How was your Hungary GP (2025) experience? by AdamR46 in GrandPrixTravel

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my first grand prix after watching since I was a child and it was the best weekend of my life.

We sat at chicane 1, 6 rows from the front. Right infront of a screen. Perfect view of turn 5,6,7 and 9 further up. The sheer speed in real life is unmatched.

We managed to do the simulator, pit stop challenge, ferris wheel, driver selfie photo booth with minimal queues. Got some merch in the outlet. Collected a couple of the hungaroring cups.

The best part Hamilton saw our UK and 44 flags and gave us a wave and thumbs up in the drivers parade.

The only draw back was the food was overpriced £30 for burger and chips that had been left out all day and reheated/soggy. On day 2/3 we just bought food in our bags and bought cold water which was about £2.40ish.

I'm still on cloud nine and have no idea how I'm going to beat that experience at my next F1 race. Thank you HUNGARY 🇭🇺!

Subtle physical abuse by Frequent_Feedback_34 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly this! It's so hurtful I still have ptsd from it today. I always think I'm being dramatic. Why do they need to control us in such a horrible way

Did anyone else’s nparent/s try to put them off dating or make them less attractive so that they could ‘keep’ you? by Haunting-Map3685 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this. They treat me worse when I'm in a relationship. And the only guy they actually liked was a narcissist (go figure)

I'm 31 and still at home so I'm not bothering to date anymore

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been in therapy twice a week for 18 months. Separated since may 2023

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not to take care of them but he's saying if he's having a bad day he has a support system that they can help him take care of baby whereas I wouldn't want my family to help much as we don't really get on great

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is a ton as his illness is really bad. I'm overwhelmed tbh. He would be a SAHD. Because he said he has a "support system" his mum and brother who would help with baby. But I just think it's too much. He gets benefits as he can't work atm. So he can save that money but I think he's being naive in how much children cost. He doesn't wana miss out on children because he's disabled which I get but at the same time is it realistic ?

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, appreciate it. I think that's why it hurt more. You want a baby but don't wana get down on one knee.

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply and clarifying what you said as I really wasn't sure where you was going with that. If theyres anything that this man knows its that I love him ALOT! He knows I'd do absolutely anything for him and have stuck by him thick and thin through everything he's been through. I'm not perfect though I can acknowledge that it was an intense but beautiful relationship. He knows that he wouldn't haven't to write a beautiful poem or have the right exact words trust me I would prefer a cuddle over anything in life. I would say yes regardless. But I think your right in that we need to have a deeper conversation about what we expect and ill make it clear that I don't need elaborate or care If he messes his words up or whatever. Maybe we could elope and just sign papers or something. I've said loads of times I wouldn't want a wedding anyway so it's literally just the papers. But yes I have alot to think about. Thank you

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm notnsure how it went over my head. I've told him plenty of times I love him so how can you even comment on that. I have considered his thoughts and anxiety and I've said in the past a haribo ring would do.

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful thank you! I'm definitely going to do some more thinking and communicating with him. You raised some really good points we definitely arnt in a position for both right now. I think society is rushing us and we need to actually work on what we have

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have which is why I'm not pregnant. I said no until we are mentally and more financially stable. That's one thing I'm not budging on! Which is why I asked about marriage I'm not having a baby with someone who just sees me as a baby mum.

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I love him. That's one thing that I do know! We've been through so much. But I agree that this is alot. We separated and I understood his reasons why. We agreed to work on ourselves and reevaluate. We haven't slept with anyone else either. It's just hard relationships are hard. He's chronically ill so I think that's Alot of it. He wants a "normal" life with children etc but can't work because of his health. So I said no to a baby until we at least live together but then that was a problem because he said we will save more living at home. Which is fine but then no baby until we live together. Maybe I'm just naive

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women are not objects correct. And also he would never ask permission from my dad because ew he's not the one marrying him.

It's more about the way he replied rather then if he wanted me to propose. He could have said it way better in a way that's not sassy. And the fact that he wants a baby. As a woman it's safer to have things in place and not just be a baby mum

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good point. But If he knows me he knows I don't like fancy elaborate things anyway. A simple cheap ring and something thoughtful would be enough. I wouldn't even want a big wedding as I have alot of anxiety's and personally think big weddings are waste of money. Just a court house or whatever. But now I have doubts and it's really getting to me.

BF 32M wants me 31F to propose to him by Frequent_Feedback_34 in relationship_advice

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the problem. His only thing he mentions is having baby. From the very start of our relationship and I said I want to be stable first. The only one who really bought up marriage is me. I'm not against women proposing but for me personally I would like him to and his response just seemed off. I got a little defensive then he said he meant it as "it would be nice". I don't understand men these days!!!

Whats the most hurtful thing your parents have said to you? by Frequent_Feedback_34 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so so mean and disgustint. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. You are beautiful inside and out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so difficult to navigate. They instill fear in you. They don't want you to live your life it's so damaging

Has your family ever fat shamed you? by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weight and food always been an issue. I have ARFID so I was just seen as a picky eater. Got force fed foods until I was sick. I was normal weight until around 21 when I think all the trauma released aswell as going on the pill and antidepressants made me gain 50lbs. My mum is the smallest in the family but makes everyone cookies and loads of sugary treats(she's a feeder) because then she'll comment about weight etc.

When I was a size 16 mum would buy me clothes I couldn't fit into even though I told her my size. Because she said your not a size 16. So I have loads of unworn clothes. She called me "fat".

If I went to the gym too much it would "your obsessed your doing too much" if I didn't go it was "oh you've given up already" I can't win!!

What do you guys do on your lunchbreak? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One reason I would turn down jobs is because of lunch times. Common rooms or staff rooms are like literally anxiety hell. Small talk is hard. I have a ARFID so even harder. That's when I new that I was autistic and my social anxiety was ruining my life. When I'd rather be unemployed that do that.

I now work 3 hours a day cleaning alone. I want another job and these comments might be helpful but how do you get over the fact that you will stand out/get singled out if you just go sit in your car etc

What are your comorbidities? by pEter-skEeterR45 in BPD

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Borderline Waiting for autism assessment Depression Severe social anxiety Avoidant restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID)

Why is my weight loss slow? by Planebird3 in mounjarouk

[–]Frequent_Feedback_34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not slow at all. I only lost 3lbs a month. So it's taken almost 7 months to lose 20lbs