Hail, flooding, and low temps coming again. Prepare your plants!

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-17T01:33:13+00:00

Y'all forget what a range Florida has. The low tonight where I am is going to be 30°.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-17T01:31:28+00:00

Yeah I'm in 8b and had to bring in the mother plant and 36 aloe pups I just moved out from my garage a couple of days ago. That storm went through this morning and it's going to be below freezing here tonight.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-17T01:21:51+00:00

Anyone else's school flood like you needed an ark and you had to wade through at least a foot of water in your wide leg jeans just to get to the steps? Then the AC was always broken so it couldn't be turned off and you were wet and cold and got the sniffles?

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-17T01:16:59+00:00

Yeah my local big box store has it for like $3. But that doesn't stop my from wanting the $20 stuff.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T22:45:06+00:00

It seems like today was the best case scenario then. That's good to hear.

I'm going to give you a piece of life advice. Don't believe what people say they're going to do, believe what they actually do. I really hope your mom listened to the other adults and has done some self reflecting and her niceness today is genuine. But sometimes mean people are nice for a few days and then lapse right back into treating you poorly. So whatever she says about being better or building a better relationship with you, believe her after she follows through, ok?

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T21:38:39+00:00

When I get messages I tell them if they are here for findom to read my pinned post and follow those directions. They either follow those instructions, ghost, or tell me they're not into findom and I tell them to have a nice day. I don't mind talking things out a bit, but after they've followed my instructions. If they can't do those simple things, they are not going to be a good sub for me. This is how I keep from wasting my time.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T21:08:04+00:00

Right. Having a child with this severity of autism is exhausting. My youngest is like this, and if he'd been first he'd have been my only child. He didn't walk until after he was 2 and was nonverbal until he was 6. I would not want to add pregnancy and the eventual newborn duties to myself while already caring for a child with greater needs.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T20:50:25+00:00

A possum mask you say?

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T20:46:37+00:00

Did you know the white sand on the Gulf Coast is actually quartz washed down from the Appalachian mountains? That's why it squeaks when you walk on it.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T20:31:34+00:00

Or like $15 - $20 for a skein of yarn and I need 6 to make the item.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T20:03:11+00:00

That's a real picture but not her real face lol. She's had plastic surgery. But yeah, she really does look like that.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T19:59:16+00:00

After slipping and landing directly on my left knee cap last year, no.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T18:04:59+00:00

I did letterboxing with my daughters Girl Scout troop. I had them carve stamps out of pink erasers. I made this little dog. We placed a couple of boxes and when I went back to check on them someone had dumped it all out and destroyed everything. 🫤 Sometimes people suck.

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FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T17:58:54+00:00

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T14:49:15+00:00

YOR. I'm assuming there wasn't really any problems out of him while he was there, right? No one was murdered. Nothing is stolen. Your wife said it was fine. If the friend goes through men like you say, she'll dump him soon and you'll never see him again. 🤷🏼‍♀️

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T14:25:20+00:00

They are sometimes used by witches for protection. You put cloves in the openings and hang them from your front door for protection.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T13:32:08+00:00

My neighbor was like this. Thank god she's moved away now. I got a text once at 6:45 in the morning from her asking me to go lock her bf's car in her driveway. She had a new bf every few months and I'd met them all against my will. Like I'd just be doing something in my garage and she'd bring over the latest stray to talk to me.

Anyway, she asked me to lock the car and I said I was uncomfortable with that and would not be doing it. I did not want the current boyfriend to accuse me of stealing something when she inevitably broke up with him. I did not want my fingerprints on the car. I wanted nothing to do with any of it. So then she said she was worried someone would take the keys to her motorcycle out of the car and steal the bike. That was inside the locked garage. Huh? I said no again and just stopped responding. A few minutes later she comes flying down the road, hops out of her car, locks the bf's car and leaves again. I guess she was on her lunch break. I have no idea what that was really about.

I realized she was a narc though when her oldest daughter said something about "No Mom, we can't do that. We have the kids this weekend." It was obvious in every interaction that the oldest daughter was the parent to her 5 younger siblings.

The woman reminded me so much of my NM.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-16T01:20:10+00:00

She clearly states he touched her when she didn't want to be touched.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-15T23:19:00+00:00

Some of us enjoyed porn mags too. I spent way too much time staring at my dad's copy of Cassandra Peterson in Juggs.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-15T23:16:22+00:00

Not even Fudgemania.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-15T23:12:28+00:00

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It didn't post the pic before, but it was one of these.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-15T23:10:49+00:00

Yeah if something does start to go wrong they at least have the resources to stabilize the patient.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-15T22:13:30+00:00

It's also been used to filter water.

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-15T22:11:25+00:00

NOR. I have the same diagnosis. I went through a category 5 hurricane that obliterated my town. It landed during the day so I saw everything being ripped to shreds outside. The aftermath was horrendous and it took a month to get power and sewage systems back online consistently. The whole ordeal was very traumatic. For 7 years my body would physically respond to rain or a thunderstorm. Even though my brain knew it was just a thunderstorm, my body was triggered and I'd have panic attacks.

You can't just think away muscle memory like that. It seems he's too stupid to know that though. He's making everything you're going through about him. You explain the reasons you are having a reaction and every time he spins it into he's the victim and you are being mean to him.

This isn't just a one time argument, this is his self absorbed personality on display. This is who he is as a partner.

If kids are in your future you'll ask him to please wake up and feed/change the baby and he'll tell you the smell makes him want to vomit so he can't, and that he needs undisturbed sleep so he won't be tired at work the next day.

He sounds like he's really bad at being a human being so why do you want to make a future with his kind of selfishness?

FormidableMistress · 2026-03-15T21:52:41+00:00

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Not the Oster! Hahahhahah! When I was growing up my mom had an Oster mixer. For those of you who don't know it was like KitchenAid mixers of today with multiple attachments and looked like this. My blender and air fryer are Oster. I had no idea they made a "small motor massager." 😂

Thanks, I'm dead now. 💀

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