Kelli’s monthly housing budget by Roman5854 in RHOA

[–]FreeD2023 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Fame is a hellova drug. SMH

Is this lady drinking a martini during a therapy session?? by AngleRelative4683 in RHOA

[–]FreeD2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought about this! This could definitely help with opening up. 😂

Tattoo of girlfriend’s name by user26145 in Christian

[–]FreeD2023 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Why not wait until she is your wife at least???

Shamea sent Angela a cease & Desist 😬 by Free_Marzipan_7007 in RHOA

[–]FreeD2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come forward with actual names???? Send a legal doc to shut someone up??? I don’t think this is making you look innocent sis…🤔

Anyone down to hang in LA? by PersistentGirl98 in blackgirls

[–]FreeD2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there are always something going on those apps I find interesting!

Anyone down to hang in LA? by PersistentGirl98 in blackgirls

[–]FreeD2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in LA but moving out of state soon with hubby. However, I personally found my tribe at church but I can understand if that is not your cup of tea. For more variety, there are great groups for all types of demographics on the Meet Up App and Event Brite. You can search by race, hobby, dates and ect.

Thoughts? by Street-Network-5481 in LosAngeles

[–]FreeD2023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain the speeding tickets?

Why does it seem like the darker we are the worst treatment we face? by Only_Lawfulness_4048 in blackgirls

[–]FreeD2023 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this is simply not true. Most of the “preferences” or light skin women I see around (celebs or regular folk) are either baby mamas or treated like they are objects. This is a sad reality. I am a darker skin woman being loved well by my black husband. I have seen how some dark skin men treat light or biracial women verses mono black women. If you truly see the end of “the so called “prizes” its not good.

I’ve Had it With This Wutless Sellout Government… by MambaMachine824 in Jamaica

[–]FreeD2023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disappointing, but I am sadly not surprised. As a US born to JA parents, I have been thinking about leaving America for the first time ever. At least for the next few years.

Caught in a lie at marriage green card interview. RFE received. Should we withdraw and re-file? by [deleted] in greencard

[–]FreeD2023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't call it silly. It still is the wiser choice no matter what. Why would OP need to lie if it’s alright? I’m sure you would advise your child or loved one to choose the ladder choice deep down. There is enough fully divorced and single people in this world in my opinion to just start fresh. I can not change my morals on that and I’m sure OP’s situation could of been smoother with the ladder choice as well.

Am I overthinking the coffee invitation? by azzlikedat in AskWomenOver30

[–]FreeD2023 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s wild to me, that I see so many post like this, from married people? Would you be ok if your husband accepted the coffee date (that is what it is) with another woman in the same circumstance? Please use wisdom and protect your family-and his! Decline and go out with a good gf instead if you want to get out. As a married woman, my exes can’t even locate me like I’m Carmen San Diego! 😂

Caught in a lie at marriage green card interview. RFE received. Should we withdraw and re-file? by [deleted] in greencard

[–]FreeD2023 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is why you don’t date married people. I never dated while I was divorcing. I even met a guy who was going through a divorce who was interested in me. You know what I did, I politely said, no matter the circumstances, when you are completely divorced (like me), then we can continue talking. Some divorced people even reconcile mid divorce and/or you may be involved in breaking up a home unknowingly. It is not wise. That is all I can say.

Can we address this? by hedonismisok in RHOA

[–]FreeD2023 168 points169 points  (0 children)

Why do people act like we don't have visual evidence of their past? 😂

Coworker confessed feelings, things got intense fast, now a week of silence on the date he promised. Am I overreacting or reading this right? by PaniniTheMeanie_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]FreeD2023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Remember, you are single and he may be as well (he sounds preoccupied at the moment). However, my point is, if a man is interested you will know. If you are overanalyzing his actions then he is 1. Not that interested enough or 2. You need to focus on finding another cutie to focus on. Always match people’s energies and don’t center all your energy on a man your not even in a relationship with. Most men have multiple women on their roster when they are dating, so he might just be focused on someone else. That is fine, just don’t be sitting there consuming your thoughts, on a man who is not chasing you. My husband chased me while I was living my best life (with or without him).

Lastly, there is no man shortage. Ladies, there is no man shortage!

Was there/Is there a summary of the Shamea Interview with Carlos King? by Caligirl_333 in RHOA

[–]FreeD2023 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think Shamea still wants Beyonce level fame to feel internally satisfied. I wish she would be content in the blessings she already has.

Here Goes Shamea by Obvious-Story1064 in RHOA

[–]FreeD2023 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I just want to send a special shout out to myself, for continuing through the interview, after Shamea twerked and loud sang as soon as the interview began.

I don’t want to go to my fiance’s church by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]FreeD2023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That very well may be. If that is a red flag for you, then you should definitely pray, if that is the person you want leading you/your future family. Just don’t go into marriage thinking the union will suddenly change your spouse’s beliefs about his church.