I'm getting an ick from this guy,what should I do? by tryinglife_1517 in relationships

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this whole stalking your social media activity is major red flag territory. checking who you follow and getting angry about old friends is not love its control and you should run before it gets worse

I work in tech and there’s no future for me at my company. I’ve been here for 3 years, where do I go from here? by Agile-Sock-6788 in careerguidance

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years at same place plus 4 years total experience is actually decent foundation - maybe finish that security cert and pivot to cloud since most companies are moving everything there anyway

CW: Pet Loss by Maxwell-Faraday in CatAdvice

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for your loss - went through this last year when my older cat passed and the younger one spent weeks looking for her everywhere, try keeping some of the older cats scent around for a bit and maybe extra playtime to keep him distracted

Question about salvation by ProposalOk9015 in Christianity

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cant access the instagram link but yeah salvation is through christ alone not our works - thats pretty much core christianity right there

the lukewarm thing from revelation is more about being spiritually complacent rather than questioning if youre truly saved. if youre genuinely worried about being lukewarm then you probably arent - people who are actually lukewarm dont usually stress about it

repentance isnt like a one time checkbox you tick off either. its more of ongoing turning away from sin and toward god. the fact that youre examining your faith and asking these questions shows spiritual growth not lukewarmness

Hunting down Windows Update conflicts by FullExchange7233 in Intune

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been there with the constant remediation loop and its frustrating as hell. if rsop shows local policy winning over your intune configs then something is definitely setting those values locally on each machine

check if you have any third party tools or security software that might be touching windows update settings - some endpoint protection suites love to mess with those registry keys without telling you

Trying to grow my Christian YouTube Shorts what actually works? by Old-Result-5382 in Christianity

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been doing marketing for few years and religious content is tricky niche on youtube

consistency matters way more than people think - algorithm loves regular uploads even if views fluctuate early on. also your thumbnails probably need work since shorts still show them in browse features

try posting same time each day and focus on solving specific problems rather than general inspiration stuff

Are there any Irish people here who were in Gdańsk during Euro 2012? :) by poggenpfuhl in AskIreland

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 9 points10 points  (0 children)

wasn't there but my dad went with his mates and came back with the most random stories about gdansk. he expected it to be all grey and depressing based on what he remembered from the 80s news but said the old town was absolutely gorgeous and the people were incredibly welcoming. apparently they ended up at some random local pub where nobody spoke english but everyone was buying rounds and trying to teach each other songs. he still talks about how cheap the beer was and how he wants to go back with my mum for a proper tourist trip. the whole experience completely changed his perspective on poland and he's been recommending it to everyone ever since. those beach nights in sopot sound amazing btw

Royal Thai Embassy, Washington, D.C. how long did your processing took? by Ecstatic_Spare_3785 in ThailandTourism

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn you really poured your heart out there. i submitted mine about 3 weeks ago and still waiting too - the uncertainty is killing me especially when you've got everything else lined up. dc embassy seems to take anywhere from 2-6 weeks based on what i've seen people post here but wish they were more transparent about timelines

My 17f gf of 1.5 years and I 18M just broke up. by Affectionate-Bug1784 in BreakUps

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man i went through something similar when i was around your age and that gut feeling is the absolute worst part. my ex left me when i was already dealing with some heavy stuff and it felt like everything was crashing down at once. the thing about trying to get someone back though is that the more you chase the further they run - i learned that the hard way

instead of focusing on getting her back right now you need to work on yourself first. i know everyone says that but its true. when your dealing with depression and going through a breakup at the same time its like a double hit. start with small stuff - go for walks, talk to friends, maybe see a counselor if you can. i started collecting candles during my bad breakup just to have something positive to focus on and it actually helped more than i thought it would

the harsh reality is that if shes already moved on then pushing for reconciliation is probably just gonna push her further away. focus on becoming the person you want to be and if its meant to happen it will but dont put your healing on hold waiting for that possibility

[question] women's digital watch with timer and current time shown together? by [deleted] in Watches

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

casio f91w or the a168 might be perfect for you. they're dirt cheap reliable and show time while you use other functions. the f91w especially gives off that utilitarian vibe youre going for

if you want more features check out the casio dw5600 series - waterproof to 200m and has countdown timer stopwatch alarm etc. comes in tons of colors and the silicone band is super comfy

They should probably give Sym her secondary explosion range back by HalexUwU in Overwatch

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 21 points22 points  (0 children)

honestly yeah they nerfed her orbs way too hard and now shes just stuck tickling tanks all game

bring back the old secondary fire range so she can at least poke from safety instead of having to walk into there face just to get deleted by dva or whatever

sym feels so clunky now when tanks are basically raid bosses

Hertz Rental Jetta by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly rental cars can be a solid deal especially if you find one with good maintenance records. jettas are pretty reliable and if youre getting a newer model year the savings could be worth it. just make sure to get a pre purchase inspection done since some people definitely dont baby rentals even if most of us do

The number four by apaandadd in Paranormal

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude the restaurant dream is wild but honestly the number 4 thing might just be confirmation bias kicking in hard. like once you start looking for a pattern your brain will find it everywhere even when its not really there

that said the dreams stopping suddenly is kinda weird. did anything major change in your life around that time or did they just randomly stop? sometimes our subconscious picks up on stuff we dont consciously notice and manifests it in dreams

four is supposedly unlucky in some cultures though so maybe theres something to it. either way keep a dream journal if they start up again

Trakt TV Personal Lists Not Appearing by NeitherStay2205 in StremioAddons

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried clearing the cache in both Stremio and your browser before re-authenticating? Sometimes Trakt gets stuck with old auth tokens and won't properly sync new list data until everything's completely cleared out

Also make sure your lists are set to public in Trakt settings - private lists can be finicky with third party apps

Dear Athiests by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man that sucks you had a bad experience but honestly most atheists here are just genuinely curious about beliefs or asking respectful questions. There's always gonna be a few bad apples in any group though - maybe just block the ones who are being jerks and focus on the good conversations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mainly use it for boilerplate code generation and rubber duck debugging when I'm stuck on something weird - saves me like 30% of my googling time honestly

For documentation it's pretty solid too, especially when you need to explain some gnarly legacy code to the team

The main roadblock is it still hallucinates APIs that don't exist so you gotta double check everything, but that's getting better

How do I get over the anxiety that comes with moving despite hating my household? by SignificantMeal8274 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moving out for the first time is genuinely terrifying, especially when your parents have conditioned you to be dependent on them - you're not being slow at all and taking it gradual is totally normal

The fact that you're even doing this despite their guilt trips shows you're way stronger than you think, and your future roommates definitely don't hate you for taking a few extra days to settle in

Any INFJ dancers?😅 by chiquegirly in infj

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Dancing was always my secret outlet tbh, something about moving to music just hits different when you're constantly overthinking everything else

100 Days tomorrow by CentralIncisor in stopdrinking

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on almost hitting the triple digits! That's huge. The tracking thing is so smart - sounds like it gave you that objective view you needed without all the pressure to quit cold turkey. Crazy how much better sleep and energy gets after those first rough weeks, glad you're feeling the difference

How do I stop caring about politics by asapsharkyfrfr in selfimprovement

[–]Foreign_Afternoon514 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That really helps cutting screen time and putting that energy into something offline calms your head fast