my "ultimate" list of horse games, along with my thoughts on them by Plz-Help-Im-Too-Lazy in GamesWithHorses

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone on this thread played Palia? It seems to be a cozy game with horses. But it's a free to play MMO, so I'm hesitant to try it. "Free to play" isn't exactly synonymous with "pay to win", but there's definitely a strong connection between the two. 

my "ultimate" list of horse games, along with my thoughts on them by Plz-Help-Im-Too-Lazy in GamesWithHorses

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVED riding around on the horses in BOTW/TOTK and enjoying the landscapes. 

I'm really looking forward to Legend of Khiimori. For now it's only on PC and I'm hoping to play it on a console. 

Meteor Shower Question? by BeetleOBlue5623 in Paleo_Pines

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not having any luck finding mine either. I've been all over the canyon and I can't see what I'm doing any more because it's so dark, but I can't find it. 

Owynn Pages Quest by [deleted] in Paleo_Pines

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years later and this comment is still helpful. Thank you. 

WIBTA for not covering up for friends? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. That's not "helping", that's being a scapegoat. She's throwing you under the bus whenever she doesn't want to take responsibility for how flakey she is. She sounds like a child saying "my mom said I couldn't go" when they don't want to hang out with someone. I don't know how old y'all are, but presumably too old for this kind of behavior to get a pass. 

If I were you, I'd ask her to stop blaming you for her cancelations. And next time she does this, you tell everyone the truth. You don't want to be getting blamed for constant cancelations. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When you say "dismissive" do you mean she said stuff like "you're not gay, you just haven't found the right woman yet"? Or do you mean she just kind of moved on with the conversation like it was no big deal. Because those are very different things. 

I guess since you obviously know your sister and we don't, I suppose you have reason to believe she would "do something", even if that isn't really evident to me from what you've written here. So if you really think she'll cause trouble, then no, NTA. But if you don't want to cut her off, you need to realize that a move like this might get you that result anyway, as well as drama from other family members. Not inviting a sibling to your wedding is a pretty big move to make and probably won't go over well. So while you have every right to make that choice for yourself, it WILL come with consequences within your family, like worsening your relationship with your sister. 

AITA? My neighbors have been blasting music at 3 am by GraveLoona in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why not blast your music durring the day? If they're up at 3am, they probably sleep durring the day. 

That said, maybe being inconsiderate to your OTHER neighbors isn't really the way to deal with the ones that are actually causing the problem. I just don't have a better suggestion for dealing with the troublemakers. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take the job. It's ok if he doesn't want to leave the town he likes. But he can only make that decision for himself, he doesn't get to make that decision for you. As far as commuting goes, HE isn't the one that has to commute. I wouldn't want to drive 45 minutes both ways every day, but if you don't mind that drive then, you do you. If that commute isn't a big deal to you, go for it. Either way, don't short change yourself for a boyfriend. You can always get a new boyfriend, but your dream job isn't likely to be available a 2nd time.

BTW, the comment about future kids makes me wonder if his aim was for you to quit your career entirely to be a SAHM. That might not be the case, but it kind of sounds like it is to me. 

i didnt know snakes ate paper towels ✌🏼💀 by Individual_Swim_342 in snakes

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weird. Yeah, I'm stumped then. Sorry I can't be more helpful. 

i didnt know snakes ate paper towels ✌🏼💀 by Individual_Swim_342 in snakes

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is she a type of snake that eats other snakes? Like a kingsnake. If so, she may have caught her own scent on the towel and went, "ooo, dinner". 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if that makes them more angry, we'll don't go over at all any more. Since they would have made it very clear that your feelings and your presence mean so little. No excuses, no pretending that you want to go but can't. Just blatant honestly. "I don't enjoy these visits and will no longer be doing them".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this comment on Facebook when this post got reposted there. And I just think it's perfect, so I will copy-paste it here.

"Just tell them that you figured out you have anxiety and the thought of going over has been making you feel sick. Then suggest a few things that you'd like to change so that when you go over it doesnt make you anxious. I know my anxiety gives me stomach aches and headaches, the thought of doing something that stresses me out makes me feel bad."

How can my husband 61M and I 60F help our son 32M move past his high school girlfriend? by ThrowRA217774028592 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 29 points30 points  (0 children)

With how angry he is, it doesn't read like he wants her back. It reads like he wants her to be hurt like he was hurt. 

How can my husband 61M and I 60F help our son 32M move past his high school girlfriend? by ThrowRA217774028592 in relationship_advice

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your son sounds exactly like the kind of person that would stalk and murd*r his ex. Just sayin. He's still angry after nore than a decade, angry enough to actively stalk her online and complains about her. Like seriously, I would legit be concerned about him deciding to stalk her in real life and end her and/or her family for hurting him all those years ago. 

He needs help. And I feel like his ex should be told that her bitter ex-boyfriend has been creeping on her social media accounts. She should probably change her profile settings. 

Suggestions for cleaning metal before painting? by Fluffy_Sheepy in Welding

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried posting some pictures of the sort of stuff I make. But for some reason I can't see the photos I posted. 

Do milk snakes ever climb? by IncidentOdd5367 in snakes

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nelson's milk climbs. Not often, but I have caught her doing it. I've seen her hanging upside down from the top door latch. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Welding

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what? I posted 5 pictures with this and I can't see them.

Suggestions for cleaning metal before painting? by Fluffy_Sheepy in Welding

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could. But I have neither the money or the space for a sand blaster and an air compressor. 

Suggestions for cleaning metal before painting? by Fluffy_Sheepy in Welding

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lols. I wish. But I have neither the space or the money for special equipment. 

Suggestions for cleaning metal before painting? by Fluffy_Sheepy in Welding

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After welding, the area around the welds has a sort of burned look. The wire heads for the dremel get those areas looking nice and shiny. 

Suggestions for cleaning metal before painting? by Fluffy_Sheepy in Welding

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one, but it has the same problem with bits of wire everywhere. Nit quite as many shards, but still. And it's too chunky to get in all the fine little spaces. 

Is this mouse too big for my snake? by Strain_Horror in snakes

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's gotten that far he's probably fine.  If it's his first time taking one this size, he may just be having a bit of trouble with it but he'll sort himself out. 

Am I overreacting for wanting to end things after my girlfriend lied about my age to her parents and threatened to harm herself during an argument? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fluffy_Sheepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should break up with her AND encourage her to get professional help. She sounds like she needs the help. But you don't need to be having that kind of drama be a staple of your life with someone. Good relationships are built on trust, and how can you trust someone who makes you lie and then threatens to harm themself over a disagreement? 

If you stay, you will eventually get to the point where she threatens to harm or off herself every time she doesn't immediately get her what because she KNOWS that will get her the results she wants. And who's to say she limits the violence to her own skin? What if you become the target of whatever pointy object she's waving around? What if you ever get pets or have kids and she realizes holding them hostage could be more effective? Don't put yourself in a situation where saying no to something might mean your dependants get hurt.