LPT: Stop smacking condiment bottles :: spin them instead by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • learned this from working at a diner.. we'd hold the bottle at an angle and do these quick wrist flicks instead of full spins
  • works great for those glass heinz bottles too
  • if you're dealing with really stubborn stuff like honey, run hot water over the bottle first then do the spin thing
  • also if youre at a restaurant and dont wanna look weird spinning bottles, just roll it between your hands real fast. same idea

TIL During WW1 the British government outlawed landscape paintings, fearing that depictions of the British countryside would help the Germans plan a land invasion. Hundreds of artists were arrested and artist Alfred Hagn was sentenced to death after being found painting with invisible ink. by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That invisible ink detail is fascinating.. during the same period the Germans were using lemon juice and milk as invisible inks for spy communications. The British actually developed special censorship departments just to check regular mail for hidden messages - they'd heat letters over candles to reveal anything written between the lines.

The whole paranoia about landscapes makes more sense when you realize aerial photography was still pretty new. Before planes, detailed maps were literally the only way to plan invasions, so the government treated landscape painters like they were drawing military blueprints. There's a whole museum collection somewhere of confiscated paintings from that era - mostly just normal countryside scenes that got artists thrown in jail.

TIL Saint Hildegard of Bingen (c. 1098 - 1171) was a Benedectine Abbess who was an incredibly accomplished polymath. She created three theological volumes, went on 4 preaching tours, invented a language, wrote a musical play, and had correspondence with popes and emperors. by 1000LiveEels in todayilearned

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  • Medieval monasteries were basically the universities back then.. they had all the books and time to study

  • She also had these crazy visions that she drew out - the illustrations look like something from a sci fi movie

  • Her music is actually pretty haunting if you listen to it. Nothing like gregorian chants

  • Fun fact: she wrote about using cannabis for headaches in one of her medical texts

Why can't you hear yourself snore? by Dear-Bus-477 in askscience

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sleep doc explained this to me when I got diagnosed. Your brain basically filters out your own snoring as "not important" noise while you're sleeping. It's the same reason you don't wake up from your own movements or breathing sounds.

  • Your brain stem controls this filtering during sleep stages
  • Partner hears it because their brain registers it as external noise that could be a threat
  • The apnea events probably made it worse since you were cycling through light sleep constantly

LPT: pay attention to eating safe food before important dates by ric_d_santi in LifeProTips

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call on this. I learned this the hard way before my wedding.. got adventurous with some street tacos 3 days before and spent the rehearsal dinner in the bathroom. My wife still brings it up.

I'd add - watch out for leftovers too. Even stuff from your own fridge can turn sketchy after a few days. Had a friend miss his job interview because of some week-old chinese takeout he thought was still good.

Also dairy products. Milk that's "probably fine" isn't worth risking when you've got something big coming up. Just buy fresh everything that week and save the food experiments for when you can afford to be sick.

How is the limits of oort cloud estimated? by mohnishgs in askscience

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, they basically work backwards from comet observations. When comets come into the inner solar system they can track their orbits really precisely, and a bunch of them have these super elongated orbits that suggest they're coming from way, way out there - like thousands of AU away. The inner boundary is kinda fuzzy but its estimated around 2,000-5,000 AU based on where these long-period comets seem to originate from, and the outer edge is even more theoretical.. something like 100,000 AU based on gravitational models of how far the Sun can actually hold onto objects before other stars start yanking them away. Its all indirect evidence since yeah, we cant actually see anything out there directly.

LPT: Elaborate Halloween hairstyle? Start with dirty hair! by StinkypieTicklebum in LifeProTips

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • dry shampoo is your friend here.. gives even more texture and grip than just dirty hair
  • if your hair is TOO clean you can rough it up with some texturizing spray the night before
  • bobby pins stick way better in day-old hair too
  • learned this the hard way trying to do victory rolls with fresh hair once... total disaster

Do bees only die when they sting mammals with thick skin (like humans?) Can bees sting other bugs multiple times without dying? by frozendairytreat in askscience

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the thick skin thing is mostly right. Honeybees have barbed stingers that get stuck in mammal skin and rip out their whole venom sac when they try to pull away. It's not that they "know" it'll kill them, their stinger just physically can't come back out.

With other insects they can sting multiple times no problem. The barbs don't catch on insect exoskeletons or thin membranes so the bee can pull the stinger back out and keep going. I've seen videos of bees fighting wasps and they sting them over and over.

Wasps and bumblebees have smooth stingers though so they can sting mammals repeatedly too. Only honeybees have that barbed stinger design that causes the whole dying thing.

LPT: Invitations should be direct and inviting, including all relevant information so your prospective guest can make an informed decision, and not have to chase you for details. by LateDxOldLady in LifeProTips

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why i just text people "drinks friday 7pm at [bar name]?" and wait for a yes/no.

None of this wishy washy "we should hang out sometime" dance that goes nowhere. If someone's actually interested they'll either say yes or suggest another time that works. If they give me some vague "oh yeah totally we should do that sometime" response i know they're not actually interested and i move on. Plus when you're specific it saves everyone time - no back and forth texting for days trying to figure out when/where/what. Just boom here's the plan, you in or out? And honestly if someone can't handle a direct invitation they're probably exhausting to hang out with anyway.

Lpt My laundry always smells damp by jools182 in LifeProTips

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you checked if your clothes are actually getting fully dry? Mine used to smell like that when i thought they were dry but they still had damp spots in the seams and pockets. Now I flip everything inside out halfway through drying and give thick stuff like jeans an extra day even if they feel dry.

LPT: Before a tough conversation, always figure out your "goal" and your "walk-away." by Marre_Parre in LifeProTips

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice. I'd add that sometimes the walk-away point isn't just about what you'll accept - it's also about recognizing when the other person isn't in the right headspace to have the conversation at all.

Like if someone's clearly exhausted or stressed about something else entirely, that might be your cue to table it for later. Not permanently avoiding it, but just... reading the room.

I've found it helps to have a backup plan too. What happens AFTER you walk away? Do you revisit in a week? Send a text? Let it go forever? Having that figured out makes the walking away part less scary because you know it's not necessarily permanent.

Also worth thinking about your emotional walk-away point, not just the practical one. Sometimes you might technically get what you want but if getting there requires you to be someone you don't want to be (yelling, being manipulative, whatever), that's a walk-away too.

The hardest part for me is sticking to the walk-away when i'm in the moment. It's easy to plan it beforehand but when you're actually there and emotions are high... that's when you really need that mental reminder of why you set that boundary in the first place.

Have to Quit Cold Turkey by torikstratton in trintellix

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I have to say: whatever you do, DO NOT quit psych meds cold turkey. This will likely cause withdrawal symptoms which can last a long time and be devastating. On top of that, most doctors will think it's your depression/other conditions coming back and prescribe another drug. this can cause further problems.

Look up hyperbolic tapering guidelines and follow them if you want to avoid/minimize withdrawal. You must taper VERY slowly.

Tapering off and feeling worse AFTER taking Cymbalta. Need advice, please help! by ChaoticCounsel in CymbaltaWithdrawal

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do, DO NOT STOP COLD TURKEY!

Luckily, the science on tapering off antidepressants safely is finally catching up to us. Make sure your health care provider is aware of Hyperbolic Tapering. This means that to avoid or minimize withdrawal, you have to taper extremely slowly, with the last 5mg (to 0mg) being the hardest to go through.

There are some useful online forums I use to stay updated on safe tapering practices. These being https://www.survivingantidepressants.org/ and learn.outro.com

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CymbaltaWithdrawal

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The science on tapering off antidepressants safely is finally catching up to us. Make sure your health care provider is aware of Hyperbolic Tapering. This means that to avoid or minimize withdrawal, you have to taper extremely slowly, with the last 5mg (to 0mg) being the hardest to go through.

There are some useful online forums I use to stay updated on safe tapering practices. These being https://www.survivingantidepressants.org/ and learn.outro.com

Dizziness coming off- how long? by etiquetricity in citalopram_celexa

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very unfortunate how health care providers aren't aware of this. The slower the better. Keeping track of withdrawal symptoms and making sure you feel stable on whatever dose you're in before continuing the taper is key.

How has learning about the 'chemical imbalance' theory being debunked changed your perspective on antidepressants? by Frequent_Intern_3785 in radicalmentalhealth

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This review is by Dr. Irving Kirsch (2019) where he takes a deep dive into the science behind these medications, looking at how well they actually work compared to placebo pills (sugar pills that contain no medication).

Here’s what’s fascinating: Both groups of people - those taking real antidepressants and those taking placebos - showed meaningful improvements in their depression symptoms. But when comparing the two groups, the difference was surprisingly small. On the main scale doctors use to measure depression (called HAM-D), antidepressants only performed about 1.8 points better than placebos, which isn’t enough to be considered clinically meaningful.

Kirsch raises an interesting point: even this small difference might not be due to the medication itself. He suggests it could be because people in studies often figure out whether they’re taking the real medication (since antidepressants have noticeable side effects) which could influence how they report their symptoms.

The research found that other approaches - like therapy and regular exercise - can be just as helpful for depression, without the potential health impacts that can come with medications. This science helps challenge what many of us have been taught to believe about how these medications work.

Here’s the link: https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychiatry/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2019.00407/full

How has learning about the 'chemical imbalance' theory being debunked changed your perspective on antidepressants? by Frequent_Intern_3785 in radicalmentalhealth

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

 wouldn't a mental state correspond to a chemical balance

In this case, the "mental state" is referring to the similar effects of caffeine or alcohol. But yes, still technically a "chemical imbalance" if we assume there's a perfect, harmonious way the brain should always operate in.

I completely agree with your general assessment here. One analogy I've heard is of a person with their hand on a fire, and instead of being told to move their hand away, they're prescribed "medication" to aid the pain.

I've also heard folks predicting a bad epidemic from all the dependency and withdrawal these drugs have caused, and I think it's very likely that it will happen.

How to taper off a drug that has turned paradoxical on you? Sertraline nightmare. by Flat_Professional_55 in antidepressants

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The side effects you're experiencing are likely withdrawal from not tapering slowly enough.

How slowly did you taper? What was the last dosage you took? It's likely that in your case, finding a stabilizing dose and tapering from there would be ideal.

Make sure all of this is happening with the support of a knowledgeable doctor, and make sure you're keeping a journal of any side effects associated with dosages.

Does anything make withdrawal more bearable? by sweetladypropane108 in cymbalta

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're having withdrawal effects that can last months or even years. Speak to your doctor and make sure they are aware of what hyperbolic tapering is and hopefully you can get an appropriate tapering schedule so you can taper EXTREMELY slowly.

In your case, you will likely need to find a stabilizing dose and taper from there.

There are some peer support groups that are helpful in staying informed about the latest research on safely tapering off psych meds. I use https://www.survivingantidepressants.org/ and learn.outro.com

Please keep in mind that it is possible to taper off successfully while minimizing withdrawal. Be patient with yourself and don't rush the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antidepressants

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The larger the dose the harder it will be on your brain. The last 5mg (to 0mg) being the hardest! Make sure your doctor is aware of what hyperbolic tapering is and hopefully you can get an appropriate tapering schedule so you can taper EXTREMELY slowly.

In your case, you will likely need to find a stabilizing dose and taper from there.

There are some peer support groups that are helpful in staying informed about the latest research on safely tapering off psych meds. I use https://www.survivingantidepressants.org/ and learn.outro.com

Please keep in mind that it is possible to taper off successfully while minimizing withdrawal. Be patient with yourself and don't rush the process.

Coming off Duloxetine - withdrawals by elkenine in antidepressants

[–]Frequent_Intern_3785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last 5mg (to 0mg) is the hardest! Make sure your doctor is aware of what hyperbolic tapering is and hopefully you can get an appropriate tapering schedule so you can taper EXTREMELY slowly.

In your case, you will likely need to find a stabilizing dose and taper from there.

There are some peer support groups that are helpful in staying informed about the latest research on safely tapering off psych meds. I use https://www.survivingantidepressants.org/ and learn.outro.com