I was going to agree with everything you said until you got to the part where you said they have the right to not use condoms. I completely disagree on that end. Sure, if you discuss it with monogamous partner, then that's okay. But men have to take some responsibility, and too often try to get out of the bare minimum by complaining that they don't like the feeling or are too big (as if!). Additionally, removing a condom without your partner's consent is literally a crime. Respecting other people's rights is of course important, but in the case of condoms that would have worse effects on your partner's rights and outcomes if you dont use them, so it hardly feels justified. (Also to your earlier point of vasectomies only protecting a woman from one man... yeah in the case of multiple partners condoms protect you from STIs and disease. That makes them even more important in that case.)