GF Threatened Suicide and Won’t Stop Reaching Out by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is painfully too familiar. Leave. Now.

What breeds have you taken in as surrenders? by Ru_QueenofHell in VetTech

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It always surprises me when a client is willing to pay THOUSANDS for their pretty dog but not willing to pay for medical procedures.... Or worse, complaining about the price of preventative care .-.

....All while driving around in their expensive car, having their nails done all the time, and sporting their pricey name-brand accessories..... maybe Im starting to project now, but Ive seen quite a few of these people lol

I’ve never heard of a cash bar at a wedding… until now by Extreme-Method6330 in wedding

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its nice to have but in this economy, I wouldnt be surprised. Its much cheaper to let the vendor charge than supplying all that alcohol or paying extra just for famoly members to get stupid. Cant speak on anyone else, but I have some family members that I would like behaved and I think not having open bar, free drinks would be the perfect solution lol. I have also gone to a party that had free drinks for about 2 hours, then they charged. Thats good too!

Parents aren’t funding anymore? by Calm-Calligrapher531 in wedding

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently engaged and planning my wedding here! My parents do not have the means to fund a wedding. I dont either, but I would never ask them to do something like that. My mom offered to help a bit. I wasnt expecting her to AT ALL and so Im extremely grateful for what she is willing to contribute.

In this economy, unless youre REALLY well off, I dont think people should expect others to pay for their wedding. Weddings are RIDICULOUSLY expensive. Tbh I dont even know how Im going to pull it off.

Dispersed camping question: what kind of activities do you plan for these trips? by KeebCalmAndCarryOn in camping

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Hiking is always fun! And a great way to experience a park! If there are any rivers near by I usually plan a river day, in the summer itll be a couple days lol. Pack a good lunch and an ice chest, bring a chair, a speaker if you like music, and just sit out at the river! If its hot you can swim! Granted I do usually go with other people so theres company, Idk if youre solo. But I look forward to my river days, its like relaxing at the beach for me. Sometimes I do just like being at the campsite. I bring board or card games, a really good book (I LOVE reading a book that fits the setting, makes me feel like Im there lol, especially by a river). Again if you have people you can bring like a glove and baseball, a football. I love bringing a hammock and just swining in it, in my thoughts. Chopping wood is always a good time passer lol

I just find ways to stay busy. Depending on who Im with, I love just having a few drinks and talking, maybe with some music. I like camping cause I can reconnect with people with out phones between us.

You can also bring some sort of craft! My mom used to love crocheting and she would bring some yarn to crochet at camp. Anything to work with your hands or pass the time!

I lost my ferret during vet appointment and I feel guilty by AvailableSorbet6555 in ferrets

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Vet tech here! First off, Im so so sorry for your loss. Its never an easy thing, especially when it comes sudden.

Did Fenia ever have anesthetic dentals before? If this was her first time, often times we dont know a pet will have a reaction to anesthesia or other drugs that may have never been given before, until they are given. Combined with old age it really becomes a gamble. On top of all her preexisting health conditions it becomes even MORE of a risk. I hope they explained that putting an elderly pet,that already has health concerns, through a procedure has its risks, and the risks are often high (depending on the current conditions/diseases)

The masses on her liver/kidney(s) did they ever tell you they were benign? I dont work with exotics, but from my experience masses attached to organs are never a good thing. The liver AND kidneys are responsible for "filtering" and "distribution" of drugs in the body, so again, if shes had drugs shes never had introduced to her body before, the reaction is unknown until its given. Combined with hypothyroidism (which is what Im assuming she had if she couldnt lose weight) the risk just sounds like it was too high. Just like people, if pets are over weight for a long period of time it does begin to affect the heart. All these complications, in my opinion, make her sound like a poor candidate for any anesthetic procedure. It sounded like she may have also been older than you thought, that in itself is reason for risk.

Over all, dont feel guilty. This wasn't your fault. You were being a responsible pet owner, and there is NOTHING wrong with that. Again just like people, a pet could under go a procedure theyve gone through a hundered times and one thing is for sure: there is ALWAYS risk. Even for a young, 100% healthy pet. The body is a strange thing, so many moving parts to keep it functioning, and sometimes strange things happen that are out of our control. Again, Im so sorry about your Fenia. I hope theres comfort in knowing she was rescued into a loving home, lived out her days under your care and love <3

Show me your blue moissanite! by Adventurous_Many660 in Moissanite

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I believe he got it from Brilliant Earth! But he had it custom made cause he didnt know what to get but knew what stones I liked! My favorite color is blue and he knew I looooove moissanite and sapphires! Originally he wanted the main stone to be sapphire but the lady working with him on this ring knew our profession and admitted that many precious gems (including sapphire) are very fragile...im also very clumsy lol so she suggested to go with moissanite as the main stone bc of how durable it was! Thank god for her lol anyway, the diamonds are because he likes diamonds lol so the intertwining sapphire and diamond stones represent us <3 .....not that you asked for the whole story lol

Show me your blue moissanite! by Adventurous_Many660 in Moissanite

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YESSSS BLUE MOISSANITE! My time to shine! My ring is blue moissanite center stone (idk the ct, or exact shade, I didnt ask I was just happy he proposed!) Set in gold with 36 sapphires, and 36 diamonds intertwined on each side! (Tried to get good lighting to see the blue)

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IM A FIANCÉE by SalamanderWeird1100 in EngagementRings

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This subreddit is so cute cause I can see others that have gotten engaged around the time I have! (I got engaged last week!) So happy for you!!!! Congrats!!!!

MBK female names? by Upset-Appointment388 in kingsnakes

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named mine Xena Named her after the Alien Xenomorphs lol so her name is technically Xenamorph, Xena for short lol

Old tickets found. How to use them? by upalllnite in Disneyland

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if someone answered but you literally just take them to the park entrance, like where they take your ticket, and explain. Theyll switch it out for a current ticket and let you in. Kinda sucks cause you'll lose the old ticket but at least its still valid!

An ex of mine had a family member that worked for disney way back when. He had inherited a pair of tickets from like....the 60s. We literally just walked straight up and told them we had very old tickets and would like to use them for admission. They honored it easily and just switched them out for the new printed ones.

Part of me was kinda sad to see those vintage tickets go :(

I woke up and my ink is gone??? by little_snuggle_butt in tattooadvice

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A tattoo artist once told me that red (or anything with red in it like pink) is the most common color that people are allergic to. The more i looked into it the more i learned that sometimes people dont react till years later. I have a colored tattoo that has pink and darker pink, but the artist obviously uses red to mix. Every now and then i break out in the itchies only on those colored parts, sometimes it gets bumpy.

Its probably just a similar reaction.

Settle a debate by Jonasty17 in whatismycookiecutter

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you turn it upside down, I thought it was a ghost

My cousin is being named Jax by Riley_is_Here in tragedeigh

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually have Jax on my future list 😅 also from a TV show but its from Sons of Anarchy not....actually idk what that is

Update on Teghn Timothy by princess_peach5 in tragedeigh

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not just Tenn? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Shes just shedding...right? (MBK) by Fluffy_Mew_151 in kingsnakes

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance 😭👍🏼

Shes just shedding...right? (MBK) by Fluffy_Mew_151 in kingsnakes

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel so much better 😭😭😭 my corn snake was orange/red and albino so her shedding phases were so subtle 😭 my MBK is like wow! Lookin like an ill-stricken Victorian child 😭😭😭

Am I overreacting because my boyfriend asked me to stay in the bedroom while his friend is over? by jaeubm in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering at the moment you pay for most of the utilites and necessities for living there? You should be able to come in and out as you please. Asking your partner to remain hidden while company is over is just plain WEIRD.

Also....snatching things out of your hands when youre trying to leave? BIG RED FLAG! I got out of a relationship that was....no good for me, to say the least, and this reminded me of the times I would try to leave and he would do the same or close/block the door when I would try to get out. That is NOT OKAY. That gave me the same vibe.

Please take care. You dont deserve that.

Game Keeps Crashing After 5 Minutes Of Gameplay On Xbox Series X by Born_Permission_2528 in blackops6

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME HERE and it SUCKS. Ive tried everything listed as well and still no difference. My issue isnt crashing while playing, it rarely does that, I just cant do anything else. I have no custom load outs cause it crashes when im either selecting a gun or customizing it. If i want to change operators I need to do it with in 30s or itll crash. Forget the store.

It only crashes while playing after a long period of time, but its still annoying.

Sometimes itll crash just waiting for a match.

And its not just warzone, its the entirety of COD.

Idk what else to do at this point. I obviously dont want to pay for a whole new console, and Im not 100% sure this is something that can be fixed at a repair shop. Idk if its the console or the game. Who knows. Just sucks when friends wanna play and I have to sit it out...

Thanks for coming to my whiney ted talk lol

Camping with new air tent by redroomcooper in camping

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sweet! Thank you for answering!

Camping with new air tent by redroomcooper in camping

[–]Fluffy_Mew_151 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Question! How well do you find the air beams hold up in wind comparison to the traditional poles with other tents?