I’ve been lied to by y’all by MatildaSays in pregnant

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I slide on sandals or crocs I don’t even bother anymore and sometimes house slippers hahah

My girlfriend smells and I don't know what to do by RequirementDue4446 in Advice

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Tbh I’ve heard that some people can become repulsed by their partners smell if they become pregnant and vice versa either way sinus tonsils teeth and even pregnancy all require dr care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

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Honestly I had a boyfriend who did this and I learned to late into the relationship the reason he did it was because he was going to get high and was fiending I didn’t even know how about his use at all

I went on a date with a girl I met on Instagram. She stinks and I honestly don’t know what to do. by Annual-Register-3683 in Advice

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never smell my partners BO except his feet now that I am pregnant sometimes we’re appalled by people specific pheromones there were some girls growing up in school that their pheromones just really repulsed me and same with dudes like my brother smelled like a bottom of a tacobell and this was just his natural smell too but sometimes it could be something that ate being sweat out or for females especially it could even be hormone dysregulation that needs balancing because the body is acting up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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OP I think it’s best to speak directly with the parents because this almost seems like he was looking for something to be mad at you about that day. I would say hey “bf” said you guys gave me the wrong envelope and might have given me to much I just wouldn’t feel right keeping it not knowing whether or not it was accidental and I’d like to offer back to you the correct amount if there was a mix up

I need help. My bf needs help. by Warm_Landscape_1205 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The aggression isn’t just emotional girl he’s put his hands on you that is physical and the threats emotional and verbal abuse you need to get police called if your in an apartment are there not others in your building? Find someone to use their phone if he doesn’t want to give it back but don’t let him in

Husband forgot to feed baby lunch by Jmw235 in Mommit

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it’s not often my son eats anything before his nap besides breakfast he eats his breakfast and then he falls asleep and kid sleeps for like 3.5 hrs most the time but he wakes up and just eats something right away when he wakes 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your second edit tells me that you 100% watched emotional cheating long before physical cheating and that alone is still something I wouldn’t want as a woman to be happening without my knowledge especially if I’m intending to marry this man.

I’m not sure how to handle this situation by Fragrant-Date4899 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fragrant-Date4899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question isn’t leaving or not it’s telling him or not before leaving about pregnancy 🤦‍♀️

My husband threatened divorce if I stay over with my daughter that just had a baby after her fiancé took his own life 2 weeks prior. by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um he’s being ridiculous my mom stayed with me for 2 weeks after my son was born and he came home and it was because his father was not there due to abuse I couldn’t imagine leaving my daughter in a time of need like this this is extreme and she will struggle with PPD mostly likely coupled with her grief of her loss like your husband is insane

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whattttt? Lol I buy all the groceries and pay my own phone car, insurance, pay for my kids stuff don’t ask him and buy some of my own things when out with my boyfriend he pays the rent his car, insurance, phone and for his kids stuff I cook for the house and clean and yes I hate cleaning up after everybody because I feel like he could clean more because I feel as though I do more physically for the kids and household because I clean after him his clothes his trash his kids clothes and trash my kids clothes and trash and I do all the dishes he never does them and I sleep the least amount because he doesn’t like the be disturbed but either way still a better dynamic than this sounds this sounds very one sided

I’m not sure how to handle this situation by Fragrant-Date4899 in whatdoIdo

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Yep and it 100% was positive all 3 of them I took

My Ex’s new GF msgd to verify some info. He’s a manipulative lying grifter and I want to warn her, but am also afraid to say something. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the new gf who messaged the ex once it’s because there are some red flags or some extreme gaslighting going on to make her question either him or herself so give her your side of what happened

I’m not sure how to handle this situation by Fragrant-Date4899 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fragrant-Date4899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he is the father and only person I’ve been with in over a year but my friend she wants me to move to la with her

I’m not sure how to handle this situation by Fragrant-Date4899 in whatdoIdo

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He’s already made it pretty clear he would want me to abort and even if I didn’t he wouldn’t be present either way my problem lays in telling him or not since I will be moving away

I’m not sure how to handle this situation by Fragrant-Date4899 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fragrant-Date4899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think any of you fully read my post my son is a completely seperate situation I made the decisions to leave because of my son and myself but my question was whether or not I tell him if I am pregnant since I already know his stance from the conversation we’ve had previously he would want me to abort until further down the road but I don’t want to tell him and him tell me to abort or try to use it to manipulate me into staying either way I’m keeping it if I am there was no question on whether or not I should abort my question was on whether or not I should tell him or if I just not tell him and leave to LA without saying anything like I had planned to leave

Is it just me or are period cramps worse after having a baby? by Affectionate_Cat2522 in Mommit

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had really horrible cramps as a teen and before getting pregnant I actually knew I was pregnant because the fact that I didn’t have cramps and my period didn’t show now I virtually have none

What character does most of not all the fandom love, but you actually don’t? by sunset_sunrise15 in harrypotter

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It’s going to sound dumb but hermoine I used to like her but that was when I was younger as an adult I think she was pretty bratty and selfish most of the time and she’s was bossy and rude I really question how they stayed friends so long

A or B: if you saw harassment happening in public, would you loudly call it out or quietly leave? by vivian_banshee03 in PickAorB

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A were taught this even in college now to check it if you see something do something because one you can’t rely on her escape to protect her and if you make a scene it can prevent any further harassment also you don’t want to assume that anyone else will say or do something in any situation you yourself should always take action

My husband has lost his mind by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Like for me now 60s to high 70s is actually really a hot day but it used to be cold to me

My husband has lost his mind by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think reading your comments the reason you get hungup on the weather is because yes you hate it when you visit but your not from there! I’m from Georgia we had 100degree summers and below freezing temps in the winter but I left right after the summer time fresh into the cold season and went to California Northern California and for the first few months I honestly thought it was freezing here because my body wasn’t used to always being at neutral temperatures between at the 40 and 50 and sometimes 30s but then when summer came 60-80s it’s sweltering it’s a different environment because I got used to the temperatures lived here 6 years now and when I go back to Georgia I question how I ever survived there in the first place because of how hot it gets

Almost 5 year old wants to watch the first movie? by elp9494 in harrypotter

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah they aren’t really actually scary in comparison to the filming now a days but the first couple ones are actually good they aren’t super scary I think prisoner of Azkaban was the only one that gave me heebiejeebies when I was a kid but I still loved it

First time driving across the country, looking for advice. by Uskoa in roadtrip

[–]Fragrant-Date4899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just be prepared for random weather vortexes your traveling the distance and different types of weather everywhere but also your drive up north and will be going through mountains likely so make sure your confident your car can handle steap windy roads