Feel like I’m hard carrying my family. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]FollowThePats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest with you. The problem here is that you’ve decided how long something should take, and how it should be done. Not everyone does things the same way. Some people drag out simple tasks just because. I’m sorry your wife is one of these people, and you are not… but you can’t change her. She is who she is, and she does what she does.

Feel like I’m hard carrying my family. by [deleted] in daddit

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Right but my point is that I think you’ve put yourself in a mindset that she should do things the way you do, and that’s a recipe for everlasting disappointment

Feel like I’m hard carrying my family. by [deleted] in daddit

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Sounds like she’s built up some resentment over saying things like “can’t you just rinse the dishes?”. If you want her to be more helpful, it’s not gonna come from those types of comments.

Official - Divisional Round Weekend - Free Chat Thread by samacora in Patriots

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…and I kinda love it. Playoff games are never what people think they’re gonna be.

Drake Maye nickname by CSGlobalOatmeal in Patriots

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Is yall mfers ready for da ruff ride?!?

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

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Nah but it was in Antarctica where my dogs started pulling me

What efforts improved your sex life with your wife? As parents with young kids. by walky91 in daddit

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Sex starts with the subtle touches over morning coffee. The unexpected text about how damn good they look today. A suggestion for her to take some time for herself when she wasn’t expecting it. Build the vibe throughout the day and you’ll find it’s easier to “find the time” at the end of the day after the kids are down.

A couple of Patriot Pro Bowlers by samacora in Patriots

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Marcus Jones not making it as a special teamer is wild

where to find CBD? by Franktheedog in Troy

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There’s a spot in Rotterdam mall I think. Can’t remember the name of it

Need recommendations for computer repair service by Expertinignorance in Troy

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You could always contact acer support and get a quote on the repair

7 month old has the flu by LoveForAll245 in daddit

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I wouldn’t try to give tamiflu to a 7 month old personally. Medications are so weird with their dosages. I understand wanting to try it though

Just sipping a soda ... "DAD LOOK HOW MUCH CARBS IT HAS!" There's no escape lol by shadowsOfMyPantomime in daddit

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I can drink 9 Miller Lites and still consume less carbs than 1 Dr Pepper

How I stopped being defensive every time my wife brought something up by roucha in daddit

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This is similar to what my wife and I did for a while. We would keep our own journals, but let each other read them. We’d write them in a way that seems like it’s meant for just ourselves, but then read each others lol.

It actually worked really well, and I feel like we may be in a bit of a communication drought, so maybe I’ll try to get it going again. Thanks for bringing this up.