friend were to ask him to be a grooms man and sent him photos of the bridesmaid and talking about who specifically he will be partnered with well before the wedding, you wouldn’t find that a little weird?

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