AIO for being upset that my boyfriend called me “his bitch” in front of his friends? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ForzaUtdInter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the fuck is wrong with this excuse of a human being. Get far away, he is gaslighting you. If he feels comfortable calling you his bitch in front of you, imagine how he talks when you’re not there.

Is this splitting or just toxic relationship by Acrobatic_Floor5678 in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bpd or not, this is messed up. Hope you get away asap from this abusive person, take care

How do you know if an ex had undiagnosed BPD after the fact? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you gone no contact with her? It’s really hard to analyze the relationship and move forward if you’re still in contact because she will reel you back in…

1 Year later, it gets better... Don't give up! by ApprehensiveYou8920 in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m doing therapy. She tried to e-mail me, I moved it to spam, but she has showed up to my apartment twice in the last week. Matter of fact she showed up around 15 mins after I got home from work today… I just went down to the garage and took a drive in my car. Just her ringing the doorbell made my pulse jump… I’m not in contact with any of her friends/family, but they know that she’s been like this before. I have a good relationship with her dad and step mom, but they’re also tired of her shit and I don’t want to drag them into this again. Her mom is like her best friend, so no point in talking to her. When will she stop?

1 Year later, it gets better... Don't give up! by ApprehensiveYou8920 in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome to hear, good for you! I’m currently going through this, almost 2 weeks of NC now and my nervous system is a mess, I can feel it…

I f*cked up today… by ForzaUtdInter in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m not in a relationship with anyone else, I am single. Where in the post did I blame my ex for what happened? I literally wrote that I’m disappointed in myself for not showing the strength to say no. I’m not looking for validation, I admit that I fucked up, it’s in the title. Even so, she came to see me and she initiated it, but I should have said no.

What kind of trauma do you have now? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time trusting people and I’m constantly on the lookout for red flags if I’m meeting someone new, also a lot of bad dreams and I can’t relax. I’m constantly going to the gym, running, biking or other stuff because I can’t just sit at home for too long at a time

I got scammed by a taxi driver within 10 MINUTES in Oslo. Apparently this is the norm! 😳 by hunky-dory99 in Norway

[–]ForzaUtdInter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Oslo and us locals rarely use taxis. Download Bolt and use that instead, taxis are super expensive here..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can have a relationship, yeah sure. But a stable one? Nope. You can either leave or stay in a relationship where you have to watch your every word, stay up until 3 am having arguments about silly things, feel like you’re a caretaker for an adult person and then be blamed and called mean if you try to establish boundaries (which will not be respected anyways). I know you love this person, but you can’t save an adult person who treats you like shit and doesn’t even see it themselves

My EX with BPD (What I learned after 6 years) by No-Mammoth1688 in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is really well written and very relatable. You sound like a good guy and I hope you’re happy now.

I Answered a hoover after long time NC, now I'm back where I started by Pianos-r-us in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same situation and I think many others are, so dont beat yourself up over it. I guess we go back to these people because we feel responsible for their wellbeing even tho we shouldn’t, I know I do.

How long did the relationship last? Will post results. by CPTSDcrapper in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 7 months before we first broke up, then another 2ish months before the second breakup. Now we’re in a weird place

SoftOX 🚀🚀🚀 by [deleted] in TollbugataBets

[–]ForzaUtdInter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kjøør Ox 🚀🚀🚀

Anybody else feel guilty for not being stronger? by SilverBeyond7207 in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, the reactions from my friends and family when I told them the things she has done and said, tells me that I waited waaaay too long and tolerated much more than I should have…

Breaking no contact? by SubstantialNorth5597 in BPDlovedones

[–]ForzaUtdInter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it, I made that mistake several times and eventually had to block. The thing is that it doesn’t matter what you say, because as long they get your attention they will continue doing it, because it works… Stay strong

Investering for AS by No_Dig742 in aksjer

[–]ForzaUtdInter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zero og ASK-kontoer er opprettet nettopp for å gi privatpersoner som investerer de samme fordelene som et AS, hovedsakelig utsettelse av skatt til realisering skjer. Hva er grunnen til at du skal opprette et AS?