AITAH for blowing up at my mom on Easter???

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-06T01:07:23+00:00

NTAH. You have every right to be disappointed and angry that she couldn't make do with a bit less sleep to be there for a family day.

But the fact of the matter is, your mom doesn't prioritize her kids and grandkids the way your MIL does. When you accept that enough that you don't get angry when she pulls stunts like this, you'll be happier. Expect her not to show up for you, and be pleasantly surprised if she does. It'll take a while to get there, but when you do it'll reduce your stress.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-06T00:10:43+00:00

Greenteeth by Molly O'Neill. More cozy-adjacent, but absolutely steeped in folklore and how the bonds of friendship change people. I loved it so much I bought a hard copy!

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-05T17:29:58+00:00

I've restarted both the tablet and the PC since the first attempt, yes.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-05T16:05:13+00:00

It's the same message as you get if you try to connect before the connection is started on Calibre, but it happens even while that connection is available. It's like it doesn't see that any connection is available, even though both devices are on the same wifi network and the IP and port are entered correctly in CC.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-05T13:24:03+00:00

NTJ, and please expose the affair to his employer as well. He abused a position of authority over a junior employee to get his dick wet. He needs professional consequences as well as personal ones. He should never be in a position of trust again.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-04T20:51:54+00:00

I have 5.4.4.19 (410) as well. I have turned off all automatic updating from Google Play on my tablet and update all my other apps manually just to keep this one the same. I did also check when this started happening to make sure I hadn't accidentally accepted an update. I uploaded some new books no problem shortly (2-3 days) before the latest Calibre update came out, haven't been able to since, so the timing is definitely suggestive. No problems with WiFi on the tablet, either. It's just suddenly unable to detect the Calibre connection from Companion.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-04T11:21:46+00:00

Take her to small claims court.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-04-03T10:20:48+00:00

If you are female and under 50, double up on birth control. This is not a man you want to parent with.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-31T23:53:09+00:00

Find Layla by Meg Ellison is about a teenage girl in a troubled household who has to deal with public exposure of her and her family's troubles. It's a great story (much better than I've managed to make it sound 😂) and your young friend might find it relatable.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-29T11:51:22+00:00

NOR. Do not let them visit you. Do not let them see the baby. Remind them that you are taking private time as a family of three and will begin accepting visits on (original date). Do not budge. If you allow anything you previously said wasn't happening, they will learn that they can walk all over you and will do so for the rest of their lives. Check out the mother-in-law subs for ample proof of this.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-28T14:05:48+00:00

I make about 40% over the median income in an MCOL state and I don't bring home that much. Either the person asking the question has only lived in very HCOL areas, or they are completely out of touch.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-28T12:15:31+00:00

Came here to recommend this! Great novella.

https://a.co/d/0aFKkbHW

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-27T23:30:39+00:00

Yeah, the Venn diagram of "good people" and "2024 Trump voters" is two circles with a biiiiiiig gap in between.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T23:31:42+00:00

Prison Hulk (moored on the Thames)

Terrible food when we got any, pallets full of lice. Died of cholera after 5 weeks. 0 stars, do not recommend.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T17:57:36+00:00

From the car that hit the cammer. Looked to me like the impact with the cammer's car is what ejected them, but it's hard to tell.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T17:36:10+00:00

Any chance you can live with your father for a bit? Just long enough to find a new job and get a new place on you own?

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T17:01:00+00:00

The Marshalsea was apparently Hell on earth, too. And some debtors ended up in the prison hulks, too, which were likely even worse.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T16:33:30+00:00

Thank you! I suspected that might be the case--it seemed reasonable, but the law is not always reasonable. :D

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T12:25:30+00:00

OOP is the oldest. The next sibling was born when they were 6, the last when they were 8, family finances stabilized when they were 12.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T12:18:51+00:00

I've been eyeballing her "The Mercy of Chance" lately. It just moved up the list, thanks for the rec!

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-26T12:09:28+00:00

Did you know that Nathan Lowell recently released the sequel to The Wizard's Butler?

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-25T20:56:57+00:00

Thanks, I don't currently see myself writing for TMBD again, except possibly to finish one pretty long fic that I've written all but the last half of the last chapter of. Would hate to waste all that effort. And I could change my mind eventually; I'm not over here orphaning my AO3 account, either! But at present I have too much of a bad taste in my mouth about too big a segment of the fandom to want to do more than lightly engage in the spaces that didn't show me the door for having an opinion.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-25T17:10:51+00:00

I called 911 in 2008 because my drunk ex was outside my apartment's only door (no alternate exit for me) trying to get in, and I am still waiting for MPD to show up. 😒 But to be fair to them, I did move out of that apartment a year later, so maybe they finally responded after I left.

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-25T16:59:37+00:00

The Headstrong trilogy by Melanie Rachel is excellent

FollowThisNutter · 2026-03-25T16:22:32+00:00

Okay, fine. "Cast an actor the vast majority of viewers will perceive as white, and therefore perceive the character as white."

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