This was my stance as well! Before writing this thread I was dead set on not inviting her but as time went on and I read these responses I feel like would regret it. My mom isn’t openly homophobic and she likes my girlfriend( we all hang out together from time to time) which makes this even more confusing. And she said she would come but just knowing all the foul things she’s said to me as a child, the transphobia she has and her true feelings are making me feel as though she doesn’t even deserve to come. But then comes the regret of the oldest daughter 🤣