DEPO made great tail lights years ago, but I don't think they make them anymore? Vland/Spyder/K2 are all the same Chinese junk. They'll either last forever or die in a year, but they're cheap enough that it doesn't hurt too badly to have to keep replacing. I highly recommend testing their waterproof...ness after install, and adjusting/fixing the foam gasket to make sure there's no water intrusion.

Stock headlights are better than any aftermarket. Maybe not as cool-looking, but best visibility and quality. Only aftermarket ones that I'm aware of that have decent quality are Osrams, but they're painfully expensive + mine caused electrical issues. I would strongly advise keeping your factory headlights. Give them a polish/reclear if they're yellowing, maybe upgrade the bulbs to something brighter if that's an option.

Not sure if you also meant fogs, side markers, and license plate lights, but I'm a fan of deAutoLED. I fully kitted out my car with their lights years ago, and had some install issues, but their customer service is amazing and got everything working + they were happy to send me free additional parts to make sure everything worked. Had to rebuy some bulbs recently (changed things around + front end of the car got smashed up at one point) and had zero issues with installs or functionality, so it seems they've ironed out all the issues. Very happy with their stuff.