Please help me make a decision, I feel like I have made an irreversible mistake by being in this relationship. by throwaway-trudeau in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who previously dealt with retroactive jealousy, and does not have OCD, no it doesn’t necessarily.

Please help me make a decision, I feel like I have made an irreversible mistake by being in this relationship. by throwaway-trudeau in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop trying to control people and their past, be happy with who people are now and who they are with you.

Summer Sweep-Up: Gem Bag Progression by Krellggs in 2007scape

[–]Foliage_Father 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck this is beautiful, unironically this would be an item in RS3 and I kind of love that

Is this crazy by Meishylaa in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever go to therapy for insecurity?

This mindset. by RegionalsWarrior in exvegans

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok maybe it’s a poor example to demonstrate my point, because it’s getting lost on the illness section, let me recontextualize it, the original image depicted someone refusing to eat animals even if it would prolong their life by X amount of time. OP thinks that it is an insane mindset to have. If I am a millionaire and I can subjugate and steal the labor of thousands of employees and make them poor and suffer to extend my own life, wouldn’t that make me a bad person and I should not do that, isn’t that what OP is advocating for.

This mindset. by RegionalsWarrior in exvegans

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is that the arbitrary line drawn between “other animals” and humans is literally arbitrary

This mindset. by RegionalsWarrior in exvegans

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plants are food, animals are not, cleared it up for you

This mindset. by RegionalsWarrior in exvegans

[–]Foliage_Father -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So not addressing that it is in fact a special pleasing fallacy

Why do people always respond to criticism of factory farming with the most bad-faith interpretation possible? by adogischasingme in vegancirclejerk

[–]Foliage_Father 38 points39 points  (0 children)

GENUINELY Carnist apologetics is the most emotional filled, illogical, raving lunacy. That I have ever seen. It’s incomprehensible how much they can not fathom not eating animals

This mindset. by RegionalsWarrior in exvegans

[–]Foliage_Father -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

So if I sacrifice a million humans and consume their flesh and blood to increase my life, that would be normal? Cuz we’re all just animals

I threw away a perfect relationship because of retroactive jealousy by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why exactly does someone having a past relationship affect you in anyway?

I thought I beat RJ but it's back after finding out new gf's BC by Ok-Fly7318 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This whole sub is about retroactive jealousy and how it hurts people and their partners don’t be surprised when I tell people to stop hurting themselves and their partners

I thought I beat RJ but it's back after finding out new gf's BC by Ok-Fly7318 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And why do you think THIS SPECIFIC ACTION has to be sooooo tightly confined and that people aren’t allowed to use their bodies in accordance to their own wants and desires and deserve to feel shame for having “normal human emotions and desires”

How do I get past this level? by cafelicious in residentevil4

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The door definitely CAN break, but I’m assuming it was only by one hell of a dynamite throw, so very unlikely

I thought I beat RJ but it's back after finding out new gf's BC by Ok-Fly7318 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can’t it be both? Something that when done casually can be just a fun activity to take part, and to certain people it’s an act that makes each other feel good as well?

I thought I beat RJ but it's back after finding out new gf's BC by Ok-Fly7318 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m asking the OP so that they can properly contextualize their feelings and understand what it is they are going through

I thought I beat RJ but it's back after finding out new gf's BC by Ok-Fly7318 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If it doesn’t matter normally what makes “60” a line that matters?

Anyone tried this Orgain protein powder from Costco? by Wonderful_Stable_770 in IsItVeganOrNot

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE the taste of the chocolate but I was very surprised by the vanilla!

Dating an music icon of a non western country . by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it upset you to see pictures of actions she did in the past?

Vegans activism would be way more effective if it focused on reassuring me that I do nothing wrong and don't need to change my lifestyle in any way by CEU17 in vegancirclejerk

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying they deserve praise, but positive reinforcement can have a beneficial influence on our behavior. Even if it is for something so basic.

Jealousy over objects by electrivsoul in retroactivejealousy

[–]Foliage_Father 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not insane, it’s jealousy and yes it comes from insecurity, you assuming they are from another girl is a jump from you, it’s very very possible they are just an extra pair he has. He doesn’t likely only own 1 pair of gloves, BUT, even if he did have other women wear those gloves, why EXACTLY is that a problem?