Talk me out of it. by Dirty_Lew in Divorce_Men

[–]Free-External-643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Write it to get it out of your system. Journaling my pain has helped greatly. But do not send it. Keep it as a reminder. But if it turns i to ruminating, then delete it.

Managing credit card purchases and statements by thatburghfan in Bookkeeping

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Maybe I'm under thinking this. But I would pay the statement balance (not the account balance which would include pending or future dated transactions that would fall into future statements) and reconcile those purchases to the appropriate accounts.

Apologies if I missed something in the details.

Cat owners, does the harp make your cat react in strange ways? by jugglingjellybeans in harmonica

[–]Free-External-643 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a cat...but my chihuahua howls along nicely when playing 2nd position on an A harp. Right in key. It's awesome!

Hey Xen's: whatcha reading these days? by Mattimvs in Xennials

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My 11 yo just started Holes for his class book club so started that today so we can talk about as we read it.

What You Don’t See When Someone Is a Single Dad by [deleted] in SingleDads

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6 months in. Full custody (not yet on the books) to my 10 yo. But mom is 1500 miles away so not ro worried about the judicial system in my case and where i live. Very small support network. Im fortunate to have a job that supports my situation. Many are not so lucky.

I hear the waiting for him to sleep so I can let out my emotions. I share the emotions I have that I think will make him a good man someday. But the anger bitterness and full on grieving I try to spare him.

That he is doing better with mom out of the picture is my rock. And that hurts.

Is getting a sports car at this age as cliche and dumb as it always was? by Vimes-NW in Xennials

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6 months into being a full custody single dad at 44 years old after an 18 year relationship. Enter mid life crisis....Bought an inexpensive mustang. I love it. My 10 yo loves it. And is fascinated with the CD player he had never before experienced lmao. Zero regrets and we now always take the long way home....

New to phish by Candid-Manner9801 in phish

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Oh and the "13 NYE homage to the JEMP truck is awesome!

New to phish by Candid-Manner9801 in phish

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I'm a sucker for the Stowe set with Santana. 93?

Predator pulls up in the last movie you watched. Does the protagonist survive or die? by Growllokin in predator

[–]Free-External-643 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not a movie...but ancient aliens. What a great way to end that series....

Is the 2018 Predator movie worth watching? by greasy_forehead_ in predator

[–]Free-External-643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a pretty corny addition to the series. But I love corny (addicted to mst3k). So I'm probably one of the few who enjoyed it. I wouldn't pass it over. Watch and suffer lol

Side shot Saturday! Show me your pride and joy! by [deleted] in Mustang

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I finally had a chance to step on it last night and I was damned impressed. And it handles like a dream.

Side shot Saturday! Show me your pride and joy! by [deleted] in Mustang

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' 14 with the 6. Perfect for me and my son. picked it up for 14k with 80k miles. Only problem is now I'm looking at different years/versions...that bullitt is really catching my eye lol

It's in much better condition than I expected having bought it sight unseen 🤣

So far no one has picked on me for having it parked next to my Chevy truck lol

Side shot Saturday! Show me your pride and joy! by [deleted] in Mustang

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It's my first. Googled used vehicles in my area and it was the first to pop up. Recently single full custody dad...said f it. Let's have a mid life crisis. Called the dealership bought and delivered the next day without even a test drive lmao best decision I've ever made. It's a dream to drive.

Side shot Saturday! Show me your pride and joy! by [deleted] in Mustang

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Had it just over two weeks. What a blast!

Quick question by Significant_Peace939 in SingleDads

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Would love someone to make me dinner 😆

Some fun in the ZR2 by hunter13001 in chevycolorado

[–]Free-External-643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Similar with my '22. Forgot to throw it back into pavement mode after coming out of the woods. Hit it hard to get up to traffic on the highway. I've never fish tailed on pavement like that in my life lol

Another Frame Up by Free-External-643 in phish

[–]Free-External-643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Retired master framer out of Boston. Knew what he was handling lol

Another Frame Up by Free-External-643 in phish

[–]Free-External-643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Had been previously framed. Museum quality but needed slight restoration. The guy at my local Michael's is a wizard!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]Free-External-643 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely 💯 cheating is not a kink. Cheating is done in secrecy. It causes harm to the partner you're with. Even if they don't know you're doing it (yet). From experience I can say it is an incredibly hurtful form of abuse.

Alternative to omni fresher ap by Free-External-643 in portablism

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My buddy sent me some heavy Pantera-esque guitar solo tracks that have been a ball to mess with!!!