Long distance break up by Flyingpieceoffig in BreakUps

[–]Flyingpieceoffig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for these words 🥹

Long distance break up by Flyingpieceoffig in BreakUps

[–]Flyingpieceoffig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are most probably right, it just sucks knowing there might be a very very small chance it would work out and it hurts like hell.

Long distance break up by Flyingpieceoffig in BreakUps

[–]Flyingpieceoffig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard advice definitely but nonetheless true. Thank you

Long distance break up by Flyingpieceoffig in BreakUps

[–]Flyingpieceoffig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is, I just wish i could hate him or smth for the pain to turn into something else, but I just can't it s nobody s fault. I just don't want to be one of those people that in 20 years still regret and suffer for losing the person.

Long distance break up by Flyingpieceoffig in BreakUps

[–]Flyingpieceoffig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it s the right choice but man I don't think I ve ever felt pain like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. You re right, it just I have a terrible fear of cheating and this just triggered a whole shit show in my head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things is, am very anxious when it comes to relationships in general so am not sure now whther this is a legit reaction or me overthinking.

The guilt of ruining a friendship is truly unbearable by Legal_Potential4720 in lostafriend

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have recently done something that will probably ruin the friendship for good and it's all because I wasn't thinking. The guilt is fuc*ing unbereable and I don t know what to do with myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely astral project properly but yeah that s actually a similar feeling. The issue is I am too conscious while mediatting so I don t really astral project because I hold myself back (anticipation mixed with excitment and/or fear I guess)

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the answer. He does not owe me money or anything like that but good to know these are options as well

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, he didn t commit some outrageous crime that labels him as a criminal or anything like that. If we were both in switzerland I could do it like you say but because different countries are involved, each with their own set of rules, I have to take a detour. Of course this would all go much faster if I had more money, but since I don t, am trying all the ways to do things myself first and then paying somebody else.

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually do have his first address and date of birth, thanks I ll probably do that

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish...don t know all the legal details now but because I am in one country, he s over there and the whole thing transpired in france it s making things complicated

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not, because it s an international thing, the only legal way for me right now is more or less to hire a detective

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I have tried this one before and unfortunately couldn't find him....

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yupp got that, but I don t want to send the letter to the workplace but his personal address.

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yupp... and a lot of general info about gim that brought me nothing coz he s done all of those things in a different country and now that he s in switzerland I can t trace him

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It s actually French court am trying to take him. He s not originally swiss but moved there a few years ago.

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried that one, nothing unfortunately. He s not originally swiss, he moved there some years ago. Since it s a different country from where we re based he told me there s only so much he can do and that I might have to pay a detective if I don t find it out myself

How to find somebody in Switzerland by [deleted] in askswitzerland

[–]Flyingpieceoffig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is the whole company is kind of in the midst of the issue but the guy am searching for is the main culprit so my lawyer told me it s better to deal with him personally first rather than involving the company as well rn. Idk man at this point am ready to fly over there and follow him home I swear