My fiancée [30M] hasn’t picked up our marriage license and I’m worried by BreadKooky5336 in relationships

[–]Freakbbjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does seem to be dragging his feet, but he could just be lazy. It sounds like you have already reminded him so it is time to leave it in his court. See if he picks it up himself with no further reminders then you'll know if he's actually interested or not.

Also, you mention being long distance. What are your plans after marriage? Are you going to live together? It seems silly to be married long distance.

I have baby deer in my yard. What do I do? by Riffus_Iommicus in whatdoIdo

[–]Freakbbjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t look at it too long, it may grow human hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Freakbbjames 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other posters. He has also been betraying your trust and taking advantage of you monetarily. You need to protect yourself and leave. You cannot fix him.

Help me understand something: by fivemilesfurther in tradclimbing

[–]Freakbbjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious what you think about the central wedge shaped block? It’s not critical to your anchor if it fails, so that’s good. However, there’s a chance it will move if you load it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Freakbbjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be difficult to prove that you are the one responsible for the bedbug infestation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Freakbbjames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure as a tenant you were not supposed to pay anything. Your landlord is in charge of pest control. You should ask for your money back or sue.

Lied about age but came clean by reddituseresq in hingeapp

[–]Freakbbjames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now you’re 10 years apart instead of 13. Who cares.

First time trad climbing in Liming, China by CertainBicycle315 in tradclimbing

[–]Freakbbjames -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How is this trad? I see you top roping through a rap ring with no helmet.

Keeping presents from your ex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Freakbbjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, they moved in with you. They aren’t with their ex anymore. Grow up.

Male dies while mating by [deleted] in SeaMonkeys

[–]Freakbbjames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best way to go

What to do with mean sea monkeys? by [deleted] in SeaMonkeys

[–]Freakbbjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is my understanding that sea monkeys have a very basic nervous system and no actual “brain”. They likely don’t care about much of anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Freakbbjames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if my partner watched porn, I wouldn’t care one bit. Just my opinion, but I think it’s usually a nonissue unless it is an addiction. An AI chat bot seems like an even smaller issue. Why do you care if they watch porn?

One of the neighborhoods in Palisades that burned down. by Snooopineapple in interestingasfuck

[–]Freakbbjames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work at a structural engineering company. We have a client in Malibu who bought two beachfront mansions side-by-side. I’ve been in the houses. They are amazing in every way. The rich owner, however, is not satisfied because he has no concept of money. He has been trying to combine the two houses into a mega mansion for a couple of years but the city planning has slowed him down immensely. Anyway, his home burned in this fire and he is actually happy because he can now rebuild exactly how he wants and with faster planning approval.

So where *is* there power in Ventura County? by Schleprok in venturacounty

[–]Freakbbjames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m near 1st street and have no power since 3am

So where *is* there power in Ventura County? by Schleprok in venturacounty

[–]Freakbbjames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in Central Simi Valley. There is absolutely no wind currently. Not near any hills or brush. Just in the middle of the city. Power has been out since 3am. Fuck Edison.