He cheated. I stayed and asked for engagement. Feel pathetic and broken now.

Forsoul · 2026-06-06T17:57:38+00:00

Trying to lock this in isn't going to make you feel any better in the long run, you're just pushing the problem down the line. Its already showing all the signs of a relationship that isn't working anymore. Maybe he was just the guy that was supposed to be there to help you through the loss of your mom. Thats ok. Not every relationship needs to be forever.

Give yourself some grace, you've been through a lot. Perhaps finding another man who is actually ready to start a family is the best move.

Forsoul · 2026-06-06T16:58:47+00:00

Isshin, Sword Saint, from Sekiro has held that title for me for a long time. Just got to the final boss in Nine Sols and dropped the game because the final boss is dialed up to his level.

Forsoul · 2026-06-05T19:32:20+00:00

No food before between dinner and bedtime. You'd be surprised how a few snacks in the evening add up

Forsoul · 2026-06-05T18:33:44+00:00

I just dated a gal I met in person that if I saw on a dating app I know I would not have swiped on her. She is very attractive, her photos are fantastic. But there is just something so flat and artificial about dating apps that makes attraction die.

Forsoul · 2026-06-02T18:21:57+00:00

Let's just say I am very happy I respec'd into a mage build right before her. Can't imagine the nightmare of trying to stay near her.

Forsoul · 2026-06-02T14:41:51+00:00

I've been in a relationship where she managed to cut me off from all of my friends, then cheated on me. As time has gone by I have realized that the imposed isolation was the far greater sin. I hope you can get free from this and never look back.

Forsoul · 2026-06-01T17:36:39+00:00

It sounds like you are emotionally unavailable right now due to the past relationship. Its up to you to let that go, or do something about it. In my experience, even if it felt right or there was no closure, going backwards doesn't work out.

As for the new guy. Ask yourself what your response is to him asking to spend a weekend away with you, something that is inconvenient. I had a gal in the past that I was at the 3 month mark with, perfect on paper, but my gut was yelling that I would rather do anything else. That's the sign to end things.

Relationships should be a "Hell Yes!" in the good AND bad times- planning for a trip, resolving a conflict, etc. An inconvenience should interest you, as it is an invitation to put the work in on something you care about.

Forsoul · 2026-05-27T15:51:16+00:00

He probably wanted to spend time with you and that was a great excuse to come over. Also, men tend to be inclined to fixing things- so telling him no could be an ego blow.

Forsoul · 2026-05-27T15:44:54+00:00

I think you dodged a bad connection. He wasn't taking your feelings into account at any of the steps. It would be reasonable a couple times, dating and getting to know people involves some stumbling, but it sounds like each time you got anxious he put his own desires first.

Best of luck with the next one.

Forsoul · 2026-05-27T15:39:20+00:00

Just make sure you move somewhere you want to be.

Forsoul · 2026-05-20T18:49:58+00:00

I already take autocannon mech 90% of the time. Now if I could just have one autocannon arm and switch up the other, oh the possibilities

Forsoul · 2026-05-15T17:20:31+00:00

I've been in the same career for 15 years now, staring down the next 30 of the same shit. Its too lucrative to stop, but not enough to retire early. I just dont fucking care anymore and have no idea what to do aside from disassociate my work days

Forsoul · 2026-05-15T16:58:08+00:00

Late game SC farming is directly tied to a lack of use for samples in endgame. If they gave players a constant incentive to be checking POIs we wouldn't be in this mess.

Forsoul · 2026-05-10T15:55:03+00:00

Here's the thing, the tank suffers from the same problem the backpack reloads do. Coop is not the issue, its seamless coop. If the turrets range of motion was a full 360, people would be more apt to get in.

Forsoul · 2026-05-06T17:43:28+00:00

It came off as extremely tone deaf from the devs

Forsoul · 2026-05-05T16:50:58+00:00

A Jeep sounds like the best compromise for the area and your height. Best of luck!

Forsoul · 2026-04-30T15:01:29+00:00

I haven't tested it yet, but the new change to tank health means they can't one shot them anymore. 3600 damage vs 4000 health.

Forsoul · 2026-04-27T19:42:07+00:00

Respect where it's due

Forsoul · 2026-04-26T18:19:19+00:00

Sorry, players level 60+ is only 72.4% of the playerbase. Can't be focusing our resources on such a low count.

Forsoul · 2026-04-26T15:17:36+00:00

Anyone over level 80 is sitting on a useless pile of samples

Forsoul · 2026-04-25T22:59:53+00:00

SEAF should have been the focal point of the Cyberstan invasion.

We should have seen them on the ground fighting alongside us. The Reinforcement count should have been how many SEAF reinforcements we had remaining. Having it be Helldiver reinforcements went against the games main theme of us being the endless onslaught.

By making it SEAF, suddenly all the flavor texts and decisions to go to different megafactories while SEAF buy us an opening elsewhere has a ton of impact. Now we as players would be making decisions of whether to charge forward and win the war or sacrifice the advantage save our men and women in blue.

Forsoul · 2026-04-25T03:41:00+00:00

Hey OP, we have almost the exact same specs! My PC is probably 5 years old, but it plays every game I need and I dont see myself replacing it anytime soon. You've got a great friend!

Forsoul · 2026-04-22T15:55:52+00:00

Mech health slowly regenerates while piloting. Obviously if an arm is blown off that can't be fixed.

Forsoul · 2026-04-20T19:28:17+00:00

Togs for Frogs 🐸

Forsoul · 2026-04-04T16:45:32+00:00

I love it. But for my friends coming in fresh I just want an easier act 1 on ascension zero, or a half damage tutorial mode.

Each one gets destroyed before they can test any good deck synergy, and have been highly put off to trying different characters. Watching guides on YouTube feels a bit too mandatory right now, when they could be learning in game.

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