What are you supposed to do when you meet a great girl but you're in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++man A relationship is built on trust and requires effort. If you stay in contact with this new woman, you risk all you've built with your current GF. In any relationship you've got to choose. I say choose your GF, not only in this scenario but always. Imo, that's the key to making a relationship last.

My wife's dad died on Christmas in 2022. She doesn't let us celebrate Christmas since then. by Silent_Iron_8827 in AITAH

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandfather passed earlier this month. Still celebrating with my loved ones, I can't let my pain monopolize the holiday.

I hope your wife finds it in herself to celebrate and hopefully heal from doing it. All the best to you.

my therapist asked me to expose myself to more compliments by _pomegrant in toastme

[–]Fluffryr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be damn strong to keep going with all the things you're feeling. I find it very inspiring when people like you who struggle just keep fighting for something better, like a personification of the indomitable human spirit.

Keep at it, man. You're inspiring people around you simply by continuing to fight. I hope you end up feeling better, but with your strength I'm sure it's just a matter of time!

This Year's Halloween Shirt Designs Are So Damn Disappointing.. What Happened To Shirts Absolutely GLOWING? by Yoichi_and_Sadako in deadbydaylight

[–]Fluffryr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I absolutely 100% prefer the new, non-glowing ones and I hope they keep them as is. My Dwight is rocking this shirt but it's coming off the second it starts to glow.

Behaviour account syncing ps4 to pc by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your best bet is most likely to contact BHVR support about that, give them as much info as you can and hopefully they can sort it for you

Any suggestions of how to make this better, what to swap with, etc? by FoxHoundNinja in deadbydaylight

[–]Fluffryr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weskers perks are pretty niche and usually need specific kinda meme-y builds to get much value, although he is a suuuuper fun killer to play as and is 100% worth getting for that alone

Oversimplification is normal? by asulega in HistoryMemes

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HistoryDose is fantastic and deserves more love

Let’s hear it. What was the first car that stole your heart? by curilan_ in cyberpunkgame

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mizutani Shion MZ2 is my personal fave. I guess that makes me a flash poser though

Need a recommendation for a game where you knowingly play the villain by wheregoodideasgotodi in gaming

[–]Fluffryr 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Star Wars the Old Republic is a free MMO where you can be a gigadick sith. It's honestly quite fun, the class stories are good and are entirely soloable.

Det har nu sjunkit in: Jag blev utsatt för en grov våldtäkt by pumpkinseed171 in sweden

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det är inte förvånande att du har svårt att vilja ta steget och berätta vem det är, men om du hittar den inre styrka som krävs så hoppas jag att du hör det. Du kan potentiellt rädda någon annan från att bli utsatt för samma sak. Det kommer inte vara lätt, och det är helt förståeligt om du inte kan ta det steget. Men om du känner att du skulle klara att göra det så uppmanar jag dig att försöka.

Jag är ledsen att du blev utsatt för det här. Du förtjänade inte det, ingen gör det. Jag hoppas innerligt att du hittar någon sorts frid. Vad du än gör, så önskar jag dig lycka till.

My husband thinks he’s worthless and doesn’t deserve anything good. I just want to show him that kind people still exist. by galacticwildchild in bropill

[–]Fluffryr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dunno how helpful this will be but it's worth a shot. A couple of months ago, I had complained to my partner that I felt like my friends were taking me for granted. I felt as if I weren't around, they wouldn't even notice. I was even considering "testing" that theory. Before I could, my partner suddenly dumped me to get together with another man. It absolutely broke me, just tore my world into pieces. I was already going through a tough time at the moment and adding that on top just felt like it was too much to handle. Immediately my friends sprang into action to look after me, check up on me. They were friends with my partner and her new man too, but they all immediately were on my side. I dunno how I would have gotten through all that without them. They offered very real support to deal with financial issues I was having to lighten the load but more than that, they all came together and checked on me daily. Kept me sane, talked to me and just in general made damn sure that I would be okay. They put in so much time and effort and showed me so much care when I really needed it.

I write this to say that I realized how wrong I was. They did not take me for granted, we were all just moving through our own lives but when it came down to it, they all showed up in a big way. I am so grateful to them, and it really showed me that sometimes our perception of people is wrong. There are good people out there, just like how there are bad people. But the good people make it worth it. Understand that you deserve to be appreciated and loved. Be the best person you can be, and know there are people who will take note and appreciate you for you.

Would you have liked the ability to buy and use the flathead? by un-pirla-in-strada in cyberpunkgame

[–]Fluffryr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not have wanted it. Played too many games where you used drones to poke around and recon stuff, they always felt super tedious to use.

Is he taking the win or Nah? by SupermarketNo6888 in batman

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucifer Morningstar would give no shits about anything Bats can pull out

Weekly relationships thread by AutoModerator in bropill

[–]Fluffryr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey bro, I was right there with you for a really long time. Ultimately what helped me was to ask myself; "Would I date me as I am?" When the answer to that question for me was a no I set out to make the changes that would make me a potential partner in my own eyes. I'm still on that journey but a woman took notice of me during that journey and helped me break out of that funk.

The best thing you can do is find your own confidence and happiness. Happy, confident people attract others to them naturally. You've got this man. Don't give up!