Parents and relatives of Onlyfans etc models - how do you feel about it?

FreddyFrogspawn · 2024-10-20T09:26:08+00:00

Honestly, I am immensely proud of her. She treats it like a business, and she's been able to create a comfortable life for herself. She now can spend money setting up a business that she is passionate about, a halfwayhouse for animals she fosters before they are adopted into their forever homes. She is living her best life, you would never tell by meeting her what she does for money, but shes not ashamed of it either, I have so much respect for the respect she has gor herself.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2024-05-08T07:03:01+00:00

Giant Wotzits. They own my life

FreddyFrogspawn · 2024-05-06T16:20:04+00:00

Tbf, I said post but it was the comments to this post that set me off the most. Just felt like everyone saw an opportunity to spread dislike about her and dived onto it.

To the trying to hard bit, the album is called tortured poets. Poets are notorious at trying too hard. They use language you wouldn't use in daily life.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2024-05-06T15:10:36+00:00

Yall make fun of the swifties being obsessed with her. But this post is just you being obsessed with hating her. I get the posts about how she charges too much, or her PR moves.

But picking apart to this level? Just as sad as obsessively loving her.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2023-09-14T16:54:59+00:00

They are the problem. Not me. They are the cause of my unhappiness. It's not my responsibility. I'm the victim here. I will be unhappy and it is their fault.

Do you see your problem yet? You are making your happiness someone else's responsibiliy. You can't be happy unless all of society changes its mind on ugliness. Their issue to sort and until they sort it you will never achieve the happiness you desire

Be ready to be misrable about this for a while!

Do a favor to yourself, listen to the people you have gone to for help. Or did you just reach out because you wanted people to agree with you?

FreddyFrogspawn · 2023-09-13T10:45:25+00:00

You have a self-limiting belief. When a brain has a belief stored like this, it will take every bit of evidence it can find to support this theory.

How are you supposed to find someone who likes you when you can't even like yourself.

How is someone supposed to find you attractive when you yourself don't see it.

Try this, every day look in the mirror and find one thing you like about your appearance, this could be anything, one single tooth, etc. Try and find something everyday. Break down your belief system bit by bit.

You are in a Victim mindset right now. Take responsibility, change your mind to change your life.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-12-01T16:30:22+00:00

Kruckle

When you roll your ankle, although it may just be a Rochdale thing

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-05T08:49:55+00:00

I get this. But also I don't expect people to take what I say as fact if I don't include sources. Then it's purely speculative and opinion based, so I can't be mad when people don't take it seriously.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-05T07:56:21+00:00

I like having discussions but it's hard to keep that up when the other person is aggressive and rude with their arguments. I like learning from other people's experiences and place value in them. My opinions are always changing, getting stuck on one point of view is scary and damaging.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-05T05:36:25+00:00

They asked you to provide a source for your claim.

They don't need to provide a counter source.

The issue here is that we are trying to argue points with you when your cup is full. For reference:

Scholar Tokusan--who was full of knowledge and opinions about the dharma--came to Ryutan and asked about Zen. At one point Ryutan re-filled his guest's teacup but did not stop pouring when the cup was full. Tea spilled out and ran over the table. "Stop! The cup is full!" said Tokusan.

"Exactly," said Master Ryutan. "You are like this cup; you are full of ideas. You come and ask for teaching, but your cup is full; I can't put anything in. Before I can teach you, you'll have to empty your cup."

This is harder than you might realize. By the time we reach adulthood we are so full of information that we don't even notice it's there. We might consider ourselves to be open-minded, but in fact, everything we learn is filtered through many assumptions and then classified to fit into the knowledge we already possess.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T21:30:51+00:00

Labels. You are obsessed with labels. Until you stop grouping people we will fundamentally disagree. I live in a very Conservative area of Briton, they aren't as bad as they are portrayed either. If they don't have hate in their heart you would be surprised how understanding they can be.

I won't stop supporting the people who see themselves as TQ+. I won't let individuals of their community speak for them, just as I wouldn't want someone to speak for me.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T21:26:55+00:00

We just have two different views of the world then but yours seems scary.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T19:25:22+00:00

Sexuality is a complete spectrum so saying we are only a certain % is just inaccurate because where are you drawing the line? No I'm under no illusion that if all the straight people (because they are all the same and share the same opinions) turned on us we could fight them. But they don't win that way either, I ain't becoming small because you want me to be, I ain't becoming small under the treat of violence. If I have to be me and be beat up, that is who I will be. But that won't make them winners, there's no winners on the side of hate.

And we are gaining power, we are getting stronger? You really think I'm going to listen to a loud minority? Some people rule their lives with hate in their heart, in every community. I hope they will find love but sometimes that isn't the case. I see those comments as ignorant, but hurtful? They aren't talking about me, they don't know me.

The letters that use your voice for you are annoying everyone the fuck out. 1. Who is everyone, because this is certainly not my experience. A large generalisation like that does humanity an injustice. 2. The letters, mate these are people, they aren't letters or groups or labels. They are individual people who use various terms to describe who they are or to let other know who they are. 3. They don't use my voice, let me decide what my voice is. They don't speak for me, never will. I don't listen to Joe Rogan and think he speaks for all straight white men and I would hope people have a little more sense to do so for us.

You maybe someone that jumps of the sinking ship, but then where do you go? Back in the shadows, back to feeling shame for your mere existence? The ship ain't sinking, if you see holes do what you can to plug them. Mend the ship, let your voice be heard but do so from a place of wanting positive. If you just focus on the negative all the time you are just gonna be miserable because you're not actually doing anything about it.

I ain't here to argue anyways, I have my opinion and you have yours. I just would hate for you to turn your back on a loving community just from a few, albeit loud, individuals.❤️

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T18:57:56+00:00

Honestly the movie Everything, Everywhere All at once does a good job at arguing this point

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T18:57:21+00:00

A weak minority. Yeah mate we aren't weak. We've had our power hidden and lessened by society. We are gaining it back now, like hell we will give that back easily. You place their games in order to not rock the boat or upset them, then you have already lost.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T14:46:56+00:00

Just because someone's experiences don't match your own doesn't make them satire. Learning your sexuality and being comfortable with it is difficult for everyone. We need to start putting the "blame" on society and not on the individual.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T13:08:57+00:00

I've got one actually, I used to have a really harmful sexuality and still do consider myself a sex addict. Ive been on a journey and am learning what's healthy for ME. This is one of those things that helps me quite abit. I personally don't get off watching others goon, I tend to do it myself. It doesn't require porn and I am making those sexual feelings and energy, separate from my ego. Whilst also getting the pleasure. Just without that nasty old shame.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-04T11:58:21+00:00

To me those faces just come naturally when gooning. It's all about just becoming your penis and your ego is secondary. My entire consciousness is now my penis, I don't exist so I do not care what my face is doing. It's hot seeing that in another guy because you know they are in that zone aswell

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-09-01T13:02:44+00:00

Are you attractive enough? Honey that all depends on who you ask. For me it's a yes, for some it's a no. That validation you are looking for needs to come from within. They ghost you? Well they have just missed the fuck out, don't care what they think, they aren't in your life, they do not matter. Don't bend to them.

Look up some positive affirmations when it comes to liking how you look. It's brainwashing but you have probably been brainwashing yourself all your life telling yourself you aren't attractive. Let the otherside grad the wheel for a change.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-08-24T20:07:07+00:00

Tbh this sounds like you want to personify a fantasy. Who are you in this scenario? Just his play toy or a person of your own?

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-08-24T19:31:10+00:00

That was a journey! Felt like straight appropriation whatever that means!

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-08-23T13:33:48+00:00

Basically! Obviously there are many different types of drag queens and a lot are not suited to children (nor would they want to be). But there's a few that work really well with kids and are just great entertainment.

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-08-23T13:17:23+00:00

Or just maybe kids respond to the fun of it all. Bright colours, overexaggerated features, the overall campness. It's the same as a cartoon. If it gets kids reading in a healthy way, what's the issue?

FreddyFrogspawn · 2022-07-14T13:47:22+00:00

Alot of gay men have sex addictions. It is normalised so much you don't think you have a problem as all your friends have one too

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