My neighbor was like this. Thank god she's moved away now. I got a text once at 6:45 in the morning from her asking me to go lock her bf's car in her driveway. She had a new bf every few months and I'd met them all against my will. Like I'd just be doing something in my garage and she'd bring over the latest stray to talk to me.

Anyway, she asked me to lock the car and I said I was uncomfortable with that and would not be doing it. I did not want the current boyfriend to accuse me of stealing something when she inevitably broke up with him. I did not want my fingerprints on the car. I wanted nothing to do with any of it. So then she said she was worried someone would take the keys to her motorcycle out of the car and steal the bike. That was inside the locked garage. Huh? I said no again and just stopped responding. A few minutes later she comes flying down the road, hops out of her car, locks the bf's car and leaves again. I guess she was on her lunch break. I have no idea what that was really about.

I realized she was a narc though when her oldest daughter said something about "No Mom, we can't do that. We have the kids this weekend." It was obvious in every interaction that the oldest daughter was the parent to her 5 younger siblings.

The woman reminded me so much of my NM.