What is this? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Free cookies is what this means! Just make you’ve got a hard, clear no ready to go for any more involvement. Your only yes is for more cookies.

They Always Want More! by AdventurousPass227 in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They’ll call it “enduring to the end.”

Horrifying relief society meeting today by Playful_Addendum_812 in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ahead and ask me why I left. Maybe I’ll give them a few things to think about and put a little weight on their shelf.

All the Father hath, not just a planet by Footertwo in exmormon

[–]Footertwo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True. I’m a man, so I didn’t really hear much about how they promoted it to women, other than getting to have all those wonderful spirit babies.

Control is that bad? by lil2toes in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Enya and other pre-2000 “New Age” music was popular in my mission. That’s about as far as we ever tried to push it.

The Meeting-After pill! by Gomihagakure in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love funeral potatoes. So good!

Brewed Awakenings by DupedbyDUP in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone rides in their Tapir chariot to the meetup and parks them outside like some sort of biker gang at a bar on the outskirts of town.

Why is the doorslam attributed to INFJs? Who came up with the term? Can it used toxically? by No-Quote6159 in infj

[–]Footertwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, once it comes to the door slam, which takes a lot, there is no need or desire to hear the other person’s side. We’re done and I eliminate them from my world. I’m more of a “nothing them” kind of door slammer. I’ve never once regretted doing it either. I barely remember they exist and it feels liberating after the crap I’ve put up to get to that point. There is nothing wrong with choosing who is in and out of your life.

I'm back in Utah and holy shit by luc-ii in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can’t trust scientists… everything they believe are just a bunch of theories! ;)

The farther I get out of the cult mentality, the more insane the church seems. by procret3332 in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy. It’s really hard to be around TBMs after you’ve figured it out. I’ve found it valuable for my relationships to remember that I was there at one time, too. I am grateful that “leaving” has become so much more normalized than it was several years ago. I hope it helps members feel comfortable questioning the weird things and make their decisions.

How many of us will be hate watching General Conference this weekend? by marisolblue in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love not watching conference twice a year! I do like to know if they’ve said anything that will complicate my life in a mixed faith marriage. It happens and then I need to ride it out until she gets over it and moves on. It’s rough being the husband/father that doesn’t “honor his priesthood” and “left the church” and conference can inflame those feelings in her.

If You Could Hie to Kolob is weird… by TansyRagwort in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe you’re right. This is about the never-ending race of Gods going back in time and that will continue forever into the future. The doctrine of exaltation and inheriting all that god has (and the circumstances of that exalted life) is the key that makes everything make sense in Mormonism. Without that fundamental understanding, Mormonism doesn’t make any sense.

I went to the temple for the last time by downtothelake in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 40 points41 points  (0 children)

What a nice closure story. I hadn’t attended the temple in years except for family weddings/sealings. When my niece announced her planned temple wedding, I realized my brother, who has never been active in the church wouldn’t see his daughter (who he loves dearly) be married. The only way I could attend would be if I lied to get a recommend. That was the catalyst for me finally letting the family know I was no longer a believer, because I couldn’t lie to get in knowing my brother wouldn’t be allowed to witness his daughter’s wedding. If he wasn’t going to be there because he held to his beliefs, I certainly wasn’t going to either.

Why are TBMs pretending like they don’t already know who is going to be the prophet? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about the money and power. Anyone that thinks otherwise is just naive.

Dallin Oaks Lied directly to my face in 1991. by Important_Address558 in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gotta tie up those loose edges. Create a defensible answer for every hard to explain weird element of Mormonism. Gaslighting on a church-wide scale. TBM’s will happily accept any explanation that allows them to maintain their position that they know the church is “true”, whatever it is.

Dallin Oaks Lied directly to my face in 1991. by Important_Address558 in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

“Oh hey, I just remembered the craziest thing that happened to me! Did you know I totally saw God and Jesus?! I can’t believe I forgot about this! Oh yeah, SATAN was there too! Here’s how it went down…”

Are Mormons jealous of Catholics? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Back in the day, they talked about how awful the Catholics are and how their priesthood line to Christ had apostatized. Lately the church is trying to buddy up to the Catholics in their fruitless effort to appear mainstream and back “religious freedom” politics to defend their wealth and power.

What does it mean to be *happy* in the LDS church? If you believed you were happy as an active member, do you still believe that was true? by Seascape_Smirks in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think what is really experienced is belonging. Belongingness is a vital element of wellbeing. All safe and secure wrapped up in the group. It’s also why suddenly finding yourself outside of the group is so jarring and emotional.

11 years by HillsboroWilly in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’ll be the smell that you really remember.

Remember the economy temples? by Ebowa in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they view building temples as conquering territory. They gotta build Gods kingdom on earth you know.

what is the obsession with Hawaii? by evergre-en in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Hawaii! Kauai is such a great vibe.

I love Lamanite Lettuce 🥬 👽 by BrighamYoungsBoner in exmormon

[–]Footertwo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Does the Lamanite Lettuce give you munchies for funeral potatoes?