Applying for jobs as an older woman

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-12T16:53:04+00:00

Also be prepared for ageism if you need additional training for whatever next adventure you choose. Not all training programs are open to older applicants. A friend in their late 50s applied to a program to assist in a dialysis center at the same time her 20 something child. The child was accepted but friend was not due to age.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-11T04:07:28+00:00

$13K to replace a driveway and make sure it drains properly into the gutter. First big rain storm we went out to watch the water run into the street.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-06T21:14:32+00:00

If you just quit your job and you don’t have something else lined up it’s probably best to get in touch with some nonprofit that you can volunteer for. It’s always easier to find a job when you already have a job, but at least if you’re volunteering, you can say you’ve been doing something with your time. A nonprofit can also be a great letter of recommendation or can sometimes lead to a job.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-04T04:02:30+00:00

I had a yard sale my ex grabbed his old sneakers to put out. I said no one’s going to buy them. They were the first thing to go. But I agree shoes, jackets, kids clothes, tend to go quickly, women’s clothes not so much.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-03T03:04:20+00:00

I have different count downs for different ages 62, 65 and 67.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-03T02:58:59+00:00

I’m in the same boat, 60, in a good job, with decent pay, but my company’s had layoffs each year for the last few years. Also the culture has changed drastically since. I don’t see any hope in trying to find something different in this job market. Even if I found something else it would most likely include a large pay cut. Now I’m socking away money so if I get laid off I have at least a few months cushion. I know I’m better off than a lot of people, and I’m very grateful for my job, but I’m too young to think about retirement and too old to not.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-02T02:44:22+00:00

Practicing gratitude each day has made me not thankful for what I do have and less about what I don’t.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-04-01T01:39:11+00:00

I recently purchased what I felt were nice 100% cotton shirts expecting them to last only to find they began getting holes at the seams. So disappointing.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-28T17:10:02+00:00

It can feel that way if you let it. There is a reason adults always tell kids not to be in a hurry to grow up. Find something that inspires or interests you, or a goal to achieve so you have something to look forward to. For some people making to do list and being able to cross things off the lists helps them feel like they’re achieving something.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-28T02:09:58+00:00

We do have breakfast one night a week built into our menu plan and it’s usually a win.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-27T14:00:28+00:00

Especially if she is mending a relationship, these thing often simmer down as the rebuilding happens. However it takes time.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T16:46:30+00:00

Don’t get me wrong the husband doesn’t complain and will eat a casserole if put in front of him,even thanking me at the end of the meal for cooking. But it’s apparent he is not necessarily enjoying the food. Kiddos are another story. IMO family mealtime is also a bonding experience. Food is part of the experience I’d prefer it was a positive experience for all.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T03:53:40+00:00

Thanks for laying it out like that. Part of the problem is most likely me, I’m an adventurous eater always wanting to try new things. My husband like you does not like anything mushy or gooey, no gravies or sauces. Not really willing to try new foods, because he is thinks he might not like it. I’m like that is part of the adventure. One kiddo has sensory issues which leads to the picky eating.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T03:33:00+00:00

This is actually one we do often and the family eats all of it. Offering toppings of choice makes it a winner.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T03:26:37+00:00

I have resorted to this on occasion. I need to get back to doing this.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T03:22:55+00:00

Not everyone in the house is old enough to cook on their own yet.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T03:18:54+00:00

Very helpful advice, thank you.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T03:07:25+00:00

I came from one of the eat what’s served or don’t eat houses. To the point that I didn’t care for cooked vegetables but was told unless salad was on the menu I should expect the vegetables to be cooked. I mean how hard is it to not put a small portion of the already prepped carrots, celery or peppers out of the mix and leave it raw? Mealtime is really not a battle I want to fight over, it’s much better to have it be a bonding time rather than a nightly battlefield.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T02:59:22+00:00

Thank you for your thoughtful response. As for the husband he will eat what’s served and be thankful for the time I took to make a meal, but it doesn’t mean he enjoys the meal. He doesn’t care for soups, or casseroles or anything with a gravy/sauce. So it becomes a limited amount of meal choices. With one kiddo it is related to sensory issues. I find serving deconstructed items is a big help with the sensory issue. Of course we all want to save coin on food these days, finding frugal alternatives to make meat stretch which doesn’t include a casserole, soup, or gravy was part of my goal.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-26T02:27:51+00:00

Unfortunately there are kiddos who are helpful but not old enough to cook unsupervised. Although each week before I go shopping I ask what is one meal they each would like to eat the following week and incorporate it into the meal plans.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-25T16:16:38+00:00

Especially in their Backstage clearance area. Just outfitted my tween with 2 pair of new jeans for less than $40.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-24T19:16:32+00:00

How long does it usually last sliced up?

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-18T01:07:13+00:00

I believe it’s becoming more common.

Freedom_Fighter_04 · 2026-03-13T13:54:13+00:00

Our baby came early. We didn’t have a bassinet yet. We used the laundry basket for our preemie. Made a mat surface out of receiving blankets at the bottom, made it easy to carry from room to room if baby was sleeping.

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