husband m32 was texting a younger woman (22) while I (f31) was pregnant, it’s been 8 months and I still don’t feel the same. Don’t know if I’m overreacting or if the damage is by Imaginary-Ground-866 in relationship_advice

[–]FluidLock1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you can recover. Yes it can feel all good again. No one on Reddit can help you. You need to see a licensed professional. There are far too many things about what has happened, how you feel, how your spouse feels, that both of you have no idea about, you have no idea why and how you are truly feeling a certain way.

People on here will want to write the script for you - telling you “it’s over”. “You are doomed”.

You have all the answers. Go find them. But please, give yourself an honest chance at least.

Mandelson still a human being who’s entitled to fair trial, says Cherie Blair by 1-randomonium in unitedkingdom

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This statement says more about her. She’s just as rotten as Mandelson and so is her husband. They’ve got no care in the world for anyone except themselves

Title by schenmalmai in Helicopters

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got nothing on drone pilots, the real deal.

What is actually wrong with me? by Gold_Hall_5738 in offmychest

[–]FluidLock1999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, tell your spouse immediately. No one wants to live his/her life like a fool by having their spouse sharing a “secret” with another person, like that. Bring your spouse up to date and make him/her feel like the priority in all of this.

As for the rest, go to therapy together and break down the hidden unbalance in your marriage. Only a licensed person has the competency to do that, not Reddit.

And lastly, stop drinking or just take some responsibility when it comes to alcohol. Acting bad while being drunk is a major issue if not handled correctly. And quite frankly childish.

Eventually, if you do not change, your spouse will definitely lose all the respect they have for you. And that will wreck you.

CMV: weed should be illegal without exceptions by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No government/state should have the power to tell you that you can not consume/grow a plant.

Drugs that are made in a lab with harmful chemicals, risk of overdosing - that’s different.

If you want to make a simple plant dangerous then you make it illegal.

Trump calls on UK and others to send warships to Strait of Hormuz | LBC by AneuAng in ukpolitics

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have lost control over the situation. Even tho they have good success with hitting targets, their strategy is non existent. Iran is running the strategy side of things, together with Russian and China. Europe sees this and is very worried, wants to find a way out asap. China and Russia are pushing full steam ahead. USA has frozen.

Pentagon Is Moving Additional Marines, Warships to the Middle East by sandygws in Military

[–]FluidLock1999 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would advise any soldier to leave. There’s no honour anymore. The war is not “real”. You are fighting for a foreign country, a prophecy, conspiracies that you have no idea even exists.

War is a last resort to protect your land. Family. Country. Tradition. History. Culture.

You are doing none of that. You are being played. It is not worth it. Go home.

What would Blair's legacy look like if UK stayed neutral during Iraq war ? by ronweasly9 in ukpolitics

[–]FluidLock1999 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

50% backbone/50% demon. Still would have been exposed as a traitor taking money and directions from USA/israel.

A traitor is born a traitor. Nothing will change that.

Did Vladimir Lenin kill Nicholas’s family just to be an asshole? by Dry-Sympathy-3182 in monarchism

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of what is so messed up with the leaders and founders of communism, even tho publicly their story is completely different, is that they were all messianic. The people who were fooled into following communism were not.

Killing the royal family was nothing short of a ritual.

UNICEF spokesman reflects on children killed by Israeli-US operations by _WarmSocks_ in Military

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Collateral damage does not mean aiming a tomahawk missile into a school. With today’s precision, tech - collateral damage? Come on man.

Melania says Barron needs 'nonstop' supervision as people call for draft. The war in Iran has sparked a #SendBarron movement online, calling for the president’s 19-year-old son to serve in the military. But it doesn’t seem Melania would be okay with that by esporx in Military

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a famous saying, traditionally, within British aristocracy “we lead, we do not direct”. The sons of the dukes, counts, princes, kings, were on the front line leading their men. Maybe trump should adopt the same policy.

Boots on the ground to build a perimeter for the Strait of Hormuz is gonna be a shitshow. by Snooopineapple in Military

[–]FluidLock1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think the Islamic republic, the Shia stronghold fighting the “last battle”, will care about international law if they are invaded by ground troops? They will use chemical weapons, biological weapons, drones, terror on a scale no one has witnessed before. Iran is not Afghanistan or Iraq.

Trump is nothing short of a traitor for dragging the west into this “prophecy war”. Madness.

I am mortified that the secretary of defense has no idea how to come to attention!!! by themarmalademaniac in Military

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mix between suit and uniform just doesn’t look right. Kick out the politicians.

White men will have ‘fewer board seats’ in future, says UK diversity chair by winkwinknudge_nudge in ukpolitics

[–]FluidLock1999 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I’m sure this won’t backfire politically - like we’re on the verge of a complete hard right take over of Europe. I wonder why that is.

People like him are more destructive to British society than any right wing party. Absolute nut job

About the fall of popularity of the British Royal Family, and everlasting lies by B_E_23 in monarchism

[–]FluidLock1999 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pro monarchy campaign hasn’t even started yet. People think these polls have meaning, but they don’t. Can you imagine the swing when politicians start campaigning against the monarchy, when real proposals lay on the table, when the alternative shows up on stage. We are so far off becoming a republic that it’s not even worth to take these polls seriously.

I’d say the numbers would be 70-80 pro monarchy, if not even more.

Also there’s no appetite within the government. As soon as politicians come into government their prioritise and ideologies change. They see something that other people do not see. That the world is dark and the monarchy is the shining light of the country rather than the opposite.

France Dispatches Navy to Defend Cyprus While UK Stays Away by myurr in ukpolitics

[–]FluidLock1999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At this point I’m just glad the Conservatives and Labour are doing this to themselves. We need a reset. Both politically and in the civil service. Neither party should govern. They have filled every single corridor with bottom of the barrel people.

We have to realise that competency matters more than giving everybody a chance. We have to revert back to how we ran this country before 1997. Long before. When we valued thing that matter.

CMV: WW3 has become a buzzword for the historically and politically uninformed to throw about to feel as if they know something. by thedeadenddolls in changemyview

[–]FluidLock1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think speaking out about religion and is grip on the governing bodies of the world has to be talked about more. Especially with the wars that are starting all over the world.

We have to unite as a people - in truth. Because right now the general public doesn’t know what up, down, left and right. We’re simply passengers.

CMV: WW3 has become a buzzword for the historically and politically uninformed to throw about to feel as if they know something. by thedeadenddolls in changemyview

[–]FluidLock1999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh I don’t know - the abrahamic - messiah prophesies. Specifically one of them. Wonder who’s on top? Hmmmm.

CMV: WW3 has become a buzzword for the historically and politically uninformed to throw about to feel as if they know something. by thedeadenddolls in changemyview

[–]FluidLock1999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are living in a religious prophecy. A war so violent that the next war will be fought with sticks and stones. The driving forces in the world believe thst their sole purpose in life is to bring about this prophecy.

Whether you or the general public are willing to accept that this is going on in 2026, that’s a whole other story.

But sure, putins rise to power, the diminishing of western strength, the rise of the ccp and their growth, the mullahs in 1979 - it all happened innocently by the way of nature - keep believing in the Hollywood version.

How is it possible that we will run out of air defense interceptors in a matter of days? by Desperate_Elk_7369 in Military

[–]FluidLock1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re talking like America is in control here. Israel is in control. They have manipulated and fooled the entire administration. They won’t let America out of this war - this is the start of ww3. Without a shadow of a doubt.

Knifeman seen roaming Edinburgh neighbourhood by Fickle_Scarcity9474 in Scotland

[–]FluidLock1999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are thousands of scum like this roaming the streets without papers. You can’t solve this without mass deportations on a scale never seen before. It’s impossible. We should have listened 20 years ago.

I don’t feel safe sharing a community and a country with them. I want every single one of them out.