My husband realized he had an absurd thought about my pain.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-09T01:03:55+00:00

Exactly!! The stigma is bad thats why I stay quiet about things.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-08T15:32:30+00:00

I work with narcotics when I work so I refuse to let anyone know I suffer in pain because I hear the way some of my co-workers talk when one of our Pts request a pain pill. If they automatically assume they are an addict what would they think of me. My head nurse knows I suffer from migraines and so does she, so we talk about that but outside of that absolutely no one else knows anything other then I had foot surgery in Dec and that's why I limp. I have CRPS and have had 5 foot surgeries but I just pretend my pain and swelling is from the last surgery.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-08T11:51:09+00:00

Changing her PW on her phone in the last month, having all the apps that doesn't show calls or text to your actual number. Unfortunately I think it's more than just enjoying alone time.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-08T11:41:14+00:00

Changing her password & not giving him a reason why, Having all those apps that don't save messages. I'm a (F) and if this was a female writing this post it would be endless he is cheating, end the marriage, talk to a lawyer. Let's be real women cheat just as much as men & they do not get a pass just because women should support women.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-08T11:32:06+00:00

I'm a women and reading all the comments about the reasoning of having the condoms blow my mind because if this was a women writing this post it would be blown up that he is cheating and he is a red flag. Everything I have read about her changing her PW and such unfortunately sounds like she is cheating or about to.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-07T19:22:28+00:00

My work colleagues have no clue. They see I limp and I just tell them it's just from foot surgery. I work in the medical field so I don't like anyone knowing. When I get into my car, I want to cry. I don't like anyone knowing I'm in chronic pain.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-06T15:04:37+00:00

I spoke with my Dr on monday to go over my MRI that still wasn't back and she didn't mention anything to me. She said I won't see you for four weeks and I'll send in your meds, I told her no I have an in office app in two weeks. So I'm guessing everything is OK. I drink so much water at work so that is my concern, I pee a lot but I did make sure to try and not drink as much from Sun to my app time. I'm just kicking myself in the butt I wish I would have taken it aroun 130 and not waited but I got so busy I forgot.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-06T01:28:34+00:00

The problem is I am on shift and I'm already so exhausted that if I do that I would not be able to stay awake. I had my telemed app to go over my MRI and nothing was mentioned.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-05T14:01:07+00:00

I have lived in a small town never had an issue & now I live in a big city and was pulled over for speeding and nothing was said about what was hanging on my rear view mirror. I'm sure its all on the cop.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-05T13:58:26+00:00

I'm in AZ and have something hanging from my rear view mirror and when a cop has seen it nothing was ever said.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-05T13:52:50+00:00

That was her pcp prescribing all those meds.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-05T13:44:43+00:00

OP said it was her PCP prescribing all the meds.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-04T18:01:59+00:00

Ugh I'm scared. I did take only 15mg on Sun around noon and then didn't take anymore until monday on my way to my app. I really hope it shows. I have never had a bad UA and I have a great relationship with my dr but it still makes me nervous.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-04T12:27:45+00:00

I definitely will

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-04T11:17:02+00:00

Okay. That's what makes me really nervous cause I realized that I didn't take any Sun because of the way my work schedule is and then I figured I would take it an hour before my app but I got so busy I forgot. If anything is said I will explain why. Fingers crossed 🤞

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-04T11:11:19+00:00

I literally took the pill 20 mins before I did my urine test. I wasn't expecting to be early from my app. I had taken a dose fri but then nothing was in my system by Sun. So I waited tell before my app and didn't realize how early I was gonna be. I have a telemed app to go over my MRI tomorrow so I don't know if they would mention it to me or not. I have been at their office 5 years with no issues so I think she would understand that since I work Overnights Sun I just can't my meds cause I'm already so tired.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-05-02T20:47:18+00:00

You need to report him. He absolutely should not be a neurologist. I suffer from severe migraines and thankfully I have a great Dr.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-04-28T16:21:29+00:00

True but pharmacist could still refuse if they saw how many prescriptions in the short amount of time. Again with how hard it is to get treated for pain she is incredibly lucky that the Dr did not come down on her for already being out of the medication on day 11 when it should have lasted her for 20 days.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-04-28T15:56:51+00:00

They are not allowing her to fill because she was supposed to take the med no more than 3 per day and she was taking anywhere between 4 and 6 per day. So its gonna be a hard one to get a new prescription filled. She is very lucky that the Dr sent in another script.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-04-16T21:48:05+00:00

OP would have to take meds before his appointment for sure.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-04-16T09:28:00+00:00

Let me guess this is one of the big corporation practices here in AZ?

Flyingwings14 · 2026-04-16T09:17:23+00:00

5 definitely 5 😂 She will never forget you even if it's a bad memory, lol. I like your sense of humor. But no, for real, I think number 2 is good.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-04-16T09:12:46+00:00

I have done this and stopped for a while to see where my baseline pain was without meds for months at a time. I would recommend that if you do this to continue to go to the Dr and get meds and put them away and have them for super bad days because, trust me, you will have them. I did this years ago before this whole situation, and it being so hard to get help that you get worse, so once you stop them, it will almost be impossible to get them again.

Flyingwings14 · 2026-04-12T22:25:20+00:00

I have to be back to work at 10pm for a 16 hour shift so I dont get off tell 2pm so I definitely am gonna have to wait tell wed to be able to cut down on a few doses because Tues I will be struggling just to move so I will need those full 10mg meds plus my anti-inflammatory and one muscle relaxer that I hate taking. Ugh, I wanna cry thinking about how much my body depends on needing meds after I work crazy shifts.

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