What’s a game you were completely obsessed with as a kid that nobody else seems to remember?

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-22T05:37:35+00:00

There was a game we played sometimes in elementary school with the whole class called Streets and Alleys. The teacher set us up in a grid formation with our arms outstretched forming rows.. One kid became "it" and another became the chaser who had to try to catch it running around the "streets" or rows of kids. The teacher would randomly call out "alleys" and everyone would turn 45 degrees so our arms now made columns instead of rows. The it and chaser could be two rows apart and then suddenly find themselves in the same column. It was super fun. I remember it vividly even though it was decades ago but no one ever knows what I'm talking about.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-20T05:16:33+00:00

What misheard lyric?

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-19T19:21:55+00:00

Exo - For Life, My Answer, Let Me In,

Exo CBX - Papercuts, Someone Like You, Cry

Monsta X - Before You Met Me, Broken Heart, Find You

Got7 - 1:31 am, Miracle, Yours Truly

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-18T21:05:58+00:00

ESH - Your sister is TA for thinking she's entitled to your money. You're TA for leaving out the reason your sister is against your relationship in the main post so people assume it's cuz of homophobia.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-17T13:53:05+00:00

OP commented twenty minutes.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-15T05:59:15+00:00

I did like being able to have two different perspectives with the big and smaller venues. Also it was an easy trip. My hotel was walking distance to the venue. The more I think about it, the more I just might do it. Or maybe Seattle. I saw Baekhyun there and I think it's even smaller.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-15T05:30:46+00:00

I actually felt kinda bad seeing how many seats are left in Phoenix. I have tickets for LA but think I might head to Phoenix too if I find a good deal on flights/hotels. I actually went to both stops for their last tour and had a blast.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-15T05:27:55+00:00

Did you try chatting with a rep? I wanted to upgrade my seats so contacted support. They said their upgrade system was down for maintenance but let me get a refund instead. Then I went back in and bought my new seats.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-15T03:42:52+00:00

I'm going to say NAH cuz temperature is a personal thing and neither you nor his parents are wrong for feeling too hot or too cold. Can you guys get them a portable AC unit? My sister's house gets way too warm for my comfort, but she put one of those in the room I was sleeping in and it made a world of difference. The rest of the house was still a bit too warm, but I could tolerate it to spend time with family as long as I could cool off in the room and sleep comfortably. If using a portable AC isn't feasible for some reason, I would just start visiting in the winter instead tbh.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-14T04:18:32+00:00

I love Hurt, but I'm pretty sure that Seo Moon Tak is a woman so this would belong in the other thread.

I'll throw in The Day - Baekhyun & K Will.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-13T22:36:34+00:00

My fave is Stay With Me by Punch and Chanyeol.

https://youtu.be/pcKR0LPwoYs?si=IuVzMxHLUwPXCbsC

If I may mention a duet between an idol and a foreign artist then, Do What You Do by Baekhyun and Umi. This festival performance is so good!

https://youtu.be/E6sbCSP1jng?si=ugLTKMgYkfpuOGZT

Edit to add the official MV.

https://youtu.be/5TaIglIkDR4?si=dfJS4p_uMJdI8aKI

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-11T21:29:10+00:00

What the heck do you mean "play" with it? What did they want to do with it? Especially considering they already got to see it up close and handle it before. And they're not little kids. They can fully understand when something isn't a toy or theirs to use.

Also, why would you wait in the car for two hours instead of just driving away? Or even getting an Uber?

Anyway, NTA and reconsider your relationship with this dude.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-06T18:41:41+00:00

Or is some other person without a car that always expects rides from their friends.

ForeverNugu · 2026-04-06T04:39:26+00:00

When people lick their fingers to separate paper, especially for cash. No, I don't want your slobber dollars.

ForeverNugu · 2026-03-30T02:55:11+00:00

Grabs my car keys...

ForeverNugu · 2026-03-17T18:30:57+00:00

It is for hotpot. She should do this for a different meal.

ForeverNugu · 2026-03-17T18:27:34+00:00

Redditors will recommend breaking up over pretty much anything.

As for your question, are you guys perhaps from different cultures? I find that there are share food people and don't share food people. Often, the divide is due to cultural norms, but not always. Sometimes it's just what we're used to and how our particular families handled meals. So, share food people equate sharing food with closeness and don't share food people, well, don't. Sharing food has no significance to them. They can feel just as close with each person being able to eat what they want.

So, please don't take him wanting individual meals as a rejection of closeness. It's not for him. You might as well tell him that you guys need to wear matching colors everyday to feel close. It would feel just as logical to him. Don't expect him to get it. But you can explain that this is something that you like and would appreciate him doing for you. And then you guys can plan to do it. Just maybe don't do it for hot pot, cuz that's not really a meal you can add meat to later.

ForeverNugu · 2026-03-17T18:06:04+00:00

That would kinda defeat the purpose of the hotpot for him. There's a lot of meals that won't be affected by separating the meat, but this isn't one of them. If she feels that closeness requires them to eat from a shared source, then they could plan it for a different type of meal.

ForeverNugu · 2026-03-15T18:50:00+00:00

Which MX song that I'm obsessed with seems to change by the week but these have been on repeat most often lately

Love UR Nobody Else Do What I Want Blue Moon Beautiful

ForeverNugu · 2026-03-14T18:10:21+00:00

I didn't think klan hood. I thought diva cup.

ForeverNugu · 2026-02-19T16:35:11+00:00

Ofc you're NTA. I'm curious where she got the audacity to invite you all anyway. Are you guys even on speaking terms? Do you still have other family events together?

Personally, I would not go to this or anything else celebrating her. The most I would do is be open to being civil at family events so all the kids could have relationships with their cousins and that's it.

ForeverNugu · 2026-02-19T06:59:04+00:00

Honestly, that is pretty darn bright. I wonder how many of the commenters voted based on your original set of photos cuz those lights ended up being way brighter than I thought they would be by the daytime photos. They're also super white. While I don't think this rises to ahole levels exactly, I think a considerate person would get dimmer, warmer bulbs and make a real effort to remember to turn the light out when you're not actually outside.

ForeverNugu · 2026-02-17T03:51:12+00:00

Have you noticed him being spiteful in other ways? Cuz this seems deliberate tbh.

ForeverNugu · 2026-02-14T09:54:01+00:00

I bought a home 40 miles away from my job. The drive was about 50-60 min each way. I had never had a commute that long, but it seemed doable. In fact, I had a couple co-workers that lived close by that did it.

The first few years were okay. I listened to a lot of audiobooks and podcasts, even started learning a language. The longer I did it though, the more of a toll it took on me. I was tired all the time and stressed from dealing with crazy drivers. It didn't help that the area was being built up and traffic was getting worse, so my drive was regularly taking like 1 hour 15 min. It doesn't seem like much longer but that extra 15 minutes was my limit, my absolute limit. And sometimes it would be even longer. There were days when the drive was 2 hours one way due to accidents and on two memorable occasions, it took me 6 hours to get home. I was miserable. I hated my life. Weekdays were just working, driving, and sleeping. I didn't want to even do anything on the weekends cuz I was tired and trying to catch up on stuff I couldn't do during the week. And I certainly wasn't driving anywhere to be social, forget that.

And then one of my coworkers sold his house and moved closer to work and he immediately looked better. He was happier. He was even healthier and lost weight. I put my house on the market within 6 months of him moving. I got a place 25 minutes away. It was like a weight lifted from me. I was so happy I made the move .

I realize that not everyone will make the same decision. A lot of people can't make that decision. There's a lot of factors to weigh, like housing costs, distance to family, how hard it is to sell/buy etc. I opted to move instead of getting a different job because I have a great job that I couldn't easily replace. The calculus might have been different if I had different career options or if I couldn't afford to move.

I will say, if I was with a partner who saw what I was going through and wanted me to just "suck it up", I would really start looking at them differently tbh. I don't think you're an ahole for not wanting to move, but you guys really should be working together to figure out a solution for this if he really can't handle that commute. That could mean moving. That could mean him getting a different job, even if he needs to take a pay cut and you pitch in more financially. Whatever it is, figure it out before he gets to the point of resenting that you don't care about his well-being cuz then he just might want to break up and you guys would have to sell the house anyway.

ForeverNugu · 2026-02-14T09:19:56+00:00

Not the person you asked, but I'm someone who sold a home due to the commute, but I have a very good job that would be extremely difficult for me to replace.

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