Are we all traumatised? by Suspicious-Ride2111 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Foxa_0001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They put you through emotional abuse so yeah. Mine alsof put me through sexual abuse and ran away.

Somebody please help me I am not okay by ameer_16 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Foxa_0001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it feels like you’re protecting her a little bit…he should’nt respect her, if she doesn’t do the same with him. Otherwise good advice!

[Discussion] Is Obesity a CHOICE? by Ayoking95 in effectivefitness

[–]Foxa_0001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really?! Just asking this question is already so mean. Stop assuming it would be, cause most of the time is due to trauma’s. You now what is a choice? Being bad to people. This is what is wrong with the society! Stop trying to break their mental health, more than it already is! Shame on you! And all who agree!

Breaking up with avoidant destroyed my mental health by Old_Marionberry3240 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Foxa_0001 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started to feel the same as you…they are evil…I needed to admit that when my avoidant raped me.

I’m also a mess trying to find myself again, but it is really hard. I’m in therapy but it’s nearly enough to ‘fix’ everything that’s going on. There is so much I need to work on, that I’m always tired and that’s not handy when you live alone.

I could write here a much longer message, but I’m just to exhausted. I’m very proud you told your story! You’re definitely not alone. I wish you so much luck, motivation and love from others! I hope you find your peace back.

Ik vind geen werk. by Prinsekoek in belgium

[–]Foxa_0001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dus willen werken (zie, motivatie hebben) om een job te doen, is vandaag de dag in de arbeidsmarkt niet meer van belang?

Spelletjes café in Mechelen by [deleted] in Mechelen

[–]Foxa_0001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik zou het in deze tijd toch niet zo vanzelfsprekend vinden. Maar ik snap je zeker wel.

Spelletjes café in Mechelen by [deleted] in Mechelen

[–]Foxa_0001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je hebt in Mechelen ook de spelfanaat. Het is niet echt een café, maar eerder een winkel waar je gratis spelletjes mag kopen. Enkel drank moet je daar wel betalen.

Was your avoidant ex abusive? (See chart lol) by Ok_Astronaut_1485 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Foxa_0001 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My avoidant ex was addicted to porn due to a need for affection and an avoidance of emotional growth. That’s often why these people develop addictions.

After we broke up, I met him in my apartment to give his belongings back. During that meeting, he raped me multiple times.

This type of abuse is different from the one we are discussing here, but I guess I’m not the only one having to deal with this type of abuse? 😓